I would like to start of by saying that (guy) friends DON'T CARE ABOUT LMS. (unless they are beta but then you shouldn't hang out with them anyways.)
Keep in mind that these steps works for me and I'm an autistic shortcel with subhuman looks
The first step is to start identifying who you are. Do you love rock/metal music like to play chess, gaming or anime etc.
Once this step is completed you need to find a large gathering of people if possible find gatherings related to what you like or who you are although not necessary.
Before attending this kind of thing you need to accept that no matter how subhuman or how many mistakes you have made you are still worthy of having friends and you still have human worth (might sound bluepilled but is nonetheless true)
After having done the previous steps you are ready to go to a gathering of people. Now don't come into this gathering/event expecting to make friends since it can often be a little off putting especially if you are autistic like me.
If you show up there try to make small talk with people or join conversations if you think you are annoying in these conversation you need to take the "literally everybody is annoying especially in conversation pill" the only 3 mistakes you can make here is either 1: Apologize for everything (I have a problem with this sometimes) 2: Being to political or talking about sensitive issues such as inceldom and 3: Talking about yourself to much and not actively listening. There may be more mistakes out there but these are common mistakes Socially awkward people make.
Now if you made one of these mistakes or completely avoided talking to begin with you shouldn't feel ashamed since you still took the first step in becoming more social and that's more than many people on this site can say.
As for many things in life in order to improve you need to do it regularly which means that you need to seek out social events often. Now another tip that works especially good if you are subhuman is to simply ask people you have talked to, about what they think about the conversation. If you are subhuman they will have less mercy in completely dissecting your conversational skill (especially foids who lack almost all empathy to low status males). You should however make the best out of this situation make a goal to try to improve the areas where you got critique. (Only do this last part with people you have no intention of being friends with since it falls in to mistake number 1)
If you followed these steps closely you might notice that you might have people you are more comfortable talking to. Good this is a sign that you have commonalities with these people and they might even consider you a friend already.
In order to continue growing a friendship you have to be with them regularly. To do this you can ask questions like "What are you doing on Saturday?" or "Is there any parties or hangouts coming up". Try to weave these lines in a conversation because otherwise it can be interpreted as clingy or even obsessive (especially if you are subhuman).
Although I'm not a psychologist I still (as a subhuman male) have quite a lot of friends ranging from Chads to even one incel friend. Keep in mind that you are not the only person in a friendship which means that you need to respect other peoples boundaries. This means that bringing up certain things like inceldom or other political views can make people very uncomfortable. This also works in reverse since non of my Chad friends brings up the topic of women since they know that I react uncomfortably in these topics. Friendships are in its very core an exchange of mutual respect.
The reason for posting this guide is because I have seen some very concerning threads from people who have no irl friends at all. This saddens me deeply considering we all are social creatures and no one I mean no one deserves to be alone.
I wish you all the best of luck.
Edit: This does not apply to foids
Keep in mind that these steps works for me and I'm an autistic shortcel with subhuman looks
The first step is to start identifying who you are. Do you love rock/metal music like to play chess, gaming or anime etc.
Once this step is completed you need to find a large gathering of people if possible find gatherings related to what you like or who you are although not necessary.
Before attending this kind of thing you need to accept that no matter how subhuman or how many mistakes you have made you are still worthy of having friends and you still have human worth (might sound bluepilled but is nonetheless true)
After having done the previous steps you are ready to go to a gathering of people. Now don't come into this gathering/event expecting to make friends since it can often be a little off putting especially if you are autistic like me.
If you show up there try to make small talk with people or join conversations if you think you are annoying in these conversation you need to take the "literally everybody is annoying especially in conversation pill" the only 3 mistakes you can make here is either 1: Apologize for everything (I have a problem with this sometimes) 2: Being to political or talking about sensitive issues such as inceldom and 3: Talking about yourself to much and not actively listening. There may be more mistakes out there but these are common mistakes Socially awkward people make.
Now if you made one of these mistakes or completely avoided talking to begin with you shouldn't feel ashamed since you still took the first step in becoming more social and that's more than many people on this site can say.
As for many things in life in order to improve you need to do it regularly which means that you need to seek out social events often. Now another tip that works especially good if you are subhuman is to simply ask people you have talked to, about what they think about the conversation. If you are subhuman they will have less mercy in completely dissecting your conversational skill (especially foids who lack almost all empathy to low status males). You should however make the best out of this situation make a goal to try to improve the areas where you got critique. (Only do this last part with people you have no intention of being friends with since it falls in to mistake number 1)
If you followed these steps closely you might notice that you might have people you are more comfortable talking to. Good this is a sign that you have commonalities with these people and they might even consider you a friend already.
In order to continue growing a friendship you have to be with them regularly. To do this you can ask questions like "What are you doing on Saturday?" or "Is there any parties or hangouts coming up". Try to weave these lines in a conversation because otherwise it can be interpreted as clingy or even obsessive (especially if you are subhuman).
Although I'm not a psychologist I still (as a subhuman male) have quite a lot of friends ranging from Chads to even one incel friend. Keep in mind that you are not the only person in a friendship which means that you need to respect other peoples boundaries. This means that bringing up certain things like inceldom or other political views can make people very uncomfortable. This also works in reverse since non of my Chad friends brings up the topic of women since they know that I react uncomfortably in these topics. Friendships are in its very core an exchange of mutual respect.
The reason for posting this guide is because I have seen some very concerning threads from people who have no irl friends at all. This saddens me deeply considering we all are social creatures and no one I mean no one deserves to be alone.
I wish you all the best of luck.
Edit: This does not apply to foids
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