RageFuel Hard to enjoy hobbies when you’re ugly

[Oli Bomsa]

Good hobbies are supposed to give you fulfilment and make you feel happy on the inside, and make you feel excited every time you’re about to go do your hobby.

It’s hard to maintain that excitement the second I remember I’m ugly, and that this will never change. Having to look at a reflective surface to see my face will day after day, forever ruin my prospects of being truly happy and carefree.

 

[42cel_Resurrected]

Being ugly also limits your ability to be productive at your hobby. Many people even in my childhood told me I have much potential, but I somehow always knew I will never be able to truly fulfill it. Now I know why.

Being ugly makes you depressed, therefore lazy, therefore you can't even be passionate about your hobby.

 

[randomcel92]

being ugly can suck but if you find something you're really passionate about its a nice way to cope

 

[Oli Bomsa]

being ugly can suck but if you find something you're really passionate about its a nice way to cope

Yet it’s a nice way to cope but it’s so easy to slip back to reality to remember that because of your face, vast majority of women will NEVER show any romantic interest in you, and to even make male friends, you’ll have to overcome the barrier of them not liking your face too.

Handsome guys make male friends easier because it feels nice to look at the guy, so you’re already feeling good and are more willing to listen to what he has to say and do things with him because you like his company.


Yay fun for hobbies, but men don’t care for you unless you really impress them somehow, and women do not want to associate with you in ANY way. You see how it’s hard to keep yourself happy doing your hobby when these facts of reality are nagging you endlessly? Life alone is a difficult and depressing existence

 

[TheRealChincel]

If you’re really into something, you forget you’re ugly (almost). I question your passion for the hobby.

 

[Oli Bomsa]

If you’re really into something, you forget you’re ugly (almost). I question your passion for the hobby.

I used to be into so many things but from am endlessly solitary existence, genuine failed attempts at making male friends and looking at my face in the mirror every day, I’m losing desire for all of it. I hardly care anymore


Simply things like walking through a grocery store and walking by an attractive girl who REFUSES TO LOOK IN YOUR DIRECTION despite you being virtually infront of her. I had that today. Girl looked away and down and walked around me. That kind of treatment day after fucking day compounds into a monstrosity of self loathing man.

To just think about how differently every single one of those situations would have gone if I was a 9 or 10/10 Chad. The girl would be extremely receptive to an approach and hell, she’d probably start talking to me. We’d get talking, she’d be cheerful and flirtatious, and happily give me her number. She invites me to her place, I meet her family and friends at subsequent events, so many new and interesting people. I hear people’s stories and contribute some of my own. So many social opportunities, so many connections, so effortlessly made. I am valuable, people like me, care for me and go out of their way to do things for me. Can you imagine having a life so unlimited in potential?

 

[TheRealChincel]

I used to be into so many things but from am endlessly solitary existence, genuine failed attempts at making male friends and looking at my face in the mirror every day, I’m losing desire for all of it. I hardly care anymore

Guess we’re made of different stuff then, I look at my face too but can still get lost in stuff. Hope you’re able to find that desire again because what you’re going through sounds robotic.

 

[Oli Bomsa]

Guess we’re made of different stuff then, I look at my face too but can still get lost in stuff. Hope you’re able to find that desire again because what you’re going through sounds robotic.

What are your hobbies?

 

[TheRealChincel]

What are your hobbies?

I draw, go hiking, cycling. Solitary stuff but when I do it, I sometimes forget I’m incel.

 

[ihaveno1]

Being ugly makes you depressed, therefore lazy, therefore you can't even be passionate about your hobby.

 

[Michael15651]

Being ugly also limits your ability to be productive at your hobby. Many people even in my childhood told me I have much potential, but I somehow always knew I will never be able to truly fulfill it. Now I know why.

Being ugly makes you depressed, therefore lazy, therefore you can't even be passionate about your hobby.

 

[Remyx]

If you’re really into something, you forget you’re ugly (almost). I question your passion for the hobby.

 

[Deleted member 15737]

Video games don’t care if I’m ugly

 

[Oli Bomsa]

Video games don’t care if I’m ugly

Yea but sooner or later you return to real life and your inescapable, cripplingly unattractive face which you HAVE to look at. Every single day, that’s your fucking ugly face, that furry potato fucking bloated pig thing you see in the mirror.

Maybe my face affects me more than some of you. It seems you can still enjoy good hobbies. It cripples me 24/7 mentally, and is at the forefront of my consciousness ceaselessly

 

[Smallondick]

Being ugly also limits your ability to be productive at your hobby. Many people even in my childhood told me I have much potential, but I somehow always knew I will never be able to truly fulfill it. Now I know why.

Being ugly makes you depressed, therefore lazy, therefore you can't even be passionate about your hobby.

 

[GoonCel]

if your reeally into it you forget

 

[andinocel]

Being ugly also limits your ability to be productive at your hobby. Many people even in my childhood told me I have much potential, but I somehow always knew I will never be able to truly fulfill it. Now I know why.

Being ugly makes you depressed, therefore lazy, therefore you can't even be passionate about your hobby.

Very similar experience for me. It’s a common theme for me, being told I have potential but that it’s not showing, whether it’s school, work, or a fun activity on the side.

It’s hard for me to garner drive and focus when I think how people are going to mistreat me or not take me seriously. And then, there’s the people saying “find something fun to do with people!”....easier to say than done, but what the people who say this advice don’t get is that it’s usekess if I’m ugly. Whether I have multiple hobbies or become a hikokomori type hermit, it’s all the same.

 

[Captvic]

Being ugly also limits your ability to be productive at your hobby. Many people even in my childhood told me I have much potential, but I somehow always knew I will never be able to truly fulfill it. Now I know why.

Being ugly makes you depressed, therefore lazy, therefore you can't even be passionate about your hobby.

 

[Blacktarpill]

If you’re really into something, you forget you’re ugly (almost). I question your passion for the hobby.

 

[Deleted member 11318]

No not really. Video games and conspiracy theories are fun for me. Soon I also want to cope with DMT and other drugs. That will be fun too.