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Have people ever asked you “why don’t you have a girlfriend?”

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Or why aren’t you married?
 
Yes.

Obviously they're all blue-pilled
 
Only when I was young, my grandmother would ask me. Also aunts and uncles would ask this question.

My parents never asked, they knew it was over from the start.

Now that I'm thinking about it, I just remembered something. I remember one time in the 2nd grade, I told my mother I had a crush on a girl in my class. She was so happy, she anticipated my success. It's suifuel to think about this now, seeing what I've become. Knowing how much I failed, not only myself, but also my family.
 
No, they just look at my face and they have their answer... If they ask you, you're probably not ugly enough to be incel.
 
All the time. I used to get asked all the time in high school and college, and I still get asked frequently at work and at church. They usually include worthless platitudes such as "but you're a young attractive guy Storm, you should be able to get all kinds of women" and other things of the like. Sorry folks, it wasn't like it was when you were my age (especially true of the old folks at church)... women are absolutely disgusting as a whole today and are not attracted to anyone but the top 20%, which is not me.

Maybe I can be a walking blackpill for these people... That 4/10 men like me aren't getting laid anymore due to tinder, feminism, and cuck enabling. Who knows.
 
Yes, but i don't want to give them a straight answer to all of them at least...Sometimes i feel sad or angry to aswer , especially when random guys at work or gym asks me. I don't care about family members oppinion so much as i care for strangers. Because then i will give them a resson to point a finger at me.
 
No , nobody cares
 
Only when I was younger
 
My family only. I wonder why.

It's fucked up when I'm dragged to some wedding and the old fucks ask the good ol' "when will we attend YOUR wedding". Sorry, I'll probably attend your funeral before that happens.
 
Earlier in hs when I had nice looking hair, yeah my mom would ask me if I were dating. Then earlier this year (19 yrs old, with a buzzcut) she just says to me, "Hey, you should pursue boxing, lots of short guys do well in it."

I give any one of you guys permission to blow my brains out
 
Yes, multiple times.
 
No,i dont know people who would ask such a question.
 
My family members always ask even though the answer is clear as day
 
No and I think that’s worse. It means just thinking about me with a girl is impossible to them.
 
I've had (male) friends tell me they didn't understand why I've never had a girlfriend. They also strongly believed that looks didn't matter and completely dismissed the issue when I brought it up.
 
No, they never asked. All the people that I know have always told me I'm ugly, so they know what is the reason that I do not have a girlfriend.
 
My family ask me all the time. I made my parents some speech about overpopulation, ecology and violent behaviors observed on stressed mouses to justify the fact that I live like a monk.
 
This. I honestly hate this question. There's time when sometimes I get mad at family for asking. I don't really see anyone anymore bit when I do I know it's going to come up. "So do you have a girlfriend?" Or "When are you going to bring a girl to meet us" or "When are you going to give us grandkids."

Maybe it's biology but a mother's love doesn't allow her to see what an ugly mistake I turned out to be. I don't feel like she understands that aside from her and my grandmother no one has ever called me handsome or good-looking. She can't seem to get that her son is undesirable. I've always been treated more like an object, simply undateble by women, rather than a person.

Resentment had gotten the better of me and once I lost my usual cool and told her it was never going to happen and after awhile she got me alone and gathered the courage to ask if I was gay. I don't even know how to explain to her it's not that I'm gay or that I don't want a partner, it's that females will never and have never wanted me. It's not something anyone seems to understand and it's obnoxious how dismissive people are about this fact.
 
Or why aren’t you married?

Yes. Family members are the worst ones for this ngl.

At work they assume I'm gay and haven't come out the closet nor do they prod me though.

They just keep quiet. So no need for the blackpill.
 
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Family members never really asked me. I'd get it from people I know occasionally, to which I reply with the self-depreciating "because I'm ugly and autismal", which makes them change the subject really fast. I've learned that honesty is the strongest weapon a low-status male has.
 
Resentment had gotten the better of me and once I lost my usual cool and told her it was never going to happen and after awhile she got me alone and gathered the courage to ask if I was gay.

The same happened to me ... It came to the point where a gay friend once asked me if I was gay in order to test some sexual positions with me. :feelsbadman:
 
My parents never ask me this because they're convinced I'm a good Christian who is avoiding women.
 
I sense they want to, but are either afraid I will go ER or feel pity for me.
 
Yeah, 15 years ago..... I figure by now people have worked out just how hopeless I am.
 
No they can look at me and see why
 
Yes. I'm just honest about it - I tell them I can't get one.
 
N E V E R

I have never been asked this question in my entire life and I always knew it was because everyone assumes I couldn't possibly have one.
 
Not so much luckily
 
Yes. My mom often asks me if I had a gf. Of course, I always reply with a "no". And here's the worst part. She always says that I'm 10/10 gigachad. It's impossible for me to be unwanted by girls. She's so bluepilled that she even proceeds to say that I have good genes from her. And as a good child, I only smile knowing that I get my incel traits from her
 
At least once a week I get asked that.
 
Right after I turned 18 and went on meds, my mom have the audacity to start asking why I didn't have girlfriend. I'm very career oriented so I just used the excuse of being an obsessive artist
 
Only some family members ask that. I always give the typical MGTOW response.
 
Yes.
- I tell them I don't cut it in looks to get a gf

- They laugh and say "you are pretty handsome, you will eventually"

- I ask them when

- "Before you know it"

*Literally same story repeats itself with everyone*
Aight boys imma get a girl anytime now. 21 years went by but that's nothing because I am gonna get a girl and bang like crazy before I even know it. JFL
 
Im sick of this question since its just my business, not others. once I replied honestly that just look at my face and see the answer but he is not able to face with the fact coz he was a bluepilled normie cuck.
 
just complain to them that you're mad about not having a girlfriend and it's upsetting you

the next times they call they'll tell you not to worry about it so much and that it's not everything
 
I recall a chap, must have been in his mid 60's at the time, and asked me if I was in a relationship. So I told him no. Then afterwards he asked have you ever had a relationship. Again, I told him no. The shock in his eyes was priceless.
 
I've learned that honesty is the strongest weapon a low-status male has.
So true bro. Never excuse for anything, say it straight to their fucking face, they feel more awkward with it than you.
 
I tell them it's fucking over, and that even though I'm decent looking even ugly fatties think to themselves as too good for me...
I recall a chap, must have been in his mid 60's at the time, and asked me if I was in a relationship. So I told him no. Then afterwards he asked have you ever had a relationship. Again, I told him no. The shock in his eyes was priceless.
Fucking Boomer was fucking Stacy's at the sexual hippy revolution in the 60's, and now we're stuck with the consequences of their degenarcy...
Yes. My mom often asks me if I had a gf. Of course, I always reply with a "no". And here's the worst part. She always says that I'm 10/10 gigachad. It's impossible for me to be unwanted by girls. She's so bluepilled that she even proceeds to say that I have good genes from her. And as a good child, I only smile knowing that I get my incel traits from her
Did she tell you you're so good looking that foids feel intimidated to approach you?
 
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N E V E R

I have never been asked this question in my entire life and I always knew it was because everyone assumes I couldn't possibly have one.
 
When people ask that, it's an indirect insult. They know it's an insult, they love feeling superior and laughing at you, that's why they ask it.
 
no one has ever asked me this
 
When people ask that, it's an indirect insult. They know it's an insult, they love feeling superior and laughing at you, that's why they ask it.
Sadly I feel this way too. Fucking losers.
 

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