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I swear, I wish the winter would cast only darkness upon us, I hate this.
It's terrible having to literally feel like your soul is showering in lava.

It's not even that I have to handle the crowded places, it has got the point that I feel physically uncomfortable all the time outside from this intense feeling of anxiety and stress, my mental conditions only make it worse.
 
Nofap + shower + going outside = ascension
 
I don't understand why most incels prefer winter. I mean, the "there are less Chad and Stacey in the street" coud be a legit theory in touristic areas, but it isn't accurate at all when you're living in the countryside like me.

I like to wander, run and exercize alone in the forest. Winter means I will be doing all that in a lunar environment. :feelsbadman:
 
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I don't understand why most incels prefer winter. I mean, the "there are less Chad and Stacey in the street" coud be a legit theory in touristic areas, but it isn't accurate at all when you're living in the countryside like me.

I like to wander, run and exercize alone in the forest. Winter means I will be doing all that in a lunar environment. :feelsbadman:
You get to hide in baggy, oversized clothes and its not weird. Its like being a monster on halloween, everyone thinks your just wearing a costume.
 
You get to hide in baggy, oversized clothes and its not weird. Its like being a monster on halloween, everyone thinks your just wearing a costume.
Wrong. Winter in France is an elegance contest. Every guys are wearing fancy dark jacket and coats. If your jacket is poorly made, you're socially dead. If you hide under a hoodie or in a baggy style, you're probably a hobbo and everyone would gladly spit on your face. Claiming that winter is better than summer because Chads and Stacey are slightly less visible is an autistic tier cope.
 
I swear, I wish the winter would cast only darkness upon us, I hate this.
It's terrible having to literally feel like your soul is showering in lava.

It's not even that I have to handle the crowded places, it has got the point that I feel physically uncomfortable all the time outside from this intense feeling of anxiety and stress, my mental conditions only make it worse.

Most relatable post so far for me - especially the part with the lava.

I've stopped leaving my home unless it's dark two years ago and have recently been trying to recover from that - with limited success. What has helped me the most so far is Venlafaxin (an SSNRI) as it helps with the constant stress when when being outside. Another thing that's helped me is gaining weight (I was/am severely underweight).
 
Am I the only one who stopped caring about seasons right after I finished school?
 
Wrong. Winter in France is an elegance contest. Every guys are wearing fancy dark jacket and coats. If your jacket is poorly made, you're socially dead. If you hide under a hoodie or in a baggy style, you're probably a hobbo and everyone would gladly spit on your face. Claiming that winter is better than summer because Chads and Stacey are slightly less visible is an autistic tier cope.
Lmao sorry I don't live in lemon land. I live in canada, winters here can get so bad that wearing something fashionable and well fit is not feasible most of the time, baggy and fully covered is how you stay warm. We laugh at the dipshits who wear something fashionable and are freezing their balls off. I can cover my face and wear a large jacket, if I wanted to look good while doing it I could get myself a Canadian goose jacket but even those look baggie.
 
i have agoraphobia too, it sucks. I wish i could tell you something to help, but alas i haven't found a cure
 
I'm gonna give you helpful advice then. What you are describing is social anxiety, which means that your stress levels are elevated in normal and safe situations. If you are lazy kind of person you won't like that. You need to begin with training, it can be lifting, but cardio exercises, like running and intense cycling are preferred. Basically any training with elevated heart pulse for extended time. Other thing to do is deep breathing into belly and progressive muscle relaxation, you can look it up on web. Now whether you wanna change is only up to you, but there is no other comfortable way, unless you are willing to be dumbed down by numerous strong drugs.
 
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I swear, I wish the winter would cast only darkness upon us, I hate this.
It's terrible having to literally feel like your soul is showering in lava.

It's not even that I have to handle the crowded places, it has got the point that I feel physically uncomfortable all the time outside from this intense feeling of anxiety and stress, my mental conditions only make it worse.
Embrace the Nihilism Pill. It has helped me. The more you realize that the Chads and Stacies are too fucking stupid to retain memories from over an hour ago, it is easy to stop caring about what they think. Why bother worrying when they will just forget it when they are getting pounded or high anyways?
 
One day I hope my waifu's body heat next to me will keep me warm through cold winter nights.
 
I like going outside. I like nature and the sun. It's cars that I don't like. I don't like having to be on edge all the time worrying that I'll get hit by a car. Or, if I am riding my bike on a multi-use path, I have to worry about hitting pedestrians and cyclists.
If I were just sitting in a field, on the beach, or in a forest, I wouldn't mind that at all. I really like that and I wish could do that more.
 
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I like going outside. I like nature and the sun. It's cars that I don't like. I don't like having to be on edge all the time worrying that I'll get hit by a car. Or, if I am riding my bike on a multi-use path, I have to worry about hitting pedestrians and cyclists.
If I were just sitting in a field, on the beach, or in a forest, I wouldn't mind that at all. I really like that and I wish could do that more.
Ditto
 
don't go outside b0y0 nothing but grief out there
 

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