Back in 2020 I graduated from high school and finally turned 18. I got my drivers license and my first car. I also got my first job. My first job was working at Home Depot. It was an ok job. I mostly worked outside and I had to load shopping and lumber carts into the store. My coworkers in my department were mostly male because of the physical labor. We only had one female in my department. Other departments had more women than men. I tried to be nice and friendly to coworkers and customers. A few months later I met this one girl who was working in the customer service department. I got to know her and I thought she was cool, cute, and relatable. We were both the same age and our birthdays were in May. I thought we had a lot in common. I thought we were made for each other. When I first met her she didn’t have a car or drivers license. Usually she would get rides from her friends or family but one day her family was too busy to pick her up from work and I promised to give her a ride home safely and I did. When we arrived to her house I met her family. Her parents were divorced and her mother was with another man. Her mother told me she didn’t want her daughter to date anyone yet I was really confused. After that I still tried to be friends with this girl. I took her out to lunch a couple times just so I can get to know her more and I still thought she was cool. Then on Valentine’s Day I bought her flowers, chocolate, teddy bear and necklace. When I showed her the gifts I bought her, she didn’t look happy or excited to see them. I also made a joke saying how we could be friends with benefits after. The next day she told me that she did not want the gifts I bought her and she only saw me as friend. She didn’t like the necklace I gave her because it was a Christian Cross. I never knew that before I bought the necklace. She told me she got offended by my “friends with benefits” joke. She told me that she didn’t want any more gifts from me at all. She gave me back the necklace. I told her she could keep the other gifts if she wants and she said she would but I bet you she threw them away. After that we would still see each other at work. I would still greet and compliment her sometimes. I tried to hit up on other female coworkers but they were never interested in me at all. A lot of them reported me to bosses, managers, and HR. So in May I bought a cake for the same girl who rejected me because it was her birthday and this time she didn’t even want the cake for some reason. I was confused because it’s just a cake and yet didn’t want it at all even though it’s her birthday. So afterwards I just gave up. She started to slowly distance herself away from me. She told me that she needed space from me. One month later I got fired from Home Depot for playing with and lighting fireworks at work on the 4th of July and after I got fired she stopped answering my calls and texts. She started to ignore and ghost me. I was a little worried and confused because she used to reply to most of my texts. So I stopped by her house to check and see if everything is okay. I knew where she lived because I gave her rides home. When I arrived I only saw her step dad and her siblings and they didn’t look happy to see me at all even though they knew who I was. He asked me if she knew I was coming and when I said no he got upset even though nobody was picking up my calls or texts. I told him it was just a misunderstanding. He wouldn’t let me see her. I told him my plans for the future. Later on I went home and I tried to text her again and still no reply. I told my friend what happened and he wanted her phone number and I gave him her number and she replied him over me! My friend lives in Delaware and she answered his texts. She told my friend that I was a good friend but once I got fired from Home Depot she didn’t want anything to with me. She said that I gave her “weird vibes”. She told him that she got weirded out when I came to her house uninvited without permission. My friend said that she did me dirty. All of this happened in 2021. Then 3 years later in 2024 I came back to social media and I start to make and post content online on Instagram. I found that same girl on instagram and I tried to follow her but her account was private. My account was public and she instantly saw who I was. I tried to dm her and once she figured out who I was she blocked me. Then I created a TikTok account and I found her on TikTok and I texted her to “block me” with a few emojis and she blocked me again. She also blocked my phone number. After that I was planning on getting revenge on her. She deactivated her TikTok and Instagram account for a few months after she saw me. She closed her comments and dm’s. She deleted her profile pictures. Then in January 2025 she reactivated her TikTok account and when she did that when I came back to strike. Since she blocked my phone number I used *67 to call her and when I did she picked up. I called her a stupid little bitch. I told her to die. I called her a cunt. I told her to go kill yourself. She hanged up once she found out who it was. I left some very offensive voicemails. After I use an alternate phone number I created using an app to send her hate messages. After she blocked those numbers. Then 3 days later the police came to my house and they want to question me about the things I said about the girl. The girl called the police on me after I threatened and harassed her online. There were like 5 cops surrounding me. The police told me that she feared for life after she got those calls and texts from me. I was just trolling. She told police what I did and said. She showed them the texts and voicemails. She told them how I got fired from Home Depot. She told them how I came to her house uninvited without permission even though that happened 3.5 years ago. They wanted to charge me with misdemeanors. I told the police that I wanted to get even with her by trolling her after she rejected and blocked me. My mom was shocked and surprised to see that many police in front of our house over something so small. My mom defended me. The neighbors saw the cops. The cops let me go and warned me not to talk to that girl or come to her house ever again or they would have me arrested. Then four days later the cops came to the house to give me a temporary restraining order signed by that girl. I wasn’t home when they came. The temporary restraining order had a court hearing date. I had to go to court tomorrow morning so I could defend myself from having a permanent restraining order. Me and my mom went to court by 10am and we saw the girl and her parents. They didn’t look happy to see me. Once the hearing started she told the judge everything I did and said to her. The judge told her most of the things she was complaining happened years ago and the things I said about her recently were my first amendment rights. I said that I had the freedom of speech to say those things. The judge asked her if I ever touched or harmed her physically and she said no. I never hit, punched, kicked or beat her. So why would the judge file a permanent restraining order on someone who has never done that to her? I doesn’t make any sense. I wanted to say my side of the story but the judge wouldn’t let me because the final verdict was given. The judge didn’t file a permanent restraining order on me. The judge only warned me not to talk to her ever again. I never apologized to her or her family. She saw and met my mother. The cops or the judge couldn’t fine or charge me legally for anything. I asked the judge what can I do with the “temporary” restraining order and he said I could make a paper airplane out of it and I said I will fly it around the world. After all that has happened I finally lost trust and respect for women. I can’t trust bitches!
