I had to end my manic episode in a psych ward, it took 2 weeks. That's a place where you can find a woman for sure. I was orbited by 1 ugly 1/10 female psychopath who was a coal burner that also abused black dudes financially and 1 otherwise ok 3/10 female but she had set her apartment on fire because she wanted some attention so what I'm saying is that you end up having bigger troubles if you're really desperate, you don't want to burn alive do you. I was not fat during that time and I was super confident because of my mania.
But I can't say if the psych ward is good place for you. TBH I wouldn't go there because of the depression. I can't imagine how you would be better after 1 week in a psych ward.