Blackpill Giving up on finding relationship

[jonvm]

Hi everyone, I'm new to this forum, I thought I'd just come here to vent out a little bit. I'm around 20s Asian male. Despite the fact that other people said I look decent, and very funny personality, I've never been into one single relationship with girls. I do have lots of female friends both at school and at work, but they seem just never interested in me.

There is one time I take a courage to confess to my crush / co-worker, and no, she isn't even your typical 10/10 scale, I'd say that she's your typical nerdy glasses girl. We've been known for about half a year. And one day she invited me to go to movies with her, and I did confessed I liked her at that time. Her respond was "You're handsome and funny but we should just be friends." Rejection hurts, I know, but the thing is, by that, I've already lost a friend, and she barely contact me anymore after that.

I've been talked about that to my other friends and other forums, that they said "friendzone aren't real". Yes it's not real because they never experienced them.

By being Asian male, you're automatically the least desired, unless you look like K-Pop singer. At least, if you're white, you can go to anywhere in Asia, and no one will reject you for sure.

So anyway, I think I'll be fine without having any relationship at all. I've found something that keeps me up even without having a gf.

Sometimes it also got me thinking, what are the purpose of having a gf ? We live in era of technology, we have AI app that can help you simulate or cope as if you have a gf. And I'm thinking just to buy a love doll if I really that horny / desperate.

In the end,

Girlfriend is just a DLC, it's good to have it, but it's not completely necessary.

sorry for long post, and have a good day there, folks !

 

[your personality]

Hi everyone, I'm new to this forum, I thought I'd just come here to vent out a little bit. I'm around 20s Asian male. Despite the fact that other people said I look decent, and very funny personality, I've never been into one single relationship with girls. I do have lots of female friends both at school and at work, but they seem just never interested in me.

There is one time I take a courage to confess to my crush / co-worker, and no, she isn't even your typical 10/10 scale, I'd say that she's your typical nerdy glasses girl. We've been known for about half a year. And one day she invited me to go to movies with her, and I did confessed I liked her at that time. Her respond was "You're handsome and funny but we should just be friends." Rejection hurts, I know, but the thing is, by that, I've already lost a friend, and she barely contact me anymore after that.

Yeah it seems she was playing you by pretend asking you out liek that.

I've been talked about that to my other friends and other forums, that they said "friendzone aren't real". Yes it's not real because they never experienced them.

The whole concept of the friendzone and women deliberately and falsely leading on men got memoryholed in the last few years. I don't know wtf happened.

So anyway, I think I'll be fine without having any relationship at all. I've found something that keeps me up even without having a gf.

And hopefully that cope lasts.

Sometimes it also got me thinking, what are the purpose of having a gf ? We live in era of technology, we have AI app that can help you simulate or cope as if you have a gf. And I'm thinking just to buy a love doll if I really that horny / desperate.

In the end,

Girlfriend is just a DLC, it's good to have it, but it's not completely necessary.

sorry for long post, and have a good day there, folks !

A love doll wouldn't hurt if you are horny/desperate. Still a cope though.

 

[Chinkbonics]

Copes are copes. You won't be able to truly escape from your biological needs. Still though, it's all we can do.

 

[TheHopefulBeliever]

Copes are copes. You won't be able to truly escape from your biological needs. Still though, it's all we can do.

 

[AlexanderTheGreat11]

it’s better that you don’t expect one

 

[Deleted member 14805]

Hi everyone, I'm new to this forum, I thought I'd just come here to vent out a little bit. I'm around 20s Asian male. Despite the fact that other people said I look decent, and very funny personality, I've never been into one single relationship with girls. I do have lots of female friends both at school and at work, but they seem just never interested in me.

There is one time I take a courage to confess to my crush / co-worker, and no, she isn't even your typical 10/10 scale, I'd say that she's your typical nerdy glasses girl. We've been known for about half a year. And one day she invited me to go to movies with her, and I did confessed I liked her at that time. Her respond was "You're handsome and funny but we should just be friends." Rejection hurts, I know, but the thing is, by that, I've already lost a friend, and she barely contact me anymore after that.

I've been talked about that to my other friends and other forums, that they said "friendzone aren't real". Yes it's not real because they never experienced them.

By being Asian male, you're automatically the least desired, unless you look like K-Pop singer. At least, if you're white, you can go to anywhere in Asia, and no one will reject you for sure.

So anyway, I think I'll be fine without having any relationship at all. I've found something that keeps me up even without having a gf.

Sometimes it also got me thinking, what are the purpose of having a gf ? We live in era of technology, we have AI app that can help you simulate or cope as if you have a gf. And I'm thinking just to buy a love doll if I really that horny / desperate.

In the end,

Girlfriend is just a DLC, it's good to have it, but it's not completely necessary.

sorry for long post, and have a good day there, folks !

