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Another day, another "woe is me" post from a foidaloid drowning in male attention. I was just relaxing and having a good time, and suddenly this nonsense popped in my notifications—so I figured I'd make a post about this. I'll now break it down and share my thoughts.
So she admits she does get approached outright. Yet, rather than acknowledging her privileged position where men actively pursue her, she whines about their intentions. Meanwhile, incels go their entire life without a single woman showing even the slightest interest. A man who gets no attention at all is expected to accept his fate, but a woman getting too much attention (in a way she finds inconvenient) is a tragedy?
Furthermore, I bet many well-meaning men have approached her, only to be rejected due to their physical appearance. The only guys who are even considered as options and "sweet" are those who meet her hypergamous standards. And those guys are usually the ones who have a plethora of options and couldn't care less about her.
Translation: She's exclusively attracted to chads and they are the only ones she interacts with. These men are so confident in their ability to get what they want that they don’t even bother with pretense. They know she’ll tolerate it. She could easily reject these men and go for a nice guy (a.k.a. someone who would actually care about her), but no, she only engages with men who treat her like an object. Then she has the audacity to act surprised when they do exactly that.
Chads never have shame and have no reason to. They don’t need it. Shame is for men who are forced to reflect on their own failures—something women never have to do when it comes to relationships. If an incel ever dared to approach a woman, he wouldn’t even get the chance to send flirty texts before being ghosted or mocked. Yet, this girl is upset because a chad is too direct?
Respect must be earned. When you filter out all men who would treat you with respect and only entertain chads, what do you expect? There are countless men who would treat her with respect, but she doesn’t even acknowledge their existence. This isn't a complaint about "men"; it’s a complaint about the specific top-tier men she desires not acting the way she wants them to—a classic case of an apex fallacy.
And why should they behave the way she wants them to? Why should they treat her as anything more than a flesh-made cock sleeve when that's exactly what she acts like?
Those men she desires have an endless supply of thirsty women who flock around them; they degrade themselves for them, and so the treatment they receive from them is a mere reflection of their own behavior and actions. And this foid? There's nothing special about her that makes her stand out from the rest of the female cattle.
Again, she chooses to only engage with chads who see her as an object. Any man who truly wanted to "love and care for her" would never even make it past her initial selection process. The very men who would treat her well are invisible to her. If this was truly what she wanted, she would actively seek out men who aren’t just looking for a hookup. I guess this is too much to ask from a chadsexual foid
"Used to enjoy being approached." — She used to enjoy the validation of men constantly showing interest. Even now, she's still getting approached regularly, but it’s just not exactly the way she wants. The fact that she even has this problem is a privilege. Meanwhile, an incel doesn't have the luxury of "getting annoyed" by women’s attention, because he will never experience it in the first place.
She claims she feels "worthless," yet she still holds power in choosing who she gives her time to. An incel feels worthless because society constantly reinforces his lack of value by making him completely invisible to women. This is the type of problems that women have to "struggle" with—what an absolute joke
