Greetings to the incels community

[Johny.speiz]

Hello incels community,

English is not my first language, I live in Europe, and I am an incel.

For most of my life I had to struggle to be accepted in a group, without success not so ever, most of the time being ostracized and bullied.

I have no friends, and I am the most of the time in my bedroom, I have GAD and SAD, depression, plus probably Asperger's Syndrome (it was lastly diagnosed to me by a therapist).
Since 2015, I forced myself into getting out more, joining different meeting and social groups in real events, traveled.

So, I did went out, tried to meet new people, at first some guys I hoped would help me into meeting girls, since I couldn't approach them due to my anxiety, and when I tried I was always rejected in the first seconds. This went wrong, despite very suffering effort to socialize, I did get some FB and Whatsapp contacts, but nobody never contacted me, nor wished me happy birthday (despite everyone having a notification on the day on FB).
I contacted people always by myself, and made the fatal error to run after them in a desperate wish to a have a friend. That didn't worked. I stopped doing this because in a relationship it's always both ways, you don't always contact one-way, while the other never do it.

In these events, I met a lot of a$$holes and bullies, I was often violently ejected from bars and clubs by stupid though bouncers, just because I answered back to chads or passed a remark (per ex., when some chad pushed me hardly on purpose, then I realized it was just to eliminate me from the place; or when I answered an insult from a bully). I had no chance to stand against these pigs, neither to compete with them. Places, were women act like typical sluts, and chads have always sex with the nicest girls. These place need to be exterminated.

I don't trust human beings as being good, for me they all are evils, driven by perfidious and very selfish intentions. That's why the incel community exist, either way, if humans were good, they would have taken care of the most vulnerable and weak members of the society. But they act in total indifference, mostly bullying them or ostracism them. Like in the very good example of the night clubs and bars above, were human nature is exposed to the very truth animistic and primitive status.

I stopped now going out and I see no hope in changing my incel condition.

Thank you for reading me.

Cheers,
Johny

 

[StormlitAqua]

In these events, I met a lot of a$$holes and bullies, I was often violently ejected from bars and clubs by stupid though bouncers, just because I answered back to chads or passed a remark (per ex., when some chad pushed me hardly on purpose, then I realized it was just to eliminate me from the place; or when I answered an insult from a bully). I had no chance to stand against these pigs, neither to compete with them. Places, were women act like typical sluts, and chads have always sex with the nicest girls. These place need to be exterminated.

Seems like you'll fit in just fine.

 

[Fontaine]

Yeah, "just put yourself out there bro" assumes humans are nice, while they're mostly assholes, especially nowadays.

 

[Fuckmyexistence]

welcome m8

 

[metal]

Europe is one of the most terrible places for an incel and I understand your situation

 

[Ninrod]

Same history everywhere.

"if humans were good, they would have taken care of the most vulnerable and weak members of the society."

Greatest joke ever, nobody gives a shit about weak members of the society. i

Europe is one of the most terrible places for an incel and I understand your situation

I think it could be true. I've met some incels from Switzerland, Germany and Portugal.

 

[Jekyl72]

Mid 40s here. its same miserable bs in USA

 

[Hoffman_13]

Welcome aboard

 

[PersonalityChad]

Welcome boyo

 

[AmeriCel64]

Seems like you'll fit in just fine.

 

[NEETAndTidy]

Welcome to the club

 

[Johny.speiz]

Thank you very much for the warm welcome.

 

[Darthmat]

Howdy I hope you enjoy your stay here.
Just don't take too much stuff up here seriously, don't feel like you have to prove yourself to anybody, follow the rules and you'll be all right.

 

[Deleted member 1983]

welcome, also how old are you OP?

 

[Deleted member 60]

welcome bro

 

[grayjedi90]

Europe is one of the most terrible places for an incel and I understand your situation

America is worse, the entitlement and arrogance there while being completely delusional about the american dream holy shit man never have i seen something like that before.

 

[Murdoch89]

Welcome to wear you belong

 

[PeruvianGuy]

Thank you very much for the warm welcome.

I can really relate with the part you mentiomed about "friendship being a two person thing"
I'm sorry you had to go through this. Welcome

 

[StormlitAqua]

America is worse, the entitlement and arrogance there while being completely delusional about the american dream holy shit man never have i seen something like that before.

Nah, Europe is worse, especially western Europe. Feminism and PC culture has advanced farther there then it has in America.

 

[Johny.speiz]

welcome, also how old are you OP?

Tank you, I am in my early thirties.

 

[acnescarcel]

greetings b0y0 its fucking 0ver

 

[Johny.speiz]

Nah, Europe is worse, especially western Europe. Feminism and PC culture has advanced farther there then it has in America.

I went for a while in Central-Eastern Europe, the Eastern part of EU.

I must disagree, since the culture there is much more concentrated on the chad, you know the alpha male.
Bodybuilding and strength is considered as a goal and are sacred by many men in EE. The typical alpha male trait is being honored even more than in the West.

Bullying touches 1 young men in 5 in Poland (officially), the suicide rate is much higher overall in Eastern Europe than in Western Europe.
Plus, you are treated like shit if you don't have some alpha traits or a strong personality. "Racism" touches even white people between them.
There are a lot of thugs and hooligans, police close an eye on. An you can be beaten by these one for nothing, including police that often act very unprofessionally. Corruption is common and higher than in WE.

Ugly landscapes with lots of pollution, especially air filthed with coal, and commie blocks everywhere in cities. Towns are often dilapidated and ugly. Bloody cold in winter and bloody hot in summer.
People are shit, and they let you know that. They are very individualistic and don't care even for their neighbor. Kindness to people outside their family or friends is a foreign word, they are rude by defintion. Making friends is very hard in this climate. Girls have strong family ties protected by the "white knight" chads, so it's even harder for an incel to get into a relationship with them than in WE. And if you force it, you can get sure that lots of psychological and physical harm will happen to you. Very animistic and primitive behavior. Locals do emigrate by millions to WE. Some countries like Lithuania have seen it population emigrated by nearly half.
Using unversal health care (private health care is not very common in EE), you must wait several months if not more than a year just to see a specialist. Medical personel treat you often like shit or subhuman.

