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Going to start university as a 31yo virgin

PlebbyMenes

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This years September I have decided to go to a highly-appraised university in the capital city of my country.
My chance of getting admission is 100% since I have extremly high scores.
In my country (which is in eastern Europe) the average sexual diversity of college/uni students is about 60% women 40% men.
This one though being an elite, expensive, economics-focused university, the scale gets to about 70% women 30% men.

This course has 7 semesters, so I will be there for atleast 3.5 years.
I wonder how many girls will be interested in me. A poor, skinny-fat, ugly dude, who is soon gonna be 31 years old and almost totally bald regardless of his age. Imagine me getting right back into a society of 18-20 year olds.

I wonder if I never even look at anybody, who's going to invite me anywhere? Who's going to call me to have a drink at the riverside after classes? Who's going to say hey, we're gonna go chill out on the campus this afternoon, you wanna come with us?

...
 
If you already managed to be sexless for 31 years it ain't gonna change nothing.
 
mogs me

i am older and still have not had any higher education
 
Just do open universities or online correspondence
 
Do NOT go to university for the purpose of getting a girlfriend, because, you will not
Fortunately that ain't my purpose. I have zero hope.
I just love moneyz.

It just so happens that I will attend a university full of economist girls.
 
if you are planning to study+work. to get money...youre delusional ,naive and childish
start hiring illegal immigrants as a tertiary-labor agency, or something like that. no one WORKS for money ; you make others get their hands dirty + mooch and leech off welfare and family while you save and invest all income ; 0 expenses
 
You have elected to torture yourself. At least take some creepshots.
 
This years September I have decided to go to a highly-appraised university in the capital city of my country.
My chance of getting admission is 100% since I have extremly high scores.
In my country (which is in eastern Europe) the average sexual diversity of college/uni students is about 60% women 40% men.
This one though being an elite, expensive, economics-focused university, the scale gets to about 70% women 30% men.

This course has 7 semesters, so I will be there for atleast 3.5 years.
I wonder how many girls will be interested in me. A poor, skinny-fat, ugly dude, who is soon gonna be 31 years old and almost totally bald regardless of his age. Imagine me getting right back into a society of 18-20 year olds.

I wonder if I never even look at anybody, who's going to invite me anywhere? Who's going to call me to have a drink at the riverside after classes? Who's going to say hey, we're gonna go chill out on the campus this afternoon, you wanna come with us?

...

You need to turn yourself into the go getter I reckon. Be the guys that invites people anywhere. Who's going to call people to have a drink at the riverside after classes. Who's going to say hey, we're gonna go chill out on the campus this afternoon, you wanna come with us?

Let us know how it goes
 
Also don't introduce yourself as a 31yo virgin.
 
Great if u can make it those 3 years but dont expect any social activities. You will be the old weird dude in the class thats it.
The normies might talk to you but you wont get involved in any social activities outside school tbh.
Kinda brutal because the way most people get through the hellish boring studymaxxing stuff is because they have friends celebrate and do fun stuff after exams.
:feelsbadman:
 
Fortunately that ain't my purpose. I have zero hope.
I just love moneyz.

It just so happens that I will attend a university full of economist girls.
Yeah that sounds brutal, especially with eastern european foids. I couldn't do it ngl.

Working with some boomers is kind of fine, I don't envy their post wall roastie wifes or their money coping. But seeing teenage or young girls on a daily basis would be too much.
 
Good luck highIQcel.
 
At least take some creepshots.
Also don't introduce yourself as a 31yo virgin.
I lol'd.

Working with some boomers is kind of fine, I don't envy their post wall roastie wifes or their money coping. But seeing teenage or young girls on a daily basis would be too much.
Same thought. I figured I would be in pain seeing all these hot girls but no action.
I mean it's like a strip club that I never wanted to attend, but now I have to watch the show.

Great if u can make it those 3 years but dont expect any social activities. You will be the old weird dude in the class thats it.
The normies might talk to you but you wont get involved in any social activities outside school tbh.
Kinda brutal because the way most people get through the hellish boring studymaxxing stuff is because they have friends celebrate and do fun stuff after exams.
:feelsbadman:
Same as in high school. It all started in late elementary though. Once being ugly was a reason for groups to avoid me, and my friends to befriend me because of my looks, I went downhill.
We were "okay" in school, but no voluntary activities with me after school whatsoever. I was never invited anywhere.
Same thing will happen in uni I reckon. Once the classes end, I'mma go and take the bus home and that's it for the day.
Studymaxxing is something I can survive sober since I'm high IQ. I don't need to waste myself thankfully. Drugs are a cope for normies.