Yandere Dev is that you?

In seriousness, ethnic males are either subhuman or Chad variant. I.E. Changs,Chaddams,Tyrones etc., there is no in between. Ethnics have ugly features compared to whites on average, what's more is that subhuman whites mog subhuman ethnics, like how US currency has more value compared to Mexican currency.

All in all, I'm not surprised you got rejected, Asian guys have that nasty small dick stereotype and that alone is enough to put women off. As for a sex doll I'll summon sex doll owners to give you a heads up about the pros and cons of owning a sex doll @radishman @Sexdoll Pioneer Give the OP the rundown on the ups and downs on owing a sex doll.

 

[jonvm]

Yandere Dev is that you?

In short, no, I am not Yandere Dev.

In seriousness, ethnic males are either subhuman or Chad variant. I.E. Changs,Chaddams,Tyrones etc., there is no in between. Ethnics have ugly features compared to whites on average, what's more is that subhuman whites mog subhuman ethnics, like how US currency has more value compared to Mexican currency.

Well, even if you look like No Neck Ed, you still desired by random Philippines girl.

All in all, I'm not surprised you got rejected, Asian guys have that nasty small dick stereotype and that alone is enough to put women off.

Yeah that kinda sucks. Even Asian girls gets turned off by Asian men. It's all because this stereotype. Those peeps who are saying "Size doesn't matter" lol

 

[InvisibleWizard]

Barring physical and mental handicaps, has there ever been multiple examples of gymmaxxed trucels?

 

[ionlycopenow]

Barring physical and mental handicaps, has there ever been multiple examples of gymmaxxed trucels?

Alpha destiny

Copes are copes. You won't be able to truly escape from your biological needs. Still though, it's all we can do.

Yep, sex is a basic need for your brain and body, without it you won't function at 100%, for some these effects can be much worse than for others. But bottom line is, copes are putting tape over the real problem, being a loser virgin. But it's better than nothing.

 

[radishman]

If you're just after sex I don't recommend a doll. But if you're seeking a way of breaking the habit of needlessly chasing foids through apps and irl who will never give you a chance... a doll can help.

I'm probably the most prodoll user on .co. There's a few other owners but no one else takes it to the level I do, which is probably why I don't regret it.

Some will shame you for "being sent his own way" but unless surgery or gym will turn you into a Chad it's the best choice you can make.

If you just want to bust nuts, get a cheaper toy or just pay whores.

 

[latin_elioth]

Rice and Curries should join forces to create the most advanced AI companion to cope with loneliness

 

[LastGerman]

Yandere Dev is that you?

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DtFP6kYph48

 

[jonvm]

If you're just after sex I don't recommend a doll. But if you're seeking a way of breaking the habit of needlessly chasing foids through apps and irl who will never give you a chance... a doll can help.

I'm probably the most prodoll user on .co. There's a few other owners but no one else takes it to the level I do, which is probably why I don't regret it.

Some will shame you for "being sent his own way" but unless surgery or gym will turn you into a Chad it's the best choice you can make.

If you just want to bust nuts, get a cheaper toy or just pay whores.

I heard that they say love dolls are very fragile ? I was thinking to saving up to buy the one that cost around 500 to 1500 bucks. I don't want the one that like Yandere Dev's, 4000 bucks and looks ugly asf.

 

[Strong One]

Stop lying to yourself, accept that you'd like a girlfriend.

I remember coping just like that in my Sophomore and Junior year of highschool, back when I was MGTOW.

 

[jonvm]

Stop lying to yourself, accept that you'd like a girlfriend.

I remember coping just like that in my Sophomore and Junior year of highschool, back when I was MGTOW.

I'd like to have one, but I don't think there's any chance at all anymore,
so I gave up and focus on doing what I like.
I feel like having gf will be a nuisance and will probably take up most of your time.

 

[radishman]

I heard that they say love dolls are very fragile ? I was thinking to saving up to buy the one that cost around 500 to 1500 bucks. I don't want the one that like Yandere Dev's, 4000 bucks and looks ugly asf.

I paid 3k for mine so I can't say what a 500 one is like

The fingers are very fragile but the rest is fine. She has minor tears on her joints (knees and elbows) but she's also a few years old.

 

[Deleted member 19546]

You're handsome and funny but we should just be friends.

Maybe she needs time to develop the relationship? I've never been called handsome when rejected.

 

[Sexdoll Pioneer]

As for a sex doll I'll summon sex doll owners to give you a heads up about the pros and cons of owning a sex doll @radishman @Sexdoll Pioneer Give the OP the rundown on the ups and downs on owing a sex doll.

