No woman was ever going to "love" "you" period, because "love" never existed to begin with (not in the way that society at large pretends it does).
I don't know why people pretend as if a woman "loving" "you" for your attractiveness is any less shallow than a woman "loving" "you" for your money. It's still not "love" as in something "deep" and "meaningful". No woman actually cares about your personality if she isn't physically attracted to you, or she's willing to make a tradeoff because you are rich and can provide a certain lifestyle for her.
"Love" is always rooted at it's core to things that we call "shallow". Humans are a lot more pragmatic than we'd like to convey. As a society we like to craft these narratives that shelter the human ego so that we can keep thinking of ourselves as "not just animals", but our collective actions show otherwise.
Romantic Love is really just
Lust at it's core.
To all the retards who think they "love" their "oneitis", if she was a 300 pound disfigured ugly fuck would you have even "loved" her?. If not, then why do you treat those feelings you have as something so "deep", "meaningful" or "special", when it really all just comes down to her being attractive?.
Dating is really just
Prostitution with extra steps when you take an honest look at it:
Like the title says, dating is just prostitution with extra steps (especially if you aren't an attractive man). As a man you are really just paying for the transportation, food, drinks, entertainment, etc to "gamble for pussy", and hope that maybe you get her drunk enough to fuck you. If...
incels.is
Etc, etc, etc.
There's many examples of this. Humans at our core are very shallow, but we create social constructs in order to stroke our ego. We use these social constructs to "mystify", glorify and moralize our biological imperatives. We use them to justify the endless pursuit of satiating our desires.
In either case it isn't "love" (not in the conceptual "true sense") and nor is she "in love" with "you", as in "YOU" the person (your personality, who you really are outside of what you look like and what you can provide for her).
Exhibit A: Tyler Ziegler:
He was a United States Marine Corps sergeant who suffered severe burns during the Iraq War. He received the Purple Heart medal.
Can you see the "love" in her eyes for him?
Well this is the before and after he was disfigured and lost his Chad looks:
Ok, can you still see the "love" now?
Now you will find some images like this (I've only found one):
But that's just her looking good for the camera and trying her best to be "presentable". Like that forced half smile she has in the picture before this one
(she's just putting in more effort here).
But always remember this was her expression when she was getting her professional wedding photos taken, this is her true feelings about him:
en.wikipedia.org
A year after the wedding, Ziegel and Kline divorced. The reasons for the divorce, according to them, was Kline's inability to accept Ziegel's horrible disfigurement, and her old flame from when Ziegel was deployed. After the tragedy, Ziegel tried to live a socially active life.
SHE LEFT HIM FOR CHAD 2.0
She was
MORTIFIED that her Chad that she "loved" is now a disfigured monster. This guy is probably one of the few Chads to get the black pill shoved in his face, no more halo effect of his looks to depend on. Luckily for him he didn't live long and he died at the age of 30.
I'm sure she saw it as lucky for her own sake too (so she wouldn't feel guilty).
Your personality does not matter, and nobody really "loves" you for your personality.
Having a "good personality" is an amplifier, it's auxiliary to what really makes people want to "be around you" and what really makes women want to "be with you". The "love" people have for you always comes down to how you benefit their lives and how you make them feel due to your physical appearance (shallow reasons).
Women "love" men based on how attractive they are and what they can provide for them.
THE ILLUSION OF "LOVE" THAT YOU'VE BEEN CHASING AFTER YOUR ENTIRE LIFE, NEVER EXISTED TO BEGIN WITH!
THE SOONER YOU ACCEPT THAT, THE SOONER YOU CAN MOVE ON AND START LIVING LIFE.