Here is what this chad on Reddit said:
I'm a few years older than the guy you're with, and I have a similar body count. I've fucked with everything on the spectrum from doctors and lawyers to models and actresses to waitresses and strippers. It means pretty much nothing to me at this point, and I'd say that I'm at a much less chance of blowing up relationships at this point as a result of that experience with women.
As a guy, you grow up basically being shown and told that being good with women is more or less the ultimate measure of being a man. If you get the opportunity to fuck a lot of women, which the majority of men don't, then it's great for a while because you're fulfilling what you've always been told was more or less your purpose for being on this planet.
But here's the problem: You eventually stop giving a shit because the sense of meaning that comes from being great with women dies off relatively quickly. The next thing you know, you're sitting there getting blown by two 9s, but you can't even pay attention to what's going on because you have a sense of emptiness and pointlessness that becomes borderline nihilism. The sense of meaning from having "won" is very fleeting.
I have an atypical relationship where I'm with two women who live with me (a polyfidelitous triad for those who are into that sort of terminology), and they both worry about the same kind of thing that you're describing here where you're afraid to lose him because of a fear of missing banging random chicks.
Guess what? We've been together for a number of years, and I've never missed banging random women a single time. I get a hell of a lot more meaning out of the family that I have built for myself and the quality of the relationships I have with people now than I ever did from banging a lot of random women.
You have to remember that he chose you, and it's not like he didn't have plenty of options to choose from. If he didn't want to be with you, then he wouldn't be with you.
Therefore the first stage is to hookup with multiple women till you are satisfied. Once that stop giving you joy then you settle. That’s the game females and chads are playing.
But lonely desperate incel men can’t play the hookupgame so they settle for the first whore they meet, then they cry waaaahhh divorce rape wahhhh. What did you expect idiot. You need to go through the hookup stage before marriage.
I'm a few years older than the guy you're with, and I have a similar body count. I've fucked with everything on the spectrum from doctors and lawyers to models and actresses to waitresses and strippers. It means pretty much nothing to me at this point, and I'd say that I'm at a much less chance of blowing up relationships at this point as a result of that experience with women.
As a guy, you grow up basically being shown and told that being good with women is more or less the ultimate measure of being a man. If you get the opportunity to fuck a lot of women, which the majority of men don't, then it's great for a while because you're fulfilling what you've always been told was more or less your purpose for being on this planet.
But here's the problem: You eventually stop giving a shit because the sense of meaning that comes from being great with women dies off relatively quickly. The next thing you know, you're sitting there getting blown by two 9s, but you can't even pay attention to what's going on because you have a sense of emptiness and pointlessness that becomes borderline nihilism. The sense of meaning from having "won" is very fleeting.
I have an atypical relationship where I'm with two women who live with me (a polyfidelitous triad for those who are into that sort of terminology), and they both worry about the same kind of thing that you're describing here where you're afraid to lose him because of a fear of missing banging random chicks.
Guess what? We've been together for a number of years, and I've never missed banging random women a single time. I get a hell of a lot more meaning out of the family that I have built for myself and the quality of the relationships I have with people now than I ever did from banging a lot of random women.
You have to remember that he chose you, and it's not like he didn't have plenty of options to choose from. If he didn't want to be with you, then he wouldn't be with you.
Therefore the first stage is to hookup with multiple women till you are satisfied. Once that stop giving you joy then you settle. That’s the game females and chads are playing.
But lonely desperate incel men can’t play the hookupgame so they settle for the first whore they meet, then they cry waaaahhh divorce rape wahhhh. What did you expect idiot. You need to go through the hookup stage before marriage.