PROS:
Cleaner than foids with no risk of diseases or getting cheated on
More full-body physical stimulation than using your hand
Feels MUCH better than having sex with a condom on
Kissing them feels good despite the unnatural taste
Often comes with heating device that you can plug into USB port
No performance pressure has boosted my comfort level around holes
Cuddling next to them has improved my sleep quality at night

CONS:
Quality ones are still on the pricey side
Bulky and not the easiest to carry around
Maintenance/cleaning is a hassle for TPE dolls
Might become moldy similar to fleshlights
Material doesn't match a real woman's skin yet
It sometimes enhances your cravings for the real thing
Your sexdolls will be found when you die (hopefully not before!)

 

[Pengwin]

I paid 3k for mine so I can't say what a 500 one is like

The fingers are very fragile but the rest is fine. She has minor tears on her joints (knees and elbows) but she's also a few years old.

What does it look like? Would you recommend it? Pics if possible please.

 

[Deleted member 24256]

Rice and Curries should join forces to create the most advanced AI companion to cope with loneliness

 

[Deleted member 26923]

Welcome, are you at least a ricecel living in asia or are you unfortunate enough to live in western countries as a rice man?

 

[radishman]

What does it look like? Would you recommend it? Pics if possible please.

It's the thicc jasmine one. I have a different face, but since I have a similar hair (short dark since long just makes a mess) so it's mostly the same.

 

[Lone-Star]

I gave up when I was 19, all i have left are my copes but i fear even those will be abandoned in the future....

 

[jonvm]

Maybe she needs time to develop the relationship? I've never been called handsome when rejected.

Yeah, I also think it's all because the bad timing especially during this pandemic period.

PROS:
Cleaner than foids with no risk of diseases or getting cheated on
More full-body physical stimulation than using your hand
Feels MUCH better than having sex with a condom on
Kissing them feels good despite the unnatural taste
Often comes with heating device that you can plug into USB port
No performance pressure has boosted my comfort level around holes
Cuddling next to them has improved my sleep quality at night

CONS:
Quality ones are still on the pricey side
Bulky and not the easiest to carry around
Maintenance/cleaning is a hassle for TPE dolls
Might become moldy similar to fleshlights
Material doesn't match a real woman's skin yet
It sometimes enhances your cravings for the real thing
Your sexdolls will be found when you die (hopefully not before!)

And the huge con will also be storing them. When buying them, the delivery guy will probably laugh like "what a loser". or when dispose it, you can't just dispose it like throw it on trash can ? Like people will assume you murdered someone. Also I never think of using condom when using love doll, I thought cleaning after jerking off on it will be hassle task.

Welcome, are you at least a ricecel living in asia or are you unfortunate enough to live in western countries as a rice man?

I'm ricecel living in asia. I'm so thankful not living in the US, reminding the shitstorm happening there, and how western woman are much worst there.

 

[Deleted member 26923]

Yeah, I also think it's all because the bad timing especially during this pandemic period.



And the huge con will also be storing them. When buying them, the delivery guy will probably laugh like "what a loser". or when dispose it, you can't just dispose it like throw it on trash can ? Like people will assume you murdered someone. Also I never think of using condom when using love doll, I thought cleaning after jerking off on it will be hassle task.



I'm ricecel living in asia. I'm so thankful not living in the US, reminding the shitstorm happening there, and how western woman are much worst there.

Which part of asian are you living in? of course i'm not asking you to dox yourself and say the country, i'm just asking If you are from the "good" asian countries like Japan, Korea and China or If you are from the bad ones meaning the poorest ones.

 

[Shin no Shi]

Hi everyone, I'm new to this forum, I thought I'd just come here to vent out a little bit. I'm around 20s Asian male. Despite the fact that other people said I look decent, and very funny personality, I've never been into one single relationship with girls. I do have lots of female friends both at school and at work, but they seem just never interested in me.

There is one time I take a courage to confess to my crush / co-worker, and no, she isn't even your typical 10/10 scale, I'd say that she's your typical nerdy glasses girl. We've been known for about half a year. And one day she invited me to go to movies with her, and I did confessed I liked her at that time. Her respond was "You're handsome and funny but we should just be friends." Rejection hurts, I know, but the thing is, by that, I've already lost a friend, and she barely contact me anymore after that.

I've been talked about that to my other friends and other forums, that they said "friendzone aren't real". Yes it's not real because they never experienced them.

By being Asian male, you're automatically the least desired, unless you look like K-Pop singer. At least, if you're white, you can go to anywhere in Asia, and no one will reject you for sure.

So anyway, I think I'll be fine without having any relationship at all. I've found something that keeps me up even without having a gf.

Sometimes it also got me thinking, what are the purpose of having a gf ? We live in era of technology, we have AI app that can help you simulate or cope as if you have a gf. And I'm thinking just to buy a love doll if I really that horny / desperate.

In the end,

Girlfriend is just a DLC, it's good to have it, but it's not completely necessary.

sorry for long post, and have a good day there, folks !

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