Good luck highIQcel.
Thanks bro!
 
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I lol'd.


Same thought. I figured I would be in pain seeing all these hot girls but no action.
I mean it's like a strip club that I never wanted to attend, but now I have to watch the show.
What are your skills? Maybe we could start something together and make some money. If you live in EE, then you don't even need to make much to outearn the average wageslave.
 
What are your skills? Maybe we could start something together and make some money. If you live in EE, then you don't even need to make much to outearn the average wageslave.
I started coding in January, had a few free Python lessons for 3 weeks and I just took a final exam in advanced IT, did a 96% overall with 100% in programming. I'm somewhere in the top 0.5%.

I am going to learn business informatics, CRM and ERP systems. Shit is beautifully paid, especially if you are a pro in Java (which I am not, but I am planning to start soon). This may bring me a highly intellectualized job offer with a nice paycheck. Nice here, wageslave in USA, but whatever.

No meeting with another fellow incel under any circumstances though.
Yah, earning just enough to live by is okay with me. I've been on benefits for the last few months... Making frozen food from my fridge lmao.
 
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Moneymaxxing may be the ultimate revenge on women though. I am pretty good in investing, I bought my first home (a flat) when I was 23, now I am 30 and have enough cash invested right now to buy me another one, plus some savings. People of my age typically just started to get a loan together with his/her partner to pay for a shitty little flat, after they have paid back their student loans. I am about 10-15 years ahead of everybody. Pathetic scum.:feelssus:

I don't show my wealth at all, I dress in cheap, worn clothes, I drive a car worth ~1000 USD, I eat the cheapest food possible. All due to my perspective of suffering now, enjoying life later.

I wish to see the face of late 40's women, who rejected me in my teenage years and 20's, realizing that I have like 10 flats already and shit is working out for me, and they don't get $0.01 from it.
I hope I can still be alive by then.
 
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I wonder how many girls will be interested in me.
I was writing a comment here about how stacies in my school used to reject boys of our class to date the older guys, but then I remembered that those same older guys were tall and sometimes also muscular af :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:
 
I was writing a comment here about how stacies in my school used to reject boys of our class to date the older guys, but then I remembered that those same older guys were tall and sometimes also muscular af :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek:
And rich.
And handsome.
And had bushy beards.
And had lots of people around them.
And had their phone ringing all the time.
etc.
 
When I joined uni I was 22, a bit late here in Brasil, I only did it to make my parents happy but fortunately my course was majority composed by man so it was a great time for me there.

But yeah prepare to see a lot of beautiful foids and get depressed.

Also don't introduce yourself as a 31yo virgin.
 
Moneymaxxing may be the ultimate revenge on women though. I am pretty good in investing, I bought my first home (a flat) when I was 23, now I am 30 and have enough cash invested right now to buy me another one, plus some savings. People of my age typically just started to get a loan together with his/her partner to pay for a shitty little flat, after they have paid back their student loans. I am about 10-15 years ahead of everybody. Pathetic scum.:feelssus:

I don't show my wealth at all, I dress in cheap, worn clothes, I drive a car worth ~1000 USD, I eat the cheapest food possible. All due to my perspective of suffering now, enjoying life later.

I wish to see the face of late 40's women, who rejected me in my teenage years and 20's, realizing that I have like 10 flats already and shit is working out for me, and they don't get $0.01 from it.
I hope I can still be alive by then.
The part with the 40yo woman is cope, no offense. Women want good genes and good looks, that's their highest priority. And if a woman really wants money, she will find a beta buxer on the side, where they all line up for her.
 
The part with the 40yo woman is cope, no offense. Women want good genes and good looks, that's their highest priority. And if a woman really wants money, she will find a beta buxer on the side, where they all line up for her.
I would disagree. A woman is worthless beyond hitting the wall. 40 somethings can't stand a chance, they can only get beta subs who are probably unsuccessful in any other area of life, due to pretty privilege. And even if they (women) find a 2/10 guy who's rich, they will be unsatisfied. The point is, I will not be there for them, I will not be available for nobody when their sexuality rockbottoms. They will be jealous of my achievements, but by then, it is too late. All these girls who were my schoolmates, but rejected me in late elementary, and in high school, will be divorced or never even married single ladies, who rode the cock carousel their whole lives and by the time they turn 40, they cannot put anything on the table. Their only trait, their sexuality will evaporate over the years, and the realisation will come a bit too late. Self-improvement is the only revenge. Failing in relationships, but exceeding others in EVERY other aspect of life.
 
