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Serious Good idea to just tell the truth to your parents?

thewageslave

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Alright. I'm beginning to get sick and tired of this. Year after year nothing gets better. Each day is just the same shit. You basically just work and sleep every 24 hour. When I was 15 I thought things would get in place when I was 20. And when I was 20 I though that by 25 I would not have problems anymore with this single-shitlife. And now I am heading towards 30 and its still the same shit.

I don't know if you guys have the same feeling, but I freaking rage each time I see good looking couples on streets holding hands and kissing. Each time someone in my age (well literally all ages) is getting into a relationship and is going to marry. Each time someone talks about their ex's / boyfriends / girlfriends. Its so freaking crazy that there are like no normies out there that are single. It feels like everyone are in relationships while I just work and rot.

I am starting to become more and more based. I took the step starting escortcelling even though I wasn't that comfortable since its not really the way I am. I have booked tickets and travelled alone because of me being based and not caring anymore about what others think. And now I have booked a flight ticket to a neighbouring country just to visit several hookers and live in hostels. I would never dare things like this when I was 20 years old.

My parents are bluepilled and think that I have had girls and that I currently have a girl in my life that I am going to reveal and announce that we are getting married... thats how fucked up things are, they can't even add 1+1 even though I have been single all my life and I am heading towards 30. Even my brother made fun of me in front of us all saying that I have been single all my life while he bragged about having two ex's and being happily married now... I just feel that I want to cut ties to everyone in my family. Just pay my monthly rent to my parents and then sit at my room. If they want something they should come to me. I am not going to be that funny sibling/son/brother in law always seeking their attention...

Now I am planning to just tell the freaking truth. Say that I am an incel. That I will never find someone. That I have never had girls. That I fuck good looking hookers regularly to feel slightly better and that I am doing these travels monthly. Let them know that I am off to the airport with the sole aim to fuck hookers, let them know how miserable my life is. It is time to crush our bluepilled parents and make them realize that they created an ugly freaking offspring that will not pass on his genes and let them know that you are going to live in their house until they die.
 
I don't know if you guys have the same feeling, but I freaking rage each time I see good looking couples on streets holding hands and kissing.
You’re not the only one. Last night I was drinking Diet Coke and I saw a PDA couple and thought to myself how funny it would be if I splashed my coke on them. Of course I didn’t do it, but it was a funny thought.
Now I am planning to just tell the freaking truth. Say that I am an incel. That I will never find someone.
My parents are bluepilled as well, at least my mother. I don’t say the “I-word” around them though, because she’s one of those people who thinks Incels are responsible for every mass shooting in history. She flat out told me “Incels” did the Vegas shooting even though the perpetrator had a wife.
 
even tho my parents already know i have little chance of getting a girl, they dont know i wasted all their money on hookers
i might tell them one day
 
yes probably a good idea if you have a good relationship. But expect to hear a lot of blue pilled BS, take it lightly and with love and compassion...:feelsokman:
 
No stand up for yourself incel.
 
Same age nearing 30, I'm pretty close to venting at my parents myself due to current events at home regarding others entering relationships, it's getting harder to keep all this bottled up by the day. Even if they can't help and just spew bluepilled shit at me, at least it'll be off my chest and they'll know how unhappy I am deep down.

PS don't use the word incel as it's been hijacked and portrayed as something very bad in the media, it's only going to get worse. Use forever alone instead as that sounds more neutral.
 
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I never told anything to my parents because it was obvious than I'm a defective uggo. It's like telling them that fire is hot.
 
I don't know if you guys have the same feeling, but I freaking rage each time I see good looking couples on streets holding hands and kissing. Each time someone in my age (well literally all ages) is getting into a relationship and is going to marry. Each time someone talks about their ex's / boyfriends / girlfriends. Its so freaking crazy that there are like no normies out there that are single. It feels like everyone are in relationships while I just work and rot.
I feel like this as well. I hate seeing these assholes showing off their perfect lives.

My parents are awful, bluepilled and possibly narcissists, but even if they were decent I'd not tell them anything. Nothing good can come from this. Like all bluepillers, they won't understand, they won't show empathy, they won't be supportive and they'll blame you. People have to blackpill themselves, you can't blackpill others
 
It’s pointless telling them because from their point of view as a woman and a non incel, your parents won’t understand and assume it’s your choice. They won’t comprehend that it’s because you are ugly and they don’t know about hypergamy and how online dating dramatically ruined the dating world over the last 10 years. Back in your dads youth, most guys could get gf, only the bottom 1% we’re incels.
 
what are you trying to achieve by doing so ?
 
it's your decision, but based on what you said, I don't see the point in telling them
 
Same here, until now i always said "it's hard to find a woman these days" or "i don't have time, i'm too busy with work", i bring always some excuses. I have to tell them the truth too. Its over, never began actually.
 
it's your decision, but based on what you said, I don't see the point in telling them
what are you trying to achieve by doing so ?
It’s pointless telling them because from their point of view as a woman and a non incel, your parents won’t understand and assume it’s your choice. They won’t comprehend that it’s because you are ugly and they don’t know about hypergamy and how online dating dramatically ruined the dating world over the last 10 years. Back in your dads youth, most guys could get gf, only the bottom 1% we’re incels.
Your parents will just begin to harass you with bluepilled nonsense. Don't do this ever. Not even sure why you considered it.
 
Yes, I think is a good thing to tell the truth. But you must expect useless bluepilled advices.
 
Alright. I'm beginning to get sick and tired of this. Year after year nothing gets better. Each day is just the same shit. You basically just work and sleep every 24 hour. When I was 15 I thought things would get in place when I was 20. And when I was 20 I though that by 25 I would not have problems anymore with this single-shitlife. And now I am heading towards 30 and its still the same shit.

I don't know if you guys have the same feeling, but I freaking rage each time I see good looking couples on streets holding hands and kissing. Each time someone in my age (well literally all ages) is getting into a relationship and is going to marry. Each time someone talks about their ex's / boyfriends / girlfriends. Its so freaking crazy that there are like no normies out there that are single. It feels like everyone are in relationships while I just work and rot.

I am starting to become more and more based. I took the step starting escortcelling even though I wasn't that comfortable since its not really the way I am. I have booked tickets and travelled alone because of me being based and not caring anymore about what others think. And now I have booked a flight ticket to a neighbouring country just to visit several hookers and live in hostels. I would never dare things like this when I was 20 years old.

My parents are bluepilled and think that I have had girls and that I currently have a girl in my life that I am going to reveal and announce that we are getting married... thats how fucked up things are, they can't even add 1+1 even though I have been single all my life and I am heading towards 30. Even my brother made fun of me in front of us all saying that I have been single all my life while he bragged about having two ex's and being happily married now... I just feel that I want to cut ties to everyone in my family. Just pay my monthly rent to my parents and then sit at my room. If they want something they should come to me. I am not going to be that funny sibling/son/brother in law always seeking their attention...

Now I am planning to just tell the freaking truth. Say that I am an incel. That I will never find someone. That I have never had girls. That I fuck good looking hookers regularly to feel slightly better and that I am doing these travels monthly. Let them know that I am off to the airport with the sole aim to fuck hookers, let them know how miserable my life is. It is time to crush our bluepilled parents and make them realize that they created an ugly freaking offspring that will not pass on his genes and let them know that you are going to live in their house until they die.
Do it if you're planning on cutting ties with them.
 
Same here, until now i always said "it's hard to find a woman these days" or "i don't have time, i'm too busy with work", i bring always some excuses. I have to tell them the truth too. Its over, never began actually.
Yeah, it would be good to cut the excuses and come clean. First step to making peace with it I think.
 

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