SuicideFuel Had to take a picture for my id, feel like killing myself

[Gymcelled]

So I had to go to this photographer for an id pic. My mom went too because she also needed one.

First soft suifuel was seeing all the pics of other people framed everywhere in the shop. All model tier people, no one was under 8/10, every man had a NW0 and strong lower thirds, perfect skins everything.

Then the lady working there takes a pic of me. She looks at her camera "uuuuuuh a-are you ok with this, I can try a nicer one but if it's for an id they just need to see your face"

"h-ha no it's fine"

Then she takes a pic of my mom and smiles afterwards telling her she's beautiful (she isn't she looks like any normal middle aged woman, but still the difference in reaction)

I look like such a fucking disfigured freak on my pic. All those years of looksmaxing, all those years of exercising, getting lean, taking care of my skin, got a haircut just 2 days ago etc and I still look so fucking bad because of things I can't control. Even the fucking photographer was shocked at how bad I looked, she couldn't act normal. (and no I'm not a sperg at all irl)

Then my mom asks me if I'm ok

"just tired, didn't sleep well last night"

Fucking hell. I'll have to wageslave for years to get my face fixed and some hair transplant.

I just wanted to have a normal life. I'll never get to cuddle, hug or kiss a girl who finds me attractive. This life is a fucking joke

 

[Ghost]

It could have just been a bad angle...

 

[Gymcelled]

It could have just been a bad angle...

id pics are taken straight from the front. And I look like this in every pic I've ever taken. The only reason I made this post is because I avoid all pictures, every few months or years I have to take one for various administrative bullshit and I get sent back into depression.

I can't be allowed to forget how bad I look.

 

[IamJacksBrokenHeart]

its fucking over
i cringe everytime i have to take professional photos tbh

 

[azakhan]

Pictures are always suifuel. Seeing your face as other people see it can make you really depressed. On Christmas I was talking with my family on Skype and I couldn’t believe how ugly I looked.

 

[jerrycan dan]

Then the lady working there takes a pic of me. She looks at her camera "uuuuuuh a-are you ok with this, I can try a nicer one but if it's for an id they just need to see your face"

That's beyond fucking brutal. Do they think ugly people won't pick up on this? Far out

 

[Deleted member 15737]

I broke my laptop screen once after I sperged and punched it from seeing my reflection.

 

[Gymcelled]

That's beyond fucking brutal. Do they think ugly people won't pick up on this? Far out

She was trying to be nice. My mom didn't even pick up on it. She was just smiling and thinking about whatever, she always calls me beautiful lmao

Pictures are always suifuel. Seeing your face as other people see it can make you really depressed. On Christmas I was talking with my family on Skype and I couldn’t believe how ugly I looked.

Everything in my life makes sense when I see a pic of myself you know. In fact I'm surprised people don't treat me worse.

At least it explains why no amount of lifting, looksmaxing, stemceling etc never changed anything. It's like putting sprinkles on a turd.

I broke my laptop screen once after I sperged and punched it from seeing my reflection.

I could see this happening. I just felt like throwing away that pic. But it's expensive and I need it.

 

[Joker]

Pictures are always suifuel. Seeing your face as other people see it can make you really depressed. On Christmas I was talking with my family on Skype and I couldn’t believe how ugly I looked.

i know this pain
pictures are an ugly man's curse

 

[Gymcelled]

i know this pain
pictures are an ugly man's curse

Yeah. Short men kind of escape that if it's just a pic of them alone.

 

[RemoveNormalfags]

Brutal, a similar thing happened to me, the photographer after edited my id pic, so that it looks better JFL

 

[Gymcelled]

Brutal, a similar thing happened to me, the photographer after edited my id pic, so that it looks better JFL

Lmao. When you look so bad they have to pull out photoshop to make you look ok. Life is cruel.

 

[grondilu]

Can't you go to an automated photo booth like normal people ?

 

[RemoveNormalfags]

Can't you go to an automated photo booth like normal people ?

That doesn't exist in my small village

 

[Gymcelled]

Can't you go to an automated photo booth like normal people ?

I don't know any of those. Never even heard of such a thing. The result would be the same, I would see my ugly face.

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

I just use my old picture. I had to renew my passport earlier this month, and since I had no picture, or so I thought, I had been ogremaxxing just to look a little better in person, in comparison. But, fortunately, I found an older picture that I could use and ultimately did so.

 

[grondilu]

The result would be the same, I would see my ugly face.

Yeah but at least you wouldn't have to hear the snarky remarks from the photographer, or the disgusted expression on his face.

 

[real truecel]

In my country they photoshop you by default.
I was taking a photo a few months ago and the dude working there made me look maybe even 5/10.
And since photos are taken from the front recessed maxilla and shit head shape were not visible.

That was the first time I think it came out good though. On all previous id photos I looked like shit even after photoshop.

 

[Gymcelled]

In my country they photoshop you by default.
I was taking a photo a few months ago and the dude working there made me look maybe even 5/10.
And since photos are taken from the front recessed maxilla and shit head shape were not visible.

That was the first time I think it came out good though. On all previous id photos I looked like shit even after photoshop.

Interesting mmh
I look better from the side, my lower third is my only good facial feature. Everything else is incel like.

I wonder what I would look like when shooped.

Yeah but at least you wouldn't have to hear the snarky remarks from the photographer, or the disgusted expression on his face.

Honestly that didn't really hurt me, it was just awkward. She was an old woman, not like I really care. But it's very telling when she can't act professional because of how ugly i am.

