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Discussion Has any user here gone stereotypical "nice guy" phase of his life?

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How was your experience of being a nice guy and when did you realise the truth?
 
Women want nice guys around them so they can use them for stuff. Nice guys will help them, buy them shit, etc but women will never give anything in return.
Nice guys are cucks.
Even chads hate women so hating women is the only rational thing to do
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Iam still a nice guy but i refuse to do nice things for foids without sex.
 
Women want nice guys around them so they can use them for stuff. Nice guys will help them, buy them shit, etc but women will never give anything in return.
Nice guys are cucks.
Even chads hate women so hating women is the only rational thing to do
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Nice guys are thirsty cucks.

Iam still a nice guy but i refuse to do nice things for foids without sex.
Same here
 
Same here

Funny how being nice in today's soyciety has a negative connotation. An ugly guy being nice = wants to get in her pants. Chad has little incentive to be nice and hes just honest about what he wants and gets it.
 
Funny how being nice in today's soyciety has a negative connotation. An ugly guy being nice = wants to get in her pants. Chad has little incentive to be nice and hes just honest about what he wants and gets it.
Lookist soyciety where an ugly has to show proof and still it isn't considered enough by soyciety.
 
I tried it before and failed
 
i failed. what answer were you expecting bro?
 
I'm pretty sure most, if not all incels used to be in their childhood and early teenage years, because we are decent human beings.

It's not until our patience wears thin with our autistic families and our blood starts to boil in our later school years when we finally snap.

And foids continue to call us evil assholes, the irony thing is that foids are the reason we are like this.
 
I'm pretty sure most, if not all incels used to be in their childhood and early teenage years, because we are decent human beings.

It's not until our patience wears thin with our autistic families and our blood starts to boil in our later school years when we finally snap.

And foids continue to call us evil assholes, the irony thing is that foids are the reason we are like this.
Holes are one of the main and important causes behind all this.
 
Was a nice guy till I realised the true nature of foids
 
No.

I never went out of my way to help someone on my own initiative. But I never went out of my way to make someone else's life worse, either. I've never been under the impression that if I open a door or tip a fedora, that I will ascend.

What even is a "nice guy" phase?
 
Been thru that phase, just wished I was blackpilled from the start, I made a fool out of myself by trying to talk to foids, and by stepping out of my boundary, for the most part, how you look is how people will treat you and expect you to 'know your place'.

This life is fucking brutal, JFL at the thought where I used to think I stood a chance.
 
Been thru that phase, just wished I was blackpilled from the start, I made a fool out of myself by trying to talk to foids, and by stepping out of my boundary, for the most part, how you look is how people will treat you and expect you to 'know your place'.

This life is fucking brutal, JFL at the thought where I used to think I stood a chance.
At what age do you realise it was all bullshit that'd yield no result?
 
Women want nice guys around them so they can use them for stuff. Nice guys will help them, buy them shit, etc but women will never give anything in return.
Nice guys are cucks.
Even chads hate women so hating women is the only rational thing to do
2148-94a237c1bf6eb5db36c8b7245ece174b.jpg
 
I'm pretty sure most, if not all incels used to be in their childhood and early teenage years, because we are decent human beings.

It's not until our patience wears thin with our autistic families and our blood starts to boil in our later school years when we finally snap.

And foids continue to call us evil assholes, the irony thing is that foids are the reason we are like this.
 
I was led on for 3 years and destroyed mentally and socially for it, only to be told I never had a chance to begin with
Sad shit, man. This is why blackpill should be taught from early age.
 
At what age do you realise it was all bullshit that'd yield no result?
I'd say 22/23 when I found out r/incels from r/FA. Suddenly everything made sense, I could relate and understand almost everything being said, it explained the predicament I was in(still am)even the terminology used e.g. chads staceys, mog etc. It was like finding new terms and words to describe what I have experienced but previously didn't know how to describe them.

It wasn't because I said something wrong, wasn't because of my personality, wasn't because I wasn't doing this right, that right, that too much or that too little. It was LOOKS MONEY STATUS. :feelscry: I feel, like many incels, maybe knew this all along in a tiny part of our minds but never dared to confront it, the blackpill was just explicit in removing the wool covering our eyes.

