Story Hanging out with normies as an incel is depressing

[TheyStarveUs]

I went to an event at the beach today. I saw a few couples there, but most were single. I shot my shot with two girls there, the first one snuffed me, then left the party, I got a phone number from the second one, but when I texted her she didn't reply. This is like a routine for me already, idk why I bother trying.
After a few drinks, I sat down in a tent that was there and looked around some of the men and women talking and flirting. I started to get a little emotional inside because I felt like they had what I could never have. I felt super depressed for like an hour and thought to myself, this is not where i belong. I started thinking, why am I even here? So many hot girls all around me and I could never even dream of getting one. I got up and left soon thereafter.


Hanging out with normies will not make you one of them. It will only bring you more misery.

 

[RollD20]

I got a phone number from the second one, but when I texted her she didn't reply.

never got a number myself.

 

[Count Yorga]

I went to an event at the beach today. I saw a few couples there, but most were single. I shot my shot with two girls there, the first one snuffed me, then left the party, I got a phone number from the second one, but when I texted her she didn't reply. This is like a routine for me already, idk why I bother trying.
After a few drinks, I sat down in a tent that was there and looked around some of the men and women talking and flirting. I started to get a little emotional inside because I felt like they had what I could never have. I felt super depressed for like an hour and thought to myself, this is not where i belong. I started thinking, why am I even here? So many hot girls all around me and I could never even dream of getting one. I got up and left soon thereafter.


Hanging out with normies will not make you one of them. It will only bring you more misery.

She probably gave you a fake number. This is common for foids.

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

She probably gave you a fake number. This is common for foids.

Humbler encounter and more considerate than others.

Four years later...

Aspie John is walking to the dinner tray rack of the psych ward he currently resides in, when he notices a familiar face: Anxious Jane.

It is customary for volunteers and nurses to hand patients their trays, but Anxious Jane ignores Aspie John. As he prepares to grab his tray, Anxious Jane quickly walks towards him, makes hand-fiddling gestures and says, "What's your name?" in a mocking tone. She then briefly reads his bracelet and grabs his tray, holding it forcefully as he tries to take it from her.

Aspie John steps back and waits for a few moments without saying anything. He then walks up and gently takes the tray from Anxious Jane's hands, thanking her in the process.

She makes hand-fiddling gestures one more time. He responds with "I hope you have a nice day" and walks off.

 

[lemon21]

This is why i don't go to normie event nor go out to clubs or the like. Being a undesirable male and partaking in what normans do is madness. Understood this from a young age. If i cannot exclude myself from these events i just go for a little while and try to get fun by other means.

I think eventually we will get to a point where we will stop caring, or at least i hope to. Being hopefull about getting a gf is the worst poison an incel could get

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

Understood this from a young age

Alright. I'll relent.

 

[Pancakecel]

mogs me getting a number/ conversation

 

[lemon21]

Alright. I'll relent.

While i understood it dosn't mean i was not hopefull and still went to these events for a lot of fucking years. Hell i still do, and still get "semi-hopefull" that something good will came out of it.

Sadly these are just stupid notions from a stupid dude. I would love to be asexual, having these urges and no way to vent is too sad.

 

[WuhanFriedPuppies]

While i understood it dosn't mean i was not hopefull and still went to these events for a lot of fucking years. Hell i still do, and still get "semi-hopefull" that something good will came out of it.

Sadly these are just stupid notions from a stupid dude. I would love to be asexual, having these urges and no way to vent is too sad.

What about Escort maxxing?

 

[Namtriz912]

It's a mismatch if anything you can't except a fish to swim out of water.

 

[Epedaphic]

I went to an event at the beach today. I saw a few couples there, but most were single. I shot my shot with two girls there, the first one snuffed me, then left the party, I got a phone number from the second one, but when I texted her she didn't reply. This is like a routine for me already, idk why I bother trying.
After a few drinks, I sat down in a tent that was there and looked around some of the men and women talking and flirting. I started to get a little emotional inside because I felt like they had what I could never have. I felt super depressed for like an hour and thought to myself, this is not where i belong. I started thinking, why am I even here? So many hot girls all around me and I could never even dream of getting one. I got up and left soon thereafter.


Hanging out with normies will not make you one of them. It will only bring you more misery.

Dude good for you for trying

But I agree it's fucking brutal to be around them, to be on the outside of their world looking in and knowing you're not a part of it, have never been and may never be ... I feel you. I can only tolerate that maybe once every few months at this point. I don't know how I became so weak.

 

[IncelsNeverCry]

At least you go outside, mogs me

 

[der_komische]

I'm too autistic to talk to anyone. Every time I'm forced to socialize I just sweat and shake all over my body.

 

[takingtheredpill]

It's like no matter how normie passing you try to be, they somehow can sense you don't belong. Normies can clock our kind from a mile away.

 

[Restart80]

I'm too autistic to talk to anyone. Every time I'm forced to socialize I just sweat and shake all over my body.

Absolutely brutal.

As a fellow autistcel there's nothing I hate more than the thought of having to talk to a new/random person. Especially a femoid.

 

[SephirothTheOne]

Dude good for you for trying

But I agree it's fucking brutal to be around them, to be on the outside of their world looking in and knowing you're not a part of it, have never been and may never be ... I feel you. I can only tolerate that maybe once every few months at this point. I don't know how I became so weak.

fr I be trying so hard to fit in and I still can't. And then they have the audacity to tell you it's your fucking fault

 

[Quoj]

Going to normshit events it's a waste of time and you won't fit in, they'll sense that you're not one of them. Avoid those places for your own mental health