So this guy dealt with drugs, guns and “hurt people”, he has spent his twenties in prison and is now married and some kind of social worker.
He talks about the effects of sexual isolation while in prison (tho, masturbation was still possible). The framing of the interview is very emotional and it is obvious that the viewer should feel pity for him because he had such a lonely time.
View: https://youtu.be/_ftEYiTbExY?t=937
Here are some excerpts:
“I don’t know how survived that (time without female contact).”
“I wished I had no sexual desires.”
“Everything triggers you. You see a woman in TV and immediately remember: you can’t have that.”
“I was unable to not reduce the women in prison (social worker) to their sexual aspects. (Because he was so horny)”
“People underestimate what isolation from the other gender does to your head.”
Info text: “Sexual isolation can lead to psychological problems and disturbance of the sexuality in some prisoners.”
“First thing I did (after getting out) was to meet (and fuck) a woman.” (his ex gf, they knew each other since 15 jo, implied they had sex than) His ex gf contacted him after 4 years of imprisonment, asking how she could help him.
“Sex is like riding a bicycle; you don’t forget how to do it.”
“Hugging, without top, skin to skin, was indescribable.”
“How can a women be so soft and smell so good?”
“It was like being 16 again, hard to describe.”
Moderator: „You are talking about things that for others are just natural…“
Keep in mind that this guy had sex since he was 15-16, while he was working on his criminal career. He “just” experienced inceldom for 10 years; he knew when it would end.
Conclusion: Everyone who tells us variations of “sex is not a big deal” needs to
die be forced into lifelong celibacy. No exceptions.