Everything made sense and came together naturally.
 
I'd say 22/23 when I found out r/incels from r/FA. Suddenly everything made sense, I could relate and understand almost everything being said, it explained the predicament I was in(still am)even the terminology used e.g. chads staceys, mog etc. It was like finding new terms and words to describe what I have experienced but previously didn't know how to describe them.

It wasn't because I said something wrong, wasn't because of my personality, wasn't because I wasn't doing this right, that right, that too much or that too little. It was LOOKS MONEY STATUS. :feelscry: I feel, like many incels, maybe knew this all along in a tiny part of our minds but never dared to confront it, the blackpill was just explicit in removing the wool covering our eyes.

Everything made sense and came together naturally.
True, glad you realise before it was too late.
 
I was a nice guy,and a beta cuck,are you happy now? but hey I was ignorant and pretty young
 
I was led on for 3 years and destroyed mentally and socially for it, only to be told I never had a chance to begin with
how many chads do you think nailed her in the 3 years you were led on for?
 
My chadfishing strongly suggests that even chad has to be nice to foids to get sex. IMO the "bad boy"/thug stuff is supremely overstated.
 
I was definitely a nicer person not for attention from women but in general blackpill definitely had an influence my way of acting around women for sure. I just go with to one word answers with women. I used to smile and say have a good day no matter what but it was, now that I hve stopped doing it realized, draining. niceness is disgusting to women anyways so I wasn't doing anyone any favor. if anything my new way of behaving around them must be more attractive now that I treat them like they're pieces of shit.
 
My chadfishing strongly suggests that even chad has to be nice to foids to get sex. IMO the "bad boy"/thug stuff is supremely overstated.


Care to elaborate?

IMO if you chadfish and have to be nice to keep their attention, they're just wasting your time and where never interested in the first place.
 
Being nice guy is the worst thing i could have been, it was a mini-cuck tbh, but the BP arrive and change my way of seeing things
 
My chadfishing strongly suggests that even chad has to be nice to foids to get sex. IMO the "bad boy"/thug stuff is supremely overstated.

When i chadfished some bitches i've just told them "hey, you have a really nice mouth" and then either they said "in order to kiss you better" (and that was easy game) or i'd added "do you like to used it".

It worked, many times.
 
I gave up before discovering the :blackpill:
 
Yes, before finding the blackpill i used to go out of my way to help not only women but people in general, hoping that this would get me friends and girls.
 
I was definitely a nicer person not for attention from women but in general blackpill definitely had an influence my way of acting around women for sure. I just go with to one word answers with women. I used to smile and say have a good day no matter what but it was, now that I hve stopped doing it realized, draining. niceness is disgusting to women anyways so I wasn't doing anyone any favor.
Yes, before finding the blackpill i used to go out of my way to help not only women but people in general, hoping that this would get me friends and girls.
 
Having autism I never had the “nice” phase. Even as a kid I would cringe at seeing guys do that. I have always been brutally honest and with brutal honesty comes the inability to ever be a “nice guy” because being a nice guys involved a lot of bullshitting and doing things you wouldn’t do normally, and doing things you wouldn’t do normally isn’t something an autistic does. The nice guy phenomenon is purely a neurotypical thing
 
I was a nice guy until I found out about PUA when I was like 21, this is one reason why I don't like to bash PUA as much as some other people here. I never spent money with bootcamps and other scams, so it's cool.

I was friendzoned a couple of times in my late teens and early adulthood, it was truly pathetic. I remember once being so into a girl who used to talk to me on MSN messenger (this was back in 2009) that I misread something she read written and though she wanted me to show up at her school when the classes ended. Luckily, I was so obsessed about her that I reread what she had written minutes before going out to meet her and realized I understood it completely wrong.

This same girl kissed a low-inhib Chadlite who approched her while sitting very close to me in a show of some friends we had in common. I remember watching them kissing and him grabbing her ass. I had been completely in love with her for like almost a year. It was one of the shittiest days of my life, and I was so beta I kept talking to her for a while and didn't even mention how upset I was about that.
 
