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Give me a reason to initiate

PlebbyMenes

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Okay so let's try to have an intelligent conversation here, and leave the trolling and the hatred.
I know this whole forum isn't about relationship advice, tho I am genuinely interested in your opinion.

Let's assume that you are having a conversation with someone, and the topic begins to drift towards relationships. Let's say you have given up all hope a long time ago, and promised (like me) to never EVER initiate a romantic relationship with a girl. No flirting, no casual texting (other than asking for some material for school, or appointment), no hanging out in bars, no getting-to-know-eachother when a girl joins your group of friends. No nothing. You simply do not engage with women. You give short answers, you seem uninterested, you give off a vibe of genuine carelessness. All things go "well". You live your life in this manner, but atleast you are not rejected.

Now.
For what in the holy world would you change your mind? To think like a bluepilled and think "oh, just this last time, maybe I'll get a girlfriend now"?
What do you think, why should society want YOU to go up to girls, and ask for their numbers? To get looked at with an annoyed face like Billie Eilish's?
Why should YOU even try to do something?
Why should YOU make the first step, when every first step that you took in your life only put you through literall hell, and you got mentally worse in each occasion, and decided to stop before you actually go ER?
Why should YOU assume, that that cute girl who is trying not to look in your eyes, is actually thinking "ohh, why isn't he (you) interested in me? Maybe he is just shy"?
Why should YOU assume, that any women would be interested in getting to know you right now, when you were never invited to parties in your whole life, and now you are 30 something years old?

They say that what you don't try, you don't know.

And I mean I do feel this kind of pressure from society, but stuff like this just doesn't work the same way for us. Maybe a Chad who's a bit shy could have a girl checking him out and waiting for Chad to make the first move. But not us, man. It NEVER worked out. For us, it was always better to stay out of dating. Why should we even try to initiate? What is OUR incentive?

Please leave if you just wanna spam shit.
 
The incentive is reducing ourselves socially so NT normies / goyim and chads subconsciously get SMV raised by proxy, a lot of people talk about not having friends but I always had them, because they loved having a subhuman around at parties because it made even my 4/10 jewfro friend look good in comparison.

We don't try because we know the results, they are predictable to a certainty if you are of moderate IQ with the social experience to back it up.
But society tells us from birth nothing is certain, a duck can become a swan, the balding janitor will become the new bezos, there is no incentive other then the subtle societal pressure and memetic manipulation that works 24/7 to keep monkeys invested in a system we weren't mentally or biologically designed for.
 
The incentive is reducing ourselves socially so NT normies / goyim and chads subconsciously get SMV raised by proxy, a lot of people talk about not having friends but I always had them, because they loved having a subhuman around at parties because it made even my 4/10 jewfro friend look good in comparison.

We don't try because we know the results, they are predictable to a certainty if you are of moderate IQ with the social experience to back it up.
But society tells us from birth nothing is certain, a duck can become a swan, the balding janitor will become the new bezos, there is no incentive other then the subtle societal pressure and memetic manipulation that works 24/7 to keep monkeys invested in a system we weren't mentally or biologically designed for.
Its fucked either way because no amount of subhuman inflation will inflate a man's SMV compared to a woman in current year, with a army of simps and a navy of orbiters. The only play for subhuman is to not play at all

The American Meme and its consequences have been a disaster for subhumans everywhere
 
I guess this is a hypothetical question.

The answer is that the guy in this scenario might start to think, "Gee, none of these foids have given me the typical death glares or called me creepy yet. Maybe I accidentally discovered a new approach. I wasn't even trying this time, and I haven't had a falling out with a foid yet, so maybe I've made a better impression."

And of course, the blackpill will come to collect. But I'm assuming that might be the thought process.
 
For what in the holy world would you change your mind?
LONELINESS drives people to do irrational things.

iu


Eventually, one goes INSANE from loneliness.
 

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