Serious Friends are important, but how do you get them past Highschool?

[TheJester]

I said it time and time again, nearly all friends I ever had were fake and all I ever had left me eventually, that said its incredible hard to get friends after HS, nothing sticks, not even "friendmaker" apps like Boo actually let you meet someone.

Gen Z too is so addicted to Social Media, which actually makes them more anti social, its quite depressing.

Having no friends actually still makes you question what the point of doing shit is. Why collect shit? For what? Why go on vacation? Alone - its pointless. Going out at all feels stupid.

How do you guys make friends? Are you still making friends? I think its also a huge reason for Inceldom and also depression by simply not have any friends and thus social connection at all.

 

[zangano1]

I dont know, I dont have any friends

 

[Quarantined]

I dont know, I dont have any friends

 

[AutistSupremacist]

Work, that's it bruv

 

[zangano1]

Work, that's it bruv

I didnt talk with anyone in my job and they ended up firing me for being an antisocial outcast

 

[TheJester]

Work, that's it bruv

there are only old people at my place, theres only 1 Chadlite I am somewhat good with, but we are not friends, and he is a workaholic + Gym Bro and even he is in his 30s.

 

[never began]

I said it time and time again, nearly all friends I ever had were fake and all I ever had left me eventually, that said its incredible hard to get friends after HS, nothing sticks, not even "friendmaker" apps like Boo actually let you meet someone.

Gen Z too is so addicted to Social Media, which actually makes them more anti social, its quite depressing.

Having no friends actually still makes you question what the point of doing shit is. Why collect shit? For what? Why go on vacation? Alone - its pointless. Going out at all feels stupid.

How do you guys make friends? Are you still making friends? I think its also a huge reason for Inceldom and also depression by simply not have any friends and thus social connection at all.

I wouldn't know the answer to that. I believe friends as is romanticized are extremely rare and normies are always ready to destroy each other at will, lots of normie friend groups die because of women. I believe what you experienced was just normal friendships and not ideal friendships.

 

[over_department]

I dont know, I dont have any friends

 

[Emba]

Go on a adventure to save the world and you'll met a team of awesome frens that will have you're back and be with you forever!

 

[ldargoblin]

there are only old people at my place, theres only 1 Chadlite I am somewhat good with, but we are not friends, and he is a workaholic + Gym Bro and even he is in his 30s.

What kind of work is this where there are only old people?

 

[KillNiggers]

Online

 

[TheJester]

What kind of work is this where there are only old people?

Accounting firm. Also 50% of the population in my city is 50 or older.

 

[reveries]

Common hobbies and backgrounds/worldviews are very strong bonders, in my experience. I still make some new male friends from time to time in my 30's and it's usually these two factors that make it possible.

 

[THE TRUE SIGMA]

Be an NTfag

 

[manletcel1488]

Be attractive.

 

[Incel Looks]

I dont know, I dont have any friends

 

[BSGMANLET]

I didnt talk with anyone in my job and they ended up firing me for being an antisocial outcast

Wtf that's stupid.
I've worked around people that didn't communicate with other coworkers
Managers fire coworkers for the most dumbest reasons.
I can understand not communicating with customers but firing someone because you didn't talk to other employees is the most craziest thing I've ever heard

 

[lifeisfucked215]

If you're a loser no one wants to be friends with you. Don't be a clown and even try.
If people have any reason (you're poor, ugly, short, no bitches etc.) to not associate with you they will use it

 

[lifeisfucked215]

Hate to say it but take the hint if you're truly friendless

 

[Maikowski]

I dont know, I dont have any friends

 

[Orzmund]

Through navigating preestablished social networks which you have probably been excommunicated from.

I didnt talk with anyone in my job and they ended up firing me for being an antisocial outcast

What excuse did they make up and how was their scheme executed?

 

[Johnny Ramone]

Maybe meet ups would be a good idea. At least for incels that live in deities and towns. Making friend once you’re out of school is extremely difficult. Especially if you never developed social skills growing up.

 

[Jud Pottah]

I didnt talk with anyone in my job and they ended up firing me for being an antisocial outcast

So they fired you not Based on merit, just because they didn't like you. Get a load of that! you should do what the speedrunner Does git yourself FIRED Before they open their filthy sewers. i Did this in 2 weeks.

 

[LifeMaxxer]

Common hobbies and backgrounds/worldviews are very strong bonders, in my experience. I still make some new male friends from time to time in my 30's and it's usually these two factors that make it possible.

Where do you find people with common hobbies and worldviews as you

 

[zangano1]

Wtf that's stupid.
I've worked around people that didn't communicate with other coworkers
Managers fire coworkers for the most dumbest reasons.
I can understand not communicating with customers but firing someone because you didn't talk to other employees is the most craziest thing I've ever heard

I also didnt do anything most days and I often fell asleep while working from home.

 

[reveries]

Where do you find people with common hobbies and worldviews as you

Befriend a dude, get close, he'll introduce you to other dudes in his social circle and it grows from there.
Can do this in your job if you work. I talk to a lot of people privately since I work for myself and I have clients coming.
There are also some social (not dating) apps where you can talk both to dudes and foids.