Getting rejected for a second date

[j8gao]

Asked a girl out. She said yes.

She emphatically swore she had a good time. I'm not oblivious - I can tell she genuinely did enjoy it. But she flat-out said no to both letting me hold her hand and a second date. When I asked for a second date, she said "No because I need to take care of/focus on myself for now."

Why would she accept a first date then?



I should mention, this girl is in my class. We were never friends before I asked her out, but now she acts like we are. I almost get the feeling that she treated the date as nothing more than a free dinner from someone she never had any interest in in the first place.


Do you think it sucks more to get rejected for a second date than a first? I honestly think it does, as someone who's never made it past date 1.

 

[ArtoriasWolf]

Should have went to free places first to test her.

 

[FACEandLMS]

I had a date with a 250ish lb, short mixed-race girl like 2 years ago.

We were on the date for 3 hours in a bar. She was laughing and smiling on the date, At the end of the date, I kissed her and she smiled and said "let's go out to dinner next time".

When I got home, I noticed she added a new pic to her Tinder. I thought that was weird cuz if anything, she should be toning her Tinder down, not ramping it up. She didn't contact me for a few days. It was over. I sent a message to her and she said that she would go out with me again as friends. As. Friends.

I have no idea what I did wrong. All I can assume is that:

- My Tinder pic was too frauded by not showing how bad my jaw is. All my pics were front-on, with good lighting.
- She didn't like me on the date but she may have gotten swept along in the moment and just enjoyed it for what it was for her: free drinks and some validation.
- She immediately knew she wouldn't see me again after the date, so ramped up her Tinder to lure in a better looking man.
- Maybe she was talking to some Chad/Tyrone at the same time as I was talking to her, and she only went on the date with me to fill time until the Chad/Tyrone was available.

If she hated my personaliteehee then why did she not get mad at me for kissing her and why did she stay for 3 fucking hours instead of making up some excuse to leave? If anything, it shows that she enjoyed my company, but when she was on her own, going home, she was honest with herself and knew she wanted a better looking specimen.

Women have treated me worse than men have when I think back on my life.

 

[SupremeG]

A lot of girls are like that, nothing unusual. When she says something like this
"Im not looking for a bf atm"
"You surely find a gf someday"
"I need to take care of myself"

It's over. You're not her type.

 

[Recon9]

NORMIES GET OUT REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

 

[BlackpilledAF]

Asked a girl out. She said yes.

She emphatically swore she had a good time. I'm not oblivious - I can tell she genuinely did enjoy it. But she flat-out said no to both letting me hold her hand and a second date. When I asked for a second date, she said "No because I need to take care of/focus on myself for now."

This is not a date, this is a cucking of epic proportions.

 

[j8gao]

NORMIES GET OUT REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

I can see why you'd think that, but I'm kissless, handholdless, 23 year old virgin with no friends. I've only been on 4 dates and I exclusively ask out unattractive women.

 

[Recon9]

NORMIES GET OUT REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

I can see why you'd think that, but I'm kissless, handholdless, 23 year old virgin with no friends. I've only been on 4 dates and I exclusively ask out unattractive women.

4 dates handholdless? dafuq

also """"""only"""""" 4 dates lul

0kay Normie