Serious (Genuine) I feel were only focusing on lustful sexual acts/thoughts because its our coping mechanismsince we lack love.

[blackedpiller]

If my title seems too retarded let me spell it out here, We honestly don't really need sex and it's honestly not what we're looking for, the only reason we focus on sex is because that's all we know about "affection" from the standpoint of of a man that hasn't been given his needed dose of female acceptance/care, we use porn and lustful thoughts thinking it's what we need and lack since we never knew how good it may feel to be genuinely be attracted by a foid that genuinely is caring for us.

I'm not saying sex isn't important, but what I am saying we cope a bit too much on sex thinking it's what we need, all of us ever wanted was love, I realize this every time I've watched porn, I don't feel fulfilled and I think of the deeper aspects of a relationship of what good things may be if a woman actually cared for me, jerkin off to porn is unfortunately the closest thing we have to imagine how the pleasure of a loving girl could be.

 

[Michael W. Ford]

You can use magick to get pussy. ​

 

[OutcompetedByRoomba]

Don't think it is that we are coping with never having been loved ---> we watch porn, rather we lack both love and sex and we can lower the pain the no sex part causes us by jerking it to porn/fantasies, satisfying our sexual urges in a not really satisfying way. For the we have never experienced what it is like to be loved part we have nothing but our imagination. And obviously being accepted and desired as a sexual partner is part of the love part, especially for men.

I kind of agree with you though that being accepted, liked, loved by a woman (or just anyone, even just having some more real friends would prob help most of us tremendously) is the real issue. Not having loving sex is part of not being loved, but it's more about the affection given rather than just the physical act. The physical act can be bought, the love and real desire not really.

(For context, the pages are from a doujin in which the sexual roles, urges and morals are reversed; a boy from our world enters that mirror world and instantly decides to whore himself out for cheap to fellow students and teachers. So her impressions are supposed to mirror the thoughts a men from our world would have when encountering a hooker who undeniably enjoyed the sex with him and openly lusted for his body.)

 

[Aquiline]

(For context, the pages are from a doujin in which the sexual roles, urges and morals are reversed; a boy from our world enters that mirror world and instantly decides to whore himself out for cheap to fellow students and teachers. So her impressions are supposed to mirror the thoughts a men from our world would have when encountering a hooker who undeniably enjoyed the sex with him and openly lusted for his body.)

jfl when you have to get isekai'd to get laid

 

[CorpseWatcher]

Makes sense if you are well fed you aren't thinking about food

 

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

As a heavy porn and erotica consoomer I developed anal sex and footjob fetishes.

 

[CantEscapeYourFate]

Who cut this man's balls off? Talking about "sex doesn't matter" like wtf. Low testosterone ass boy.

 

[Nosecel_]

I kind of agree I just wanna be loved