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I woke up today and opened Instagram. I saw that a particular 7/10 in my college I have a crush on requested to follow me. I literally jumped out of my chair in excitement. I accepted the request.

Then i started imagining scenarios where we started dating, got married, had kids lived happily ever after. I began to think "Hey, if this pretty girl on Instagram wants to follow me, maybe I'm not so ugly after all". I began to think of what I would dm her.

Well less than an hour later, she unfollowed me. I should have fucking known. She's a Girl with hundreds of guys simping for her. She has 2500 followers. She isn't following more than a 180 people. Why would she want to be my friend? She only used me to get one more follower.

I want to die. I literally imagined our whole future together, and she didn't even register my existence.

What's worse is, I saw it coming. It seemed too good to be true. And now I'm not sure whether I should unfollow her or not JFL
 
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Delete Instagram and never return
 
I woke up today and opened Instagram. I saw that a particular 7/10 in my college I have a crush on requested to follow me. I literally jumped out of my chair in excitement. I accepted the request.

Then i started imagining scenarios where we started dating, got married, had kids lived happily ever after. I began to think "Hey, if this pretty girl on Instagram wants to follow me, maybe I'm not so ugly after all". I began to think of what I would dm her.

Well less than an hour later, she unfollowed me. I should have fucking known. She's a Girl with hundreds of guys simping for her. She has 2500 followers. She isn't following more than a 180 people. Why would she want to be my friend? She only used me to get one more follower.

I want to die. I literally imagined our whole future together, and she didn't even register my existence.
Brutal. Also shows the difference between the average male/female life experience: For an average/below average male (=Non-chad) meeting someone new is exciting and you plan all things ahead and phantasize about the wonderfull stuff you could do with said new person, but for a woman/chad it's nothing new/exciting and she doesn't even have deeper thoughts. Social interactions/friendships are for them like material stuff in the hands of a rich person.
Delete Instagram and never return
Very good advice, when he truly wants to give up and never try it again. But social media is required in the Zoomer generation. If you are truly without any hope delete social media to prevent the harm of seeing what's normal for women/chads.
Feels bad.
 
That much excitement from her following you?
 
But social media is required in the Zoomer generation.
If you have an account on .co, then it's over for you. No point in having normie social media like Facebook, Instagram and Snapchat.
 
That much excitement from her following you?
Can unironically understand it to a certain degree. When something positive happens to someone who isn't used to good/positive stuff happening to them, it's a world-changing event for said person, there are moments of extreme euphoria and then there is the cold reality that smacks you in the face later. Some people with no positive life experience are like dry wood, it only takes the spark of hope to create a wildfire.
If you have an account on .co, then it's over for you. No point in having normie social media like Facebook, Instagram and Snapchat.
I know it's over for me. I am not on social media (except Facebook for selling/buying stuff and Twitter for trolling people). Incels.co is probably the only website I use (except .su and youtube).
 
Truecel trait (?)
I don't know. If she texted you something like ''come over'' I could understand your exhilaration but fantasizing about getting married to someone after she followed you is a bit odd.
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mogs me at having instagram
 
Can unironically understand it to a certain degree. When something positive happens to someone who isn't used to good/positive stuff happening to them, it's a world-changing event for said person, there are moments of extreme euphoria and then there is the cold reality that smacks you in the face later. Some people with no positive life experience are like dry wood, it only takes the spark of hope to create a wildfire.

I know it's over for me. I am not on social media (except Facebook for selling/buying stuff and Twitter for trolling people). Incels.co is probably the only website I use (except .su and youtube).
.su? Daily Stormer?
 
She is probably the same chick that writes down her IG on tinder bio, she is an instawhore! All she wants is validation, which is through followers. You better fucking unfollow her :lul:
 
Dude, you fucking serious? If a girl has that many followers then she was never serious about you at all. Like, I got that a lot with my Instagram too, especially back in 2017 when I set it up. They follow and then quickly unfollow you because they're searching for simp-worshippers online.


If you were chad, girls would be sliding into your DM's effortlessly. You probably have less than <200 followers on Insta. If so, then it's over for you. I only have pics of flowers on my Insta with my face as a profile pic. Chad has like 1000+ followers with pictures of him drinking with other chad-like friends. You have to have hundreds of followers, pictures of you skydiving off a plane, lifting weights in a gym and then she'll think of texting you JKL. :feelzez::ha..feels::feelsrope:
 
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That much excitement from her following you?
Increase of soy in food products and societal backlash at anything manly has created a generation of weak and pathetic human men.

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I woke up today and opened Instagram. I saw that a particular 7/10 in my college I have a crush on requested to follow me. I literally jumped out of my chair in excitement. I accepted the request.

Then i started imagining scenarios where we started dating, got married, had kids lived happily ever after. I began to think "Hey, if this pretty girl on Instagram wants to follow me, maybe I'm not so ugly after all". I began to think of what I would dm her.

Well less than an hour later, she unfollowed me. I should have fucking known. She's a Girl with hundreds of guys simping for her. She has 2500 followers. She isn't following more than a 180 people. Why would she want to be my friend? She only used me to get one more follower.