I mean, I was a good kid until around age 7 or so when the bullying and ostracism at school really kicked into high gear. Very polite, would hold the door for the whole class, et cetera, only to get treated like rotten trash by everyone. I got disillusioned long before I was old enough to want a girlfriend or even know what a girlfriend was. It was also blindingly obvious to me since middle school that the tall good-looking boys got all the pussy regardless of personality. The only difference now is I'm aware of the science backing up everything I've noticed on my own all along.
 
Nice guy = normie term for non-Chad/non-alpha
 
I was a nice guy until I found out about PUA when I was like 21, this is one reason why I don't like to bash PUA as much as some other people here. I never spent money with bootcamps and other scams, so it's cool.

I was friendzoned a couple of times in my late teens and early adulthood, it was truly pathetic. I remember once being so into a girl who used to talk to me on MSN messenger (this was back in 2009) that I misread something she read written and though she wanted me to show up at her school when the classes ended. Luckily, I was so obsessed about her that I reread what she had written minutes before going out to meet her and realized I understood it completely wrong.

This same girl kissed a low-inhib Chadlite who approched her while sitting very close to me in a show of some friends we had in common. I remember watching them kissing and him grabbing her ass. I had been completely in love with her for like almost a year. It was one of the shittiest days of my life, and I was so beta I kept talking to her for a while and didn't even mention how upset I was about that.
Damn, dude. Fuck the brain that deludes us into going in wild goose chase. What happened to her after school? I mean her life after completing school.
I mean, I was a good kid until around age 7 or so when the bullying and ostracism at school really kicked into high gear. Very polite, would hold the door for the whole class, et cetera, only to get treated like rotten trash by everyone. I got disillusioned long before I was old enough to want a girlfriend or even know what a girlfriend was. It was also blindingly obvious to me since middle school that the tall good-looking boys got all the pussy regardless of personality. The only difference now is I'm aware of the science backing up everything I've noticed on my own all along.
True. Evolutionary psychology explains all this well to good extent.
 
yea, i had female “friends” but they thought i was gay
 
I used to be nice mainly to female family members and all they did was use me and ignore my advice and create situations for me that caused me a great deal of stress and with foids in the public I would help not because I wanted something from them but because it was expected from me as it was how I was raised and these foids would treat me like a piece of shit so I hate foids now and all I want is to see them burn as all foids are just a form of cancer that slowly drains mens souls until they are so empty inside that they just want life to end.
 
Wut? How can they think that? It must have been pathetic excuse of theirs to say no.
oh no i never approached them romantically or anything, they brought it up randomly and assumed that i was gay with the reason being that i never had a gf throughout high school lol
 
oh no i never approached them romantically or anything, they brought it up randomly and assumed that i was gay with the reason being that i never had a gf throughout high school lol
Just because you never had a GF throughout high school, you're gay. Holes are retard then. That mean I should assume every girl who's not with guy on street lesbian, lol. I always consider this is an excuse.
 
Damn, dude. Fuck the brain that deludes us into going in wild goose chase. What happened to her after school? I mean her life after completing school.
She's rich. She studied house design, has a little store and is in a relationship with a Chadlite for years now. Last time I talked to her was like 2011 or so, but I saw her on thr streets, in 2017.
 
Yes i was, i tried to help everyone(male or female) and tried being friends with everyone, but nobody has felt the same to me and just took advantage of me.
And now i hate almost everyone and shit on them every chance i get.
 
Women want nice guys around them so they can use them for stuff. Nice guys will help them, buy them shit, etc but women will never give anything in return.
Nice guys are cucks.
Even chads hate women so hating women is the only rational thing to do
2148-94a237c1bf6eb5db36c8b7245ece174b.jpg
 
I was nice to the foids I liked but I never got anything out of it. They paid more attention to how Chad treated them like shit than they paid to my kindness. When I realized this, I stopped being nice to foids I liked and just act neutral now. I don't put them on a pedestal but I also don't treat them like shit. I pretty much treat them how I would treat a stranger.
 

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