Discussion Have you accepted that you wont have a gf

[AutistSupremacist]

Idk. At times I feel as if I am done with trying or waiting as I believe it will never come and at others, I believe it will happen and I just have to remain optimistic. I've spoken with people who have quit finding love entirely and cope with other things and then there's people who insist they must wait. But how long can one wait until they finally meet someone?

 

[VideoGameCoper]

Yeah I gave up trying but it still sucks and will for the rest of my life unless I get one

 

[solblue]

Yea, might join a religious order when I turn 30.

 

[NiggerAnnihilator]

guess we’ll see what the future holds

 

[orgcel]

i cope with surgeries that i know deep down i will never be able to afford

 

[PolskiKartofel]

guess we’ll see what the future holds

 

[VλREN]

guess we’ll see what the future holds

 

[Jud Pottah]

Yea, might join a religious order when I turn 30.

the I.N.C.E.L joins U

 

[Steiner_Atlas]

I've figured that the moment I hit 25 then I'll call it quits.

Until then the small chance that I might actually get lucky or succeed in this shitty fucking world keeps me going, the thought of giving up entirely just makes me overwhelmingly depressed.

 

[Deep.Nest]

Somewhat. I know deep down it won't happen but I don't think I've fully come to terms with it. I don't think I can live a fulfilling life where I accept something like this.

 

[curryboy420]

I've figured that the moment I hit 25 then I'll call it quits.

Until then the small chance that I might actually get lucky or succeed in this shitty fucking world keeps me going, the thought of giving up entirely just makes me overwhelmingly depressed.

I'm 27 tho so what do I do

 

[JKlancecaster069]

Yeah I've lost all hope in getting a gf.

 

[Steiner_Atlas]

I'm 27 tho so what do I do

LDAR

 

[manletcel1488]

I can't ever truly accept it, I'm an optimist at heart, even though the rational part of me knows it's likely over.(never even began)

 

[notlovejoe]

Too high t to accept that failure, a young foid gonna carry my seed whatever it takes

 

[Wolnir]

Given up because I'm balding. It's over for me. I would have hope if I didn't have hair loss genetics. I'm 25 and descending hard.

 

[justuseless]

Yes

 

[Azaylias]

ive been here for like 7 years itd be kinda weird if i hadnt

 

[Sex-Starved Beast]

I haven't accepted it because I can't know my future for sure. But I gave up trying, unless I'll get lucky and meet a new foid IRL that I really want to be with, so I can try to ascend with her and probably be humiliated again. At the moment there's nothing to do anyway so I try to focus on my copes or just LDAR.

 

[over768]

guess we’ll see what the future holds

 

[TooSomething]

I have given up and accepted it. Not even a paralyzed sub 5 foid had interrest in me.

She has a dog though. Who knows whether that one is just for help or more.
It was on a dating app. Paralyzed foids are probably also Chad only.

 

[Astronomycel11]

Yeah

 

[guessthatsit]

yes, even if I get one I wont be able to maintain her for long and she would probably cheat on me / break up with me.

 

[Wenhao Xu]

Yeah, I have. But I don't think it's ever something I've actually had to do. I always knew it wasn't going to happen so the thought of it actually happening has never crossed my mind.

 

[ItsovERfucks]

Yes, there's no hope for me

 

[Rapistcel]

Idk. At times I feel as if I am done with trying or waiting as I believe it will never come and at others, I believe it will happen and I just have to remain optimistic. I've spoken with people who have quit finding love entirely and cope with other things and then there's people who insist they must wait. But how long can one wait until they finally meet someone?

Why would I be here if it wasn't the case?

 

[AntoCel]

Yes and no sorta speak. I cant imagine myself even having a relationship with a woman but my monkey brain cant fully accept it (yet, hopefully)

Its like theres a part of my mind that cant comprehend it and still hopes.

Its painful tbh

 

[Anthrofurrcel]

I will never accept it

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Yes

 

[skuter]

concept of having a girlfriend sound so sureal to me that i dont even think about it

 

[kcarrots]

yeah it’s all good at this point

 

[TheGrayWolf]

Yeah a few weeks ago. Well I always knew, but a few weeks ago a sense of acceptance and resignation appeared.
It’s not that I really did anything to „improve“ myself. There’s no point.
I’m approaching 28 fast. I’m very strange looking. I’m very short. I don’t know how to act in social settings. I’m boring.
I don’t see a path. Let alone to a decent gf. And I‘d rather not have a ugly and or fat gf. Don’t get me wrong. They don’t want me, either.

 

[Grodd]

Yes and it kills me

 

[Clavicus Vile]

No, I won’t. The world will answer for this in some way. Even if that means I spend the rest of my life trolling women. But I’m not leaving society alone after all the pain norm shits have caused me.

 

[allDead]

Will never happen for me. I'm 32, and it hasn't happened yet. I gave up a long time ago

 

[ForcedMarriageNow]

Nope, still trying whenever I get a chance after a decade of failure, not much else to do with my life tbh