Brutal. Also shows the difference between the average male/female life experience: For an average/below average male (=Non-chad) meeting someone new is exciting and you plan all things ahead and phantasize about the wonderfull stuff you could do with said new person, but for a woman/chad it's nothing new/exciting and she doesn't even have deeper thoughts. Social interactions/friendships are for them like material stuff in the hands of a rich person.
Don't forget women want it to be this way too.
Their reaction to a story like this about an ugly doubting himself would be a virtue signaling "aww" but if he didn't act so doubting of himself and tried to play it off like he dgaf they'd be saying things like "who does he think he is?", "wow that guy is definitely way out of line".
All the more reason not to have these doubting reactions and just tell these fake bitches off when you know nothing is going to come of it.
 
You're male with an Instagram. You're incel with an Instagram. Something doesn't add up.
 
You unfollowed her right :feelsUgh:?
 
I woke up today and opened Instagram. I saw that a particular 7/10 in my college I have a crush on requested to follow me. I literally jumped out of my chair in excitement. I accepted the request.

Then i started imagining scenarios where we started dating, got married, had kids lived happily ever after. I began to think "Hey, if this pretty girl on Instagram wants to follow me, maybe I'm not so ugly after all". I began to think of what I would dm her.
Metabee
 
I just did. Fuck that bitch tbh

Not having an Instagram would make me even more of a social outcast than I am currently.
Yeah. I want to go to instagram and post pictures of myself for people to make fun of and laugh and use for memes where they show fucked up people to joke about.
I truly will take that just to socialize with normies because I didn't get enough social torture in school growing up that I need it online as well from strangers.
 
Then i started imagining scenarios where we started dating, got married, had kids lived happily ever after.
I used to do this in high school. You can't ever allow yourself to have those thoughts and let any one girl live rent-free in your head like that, it's a recipe for oneitis. What helps for me when I start to have those thoughts is to just think of the most hyperbolically negative trait about them and have a good laugh about it.

Also good on you for unfollowing. I can't relate about social media though, all of my accounts are deleted or inactive.
 
I want to die. I literally imagined our whole future together, and she didn't even register my existence.
Over if you still have a crush on her, she probably has tons of chad followers.
 
Don't forget women want it to be this way too.
Their reaction to a story like this about an ugly doubting himself would be a virtue signaling "aww" but if he didn't act so doubting of himself and tried to play it off like he dgaf they'd be saying things like "who does he think he is?", "wow that guy is definitely way out of line".
All the more reason not to have these doubting reactions and just tell these fake bitches off when you know nothing is going to come of it.
This tbh.
You're male with an Instagram. You're incel with an Instagram. Something doesn't add up.
Instagram is chad/normie central. You can still be there as an incel, but it's digital self-harm. Sadly, it's absolutely required to be on social media nowadays or else you are seen as an even greater creep/loser by normgroids.
I used to do this in high school. You can't ever allow yourself to have those thoughts and let any one girl live rent-free in your head like that, it's a recipe for oneitis. What helps for me when I start to have those thoughts is to just think of the most hyperbolically negative trait about them and have a good laugh about it.

Also good on you for unfollowing. I can't relate about social media though, all of my accounts are deleted or inactive.
Extremely good advice.
 
Instagram is chad/normie central. You can still be there as an incel, but it's digital self-harm. Sadly, it's absolutely required to be on social media nowadays or else you are seen as an even greater creep/loser by normgroids.
I can't be seen as a creep/loser when I can't be seen.

I'm not on Twitter, Reddit, Facebook, Instagram, or that other one I can't remember the name of right now. No one has called me a creep/loser because I'm not on there to be called a creep/loser.
 
if u are truly blackpilled incel you wouldn't have reacted with excitement and instead just immediately became suspicious.

i have lost all interest in women, i fap to porn to relieve sexual tension thats it, i feel no attraction to any foid outside in the real world. occasionally ill think a girl i see is cute but im aware she is a chad only whore and if they act friendly its always just a front and they are just secretly judging you so i dodge all the butterfly feelings because im already aware its over for me. Occasionally will make an attempt to talk up a foid at work or something but im not really attracted nor have any genuine interest in the conversation i just like reaffirming that its over so i dont get stuck in the bluepill illusion again.
 
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I woke up today and opened Instagram
:feelswhat:
I saw that a particular 7/10 in my college I have a crush on requested to follow me. I literally jumped out of my chair in excitement. I accepted the request.
:feelswhat:
maybe I'm not so ugly after all
:feelswhat:
She has 2500 followers
She only used me to get one more follower.
:feelsseriously:
And now I'm not sure whether I should unfollow her or not JFL
:feelsseriously:
Something doesn't add up.
Agreed
 
if some 7/10 following you excited you that much, it just goes to show how over it really is.

this is what emotional/sexual deprivation does :'(
 
Brutal suicide fuel OP.
Who gives a fuck what some filthy whore thinks though
 
Maybe she had a crush on you too and was waiting for you to message her? Yeh, unlikely.
 
Maybe she had a crush on you too and was waiting for you to message her? Yeh, unlikely.
That's what I thought, which is why I waited. Evidently, it was good I didn't DM her. I'm so fucking delusional
 

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