Most of my examples, and experiences I mentioned above are from this part of Europe.

The only positive trait I could find is that this part of Europe is cheap, and hookers are nicer and cheaper than in WE, and that the violent crime rate dropped incredibly since the 1990's, being comparable now to WE.

No thank you.

 

[StormlitAqua]

I went for a while in Central-Eastern Europe, the Eastern part of EU.

I must disagree, since the culture there is much more concentrated on the chad, you know the alpha male.
Bodybuilding and strength is considered as a goal and are sacred by many men in EE. The typical alpha male trait is being honored even more than in the West.

Bullying touches 1 young men in 5 in Poland (officially), the suicide rate is much higher overall in Eastern Europe than in Western Europe.
Plus, you are treated like shit if you don't have some alpha traits or a strong personality. "Racism" touches even white people between them.
There are a lot of thugs and hooligans, police close an eye on. An you can be beaten by these one for nothing, including police that often act very unprofessionally. Corruption is common and higher than in WE.

Ugly landscapes with lots of pollution, especially air filthed with coal, and commie blocks everywhere in cities. Towns are often dilapidated and ugly. Bloody cold in winter and bloody hot in summer.
People are shit, and they let you know that. They are very individualistic and don't care even for their neighbor. Girls have strong family ties protected by the "white knight" chads, so it's even harder for an incel to get into a relationship with them than in WE. And if you force it, you can get sure that lots of psychological and physical harm will happen to you.

The only positive trait I could find is that this part of Europe is cheap, and hookers are nicer and cheaper than in WE, and that the violent crime rate dropped incredibly since the 1990's, being comparable now to WE.

No thank you.

Your post is why I centered in on Western Europe as opposed to europe as a whole. You EEs are doing preety well for yourself in the rejection of feminism and islamization. Thanks for the perspective!

 

[ThisLifeKillsMe]

Europe is one of the most terrible places for an incel and I understand your situation

 

[Creep]

Look at all the welcoming posts. We have great personalities, despite what normies think

 

[Johny.speiz]

Thank you very much for all your posts!

Your post is why I centered in on Western Europe as opposed to europe as a whole. You EEs are doing preety well for yourself in the rejection of feminism and islamization. Thanks for the perspective!

That's true, but at the end the chad gets it all.

You have to know, that feminism and lgbt are more and more widespread in bigger cities and accepted. Westernization is going on quite hard in this part of Europe. A good thing, the current government have some success against illegal immigration.

 

[Anger]

TLDR

 

[jamesmark1903]

Hello incels community,

English is not my first language, I live in Europe, and I am an incel.

For most of my life I had to struggle to be accepted in a group, without success not so ever, most of the time being ostracized and bullied.

I have no friends, and I am the most of the time in my bedroom, I have GAD and SAD, depression, plus probably Asperger's Syndrome (it was lastly diagnosed to me by a therapist).
Since 2015, I forced myself into getting out more, joining different meeting and social groups in real events, traveled.

So, I did went out, tried to meet new people, at first some guys I hoped would help me into meeting girls, since I couldn't approach them due to my anxiety, and when I tried I was always rejected in the first seconds. This went wrong, despite very suffering effort to socialize, I did get some FB and Whatsapp contacts, but nobody never contacted me, nor wished me happy birthday (despite everyone having a notification on the day on FB).
I contacted people always by myself, and made the fatal error to run after them in a desperate wish to a have a friend. That didn't worked. I stopped doing this because in a relationship it's always both ways, you don't always contact one-way, while the other never do it.

In these events, I met a lot of a$$holes and bullies, I was often violently ejected from bars and clubs by stupid though bouncers, just because I answered back to chads or passed a remark (per ex., when some chad pushed me hardly on purpose, then I realized it was just to eliminate me from the place; or when I answered an insult from a bully). I had no chance to stand against these pigs, neither to compete with them. Places, were women act like typical sluts, and chads have always sex with the nicest girls. These place need to be exterminated.

I don't trust human beings as being good, for me they all are evils, driven by perfidious and very selfish intentions. That's why the incel community exist, either way, if humans were good, they would have taken care of the most vulnerable and weak members of the society. But they act in total indifference, mostly bullying them or ostracism them. Like in the very good example of the night clubs and bars above, were human nature is exposed to the very truth animistic and primitive status.

I stopped now going out and I see no hope in changing my incel condition.

Thank you for reading me.

Cheers,
Johny

This is a supporting group. We all wish to change our situations. Most of these guys here are hopeless people and they never try anything at all. They just excuse themselves from trying by swallowing one of those red/blue/black pills.

Look, you have to keep trying. You have to remember that all females are scum of the universe. The whole human female species deserves to be locked up and have their rights taken away. Most of us here believe that the whole female gender is the problem

 

[stuttercel]

Look at all the welcoming posts. We have great personalities, despite what normies think

 

[Untermenschcel]

hey welcome friend! I am from Europe too but came to american. let me give you some good advice. if you come to america dont expect to escape inceldom it doesnt fucking matter where you are an incel will always be an incel. I came with the delusional idea I would easily hook up with some outgoing american girl but yeah that didnt happen it was just pathetic of me to even think like that

 

[Johny.speiz]

Thank you, and thanks for your advice U.

I'm truly sorry for your deception.

Though, I'm curious, how is life different for you in the US, besides getting laid?

 

[lonelyistheworld]

welcome