 

[Deleted member 23453]

jfl if you're not 200mmaxxing

 

[Gymcelled]

What's the camera like on most phones?

jfl if you're not 200mmaxxing
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[real truecel]

Stop lenscoping, chad looks good with every lens and angle

 

[Gymcelled]

Stop lenscoping, chad looks good with every lens and angle

Yeah if you just look at his face from mouth to eyes it looks good no matter what lenses they're using. I look disfigured in those areas. It wouldn't help me.

Though it impacts the lower third and the hair/forehead region a lot so for some people it matters a ton.

 

[Deleted member 23453]

What's the camera like on most phones?

Most tend to have the focal length equivalent around 25-30mm. However, because more phones have getting multiple lenses, we're starting to see some with an ultra-wide 15mm lens or a 50mm "zoom" lens.

 

[Gymcelled]

Most tend to have the focal length equivalent around 25-30mm. However, because more phones have getting multiple lenses, we're starting to see some with an ultra-wide 15mm lens or a 50mm "zoom" lens.

Ok so they're shit to mediocre then.

 

[Deleted member 23453]

Ok so they're shit to mediocre then.

It also comes down to how close the lens is to the subject. Further away = less distortion but less quality. Chad having long arms for a selfie means that he'll mog you everytime.

 

[Gymcelled]

It also comes down to how close the lens is to the subject. Further away = less distortion but less quality. Chad having long arms for a selfie means that he'll mog you everytime.

Ah. I always thought selfie sticks were mostly just a group photo thing. Actually it was normies looksmaxxing on pics. It always comes down to this in every aspect of life.

 

[SkinjobCatastrophe]

That's beyond fucking brutal. Do they think ugly people won't pick up on this? Far out

Foids are so inept they think no one can pick up on when they're trying to hide their disgust for low SMV males. For being the supposedly more socially able gender they are remarkably unable to even act normal around men who they don't find attractive. They are made physically and mentally uncomfortable when they see unattractive men and they cannot hide their disgust. Women are so stupid they cant even tell when other women are disgusted and trying to hide it. Theyre like a bunch of mentally challenged baboons who can barely understand basic language so they have to use their body and facial expressions to display their emotions.

 

[Gymcelled]

Foids are so inept they think no one can pick up on when they're trying to hide their disgust for low SMV males. For being the supposedly more socially able gender they are remarkably unable to even act normal around men who they don't find attractive. They are made physically and mentally uncomfortable when they see unattractive men and they cannot hide their disgust. Women are so stupid they cant even tell when other women are disgusted and trying to hide it. Theyre like a bunch of mentally challenged baboons who can barely understand basic language so they have to use their body and facial expressions to display their emotions.

And yet they're called the empathic gender.

Spoiler

Women feel sexual disgust when they imagine even talking to an unattractive man
Researchers attempted to study how women rate men and react to imagined sex with men while in an aroused and unaroused state. To do so, they showed 91 women either an erotic video or a hiking video before rating the attractiveness of photographs of men’s faces. The faces varied in attractiveness. The women then rated their disgust towards anticipated behaviors with men depicted on photographs.

They found that the most dramatic influence on women's disgust was how attractive the man they showed them was. All differences in disgust were significant when comparing the attractive man to the unattractive man, even when the anticipated behavior was just talking to the man. Sexually arousing women with pornography beforehand did not reduce their disgust at unattractive men.

Even the professional male model used to represent an 'attractive' man still aroused considerable disgust in women when they imagined sex with him. Researchers note that women experience a higher degree of sexual disgust towards men at baseline compared to how men feel about woman. Thus a man must truly be very attractive to a woman to override her innate sense of disgust. Since men have less sexual disgust at baseline, men may on the other hand be more flexible to consider women of more broadly varying attractiveness.

Perhaps most harshly, the image used to represent an 'unattractive' man appears to just be a fairly average white man. One can only imagine how much higher women's disgust would have been had they used a truly ugly man for the analysis.

Quotes:

• Disgust is an avoidance reaction that serves the function of discouraging costly mating decisions.
• In an online experiment, women rated their disgust towards anticipated behaviors with men depicted on photographs.
• Participants did so in a sexually aroused state and in a control state.
• The faces varied in attractiveness and the presence of disease cues (blemishes).
• We found that disease cues and attractiveness, but not sexual arousal, influenced disgust.
• The results suggest that women feel disgust at sexual contact with unattractive men.
• Attractiveness seems to reduce disgust and therefore also avoidance tendencies—probably because it signals good health and small risk of pathogen transmission.
• Women on average have a higher disgust sensitivity and propensity than men. This also implies that they require relatively more sexual arousal to outweigh disgust and elicit a sexually functioning feedback loop. In other words, sexual arousal is less likely to outweigh disgust in women.

References:

• Zsok F, Fleischman DS, Borg C, Morrison E. 2017. Disgust Trumps Lust: Women’s Disgust and Attraction Towards Men Is Unaffected by Sexual Arousal. Evolutionary Psychological Science. 3(4): 353-363. [Abstract] [FullText]

70% of women would avoid someone solely based on their looks, compared to 31% of men
The skincare brand Remescar conducted a survey of 2,000 British men and women on their preferences for a romantic or sexual partner.

When women were asked what they desired in a romantic partner, their top rated value was “a nice smile”, and third from top was “body type”. 70% of female respondents admitted that they would ignore or avoid an individual of the opposite sex solely because of the way they looked, versus 31% of men.

The magnitude of this sex difference is comparable with sex differences in attractiveness ratings (around d = 1.0).

Quotes:

• Women are more shallow than men when it comes to judging people on looks.
• According to the poll, just 31 per cent of male respondents admitted that they would ignore or avoid someone of the opposite sex based upon their looks, compared to a massive 70 per cent of female respondents admitted that they would ignore or avoid the opposite sex because of the way they looked.

References:

• Lanigan R. 2016. Women are more shallow than men when it comes to judging people on looks, says research. The Tab. [News]