I bought my first home (a flat) when I was 23, now I am 30 and have enough cash invested right now to buy me another one, plus some savings
why not go to escorts?
 
I wish I could go to university again
 
Is beginning uni at 31 common in your country?

I guess not, but do you know if you'll be the only student in his 30s in your uni?
 
This years September I have decided to go to a highly-appraised university in the capital city of my country.
My chance of getting admission is 100% since I have extremly high scores.
In my country (which is in eastern Europe) the average sexual diversity of college/uni students is about 60% women 40% men.
This one though being an elite, expensive, economics-focused university, the scale gets to about 70% women 30% men.

This course has 7 semesters, so I will be there for atleast 3.5 years.
I wonder how many girls will be interested in me. A poor, skinny-fat, ugly dude, who is soon gonna be 31 years old and almost totally bald regardless of his age. Imagine me getting right back into a society of 18-20 year olds.

I wonder if I never even look at anybody, who's going to invite me anywhere? Who's going to call me to have a drink at the riverside after classes? Who's going to say hey, we're gonna go chill out on the campus this afternoon, you wanna come with us?

...
in warsaw?
 
The 80/20 rule still applies regardless of sex ratio
 
dude don;t waste your time and money. just get a AAS deg and certs
 
You can at least leverage your relatively advanced age and considerably greater life experience as a means by which to appeal to the sensibilities of some of the less pretentious and more genuine foids who value insight and circumspection. I had a similar experience, as I spent six years completing what ought to have been a four year undergraduate degree and many of my fellow students took a rather deferential posture towards me on account of my having been at the institutions so much longer then they had.
 
And rich.
And handsome.
And had bushy beards.
And had lots of people around them.
And had their phone ringing all the time.
etc.
Indeed.
All I can do now is to advice you to never forget your primary reason for getting in there (higher salaries and chances of getting hired I suppose) so you can keep yourself motivated. If no foid gets attracted to you, so be it.
 
Moneymaxxing may be the ultimate revenge on women though. I am pretty good in investing, I bought my first home (a flat) when I was 23, now I am 30 and have enough cash invested right now to buy me another one, plus some savings. People of my age typically just started to get a loan together with his/her partner to pay for a shitty little flat, after they have paid back their student loans. I am about 10-15 years ahead of everybody. Pathetic scum.:feelssus:

I don't show my wealth at all, I dress in cheap, worn clothes, I drive a car worth ~1000 USD, I eat the cheapest food possible. All due to my perspective of suffering now, enjoying life later.

I wish to see the face of late 40's women, who rejected me in my teenage years and 20's, realizing that I have like 10 flats already and shit is working out for me, and they don't get $0.01 from it.
I hope I can still be alive by then.
Whats the point of having more than one flat?
 
I'm hoping to begin later this year , but i'm 22.
 
id be happy if i could have the cognitive capacity back to even learn/study anything
 
why not go to escorts?
I am no escortcel. And even if I was, we all know that doesn't count.

I wish I could go to university again
Why can't you? If you have the financial capabilities to sustain your living fees, you could start anytime.

Is beginning uni at 31 common in your country?

I guess not, but do you know if you'll be the only student in his 30s in your uni?
No, I'd guess about 10-15% max.
Most people go to uni right after, or a few years after ending high school. I just hope it's not THAT rare for 30 somethings. I'm okay with not being in the majority, but I don't wanna be "special"...

in warsaw?
No, but close.

dude don;t waste your time and money. just get a AAS deg and certs
Not available in my country. BSc > MSc are my options.

Whats the point of having more than one flat?
Lending for rental fee. Passive income.
 
Time to groom max. Younger girls MAY see you as a novelty so good luck staying non-autistic long enough to very possibly get laid to the nearest arthoe with daddy issues.
 
I am no escortcel. And even if I was, we all know that doesn't count.


Why can't you? If you have the financial capabilities to sustain your living fees, you could start anytime.


No, I'd guess about 10-15% max.
Most people go to uni right after, or a few years after ending high school. I just hope it's not THAT rare for 30 somethings. I'm okay with not being in the majority, but I don't wanna be "special"...


No, but close.


Not available in my country. BSc > MSc are my options.


Lending for rental fee. Passive income.
Btw lots of people our ages have already bought houses on a mortgage, so I don't think you are 15 years ahead
 
Btw lots of people our ages have already bought houses on a mortgage, so I don't think you are 15 years ahead
Yeah well I own nobody. I got mine for cash.
 

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