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Blackpill Found this gem in a developmental psychology textbook, but... but.. LoOkZ dOn'T maTteR anD u jUst nEEd to bE kunfident!!

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And that was a long shot before 2020. Things have gotten a lot worse since then.
 
That is so not true.
 
This should have a :blackpill: hashtag thread attached to it tbh. Also books name would be good.
 
This should have a :blackpill: hashtag thread attached to it tbh. Also books name would be good.

Berger, K.A.The Developing Person Through the Life Span (4th edition).
 
The next sentence is brutal as well.
 
No, bro. And I speak from experience.
 
people used to say it like it is in the old days. now they have to pretend the world is just and everyone can be a winner, for some reason
 
And that was a long shot before 2020. Things have gotten a lot worse since then.
female biology has stayed the same, as the patriarchy collapses they will express their true behavior more often
 
there needs to be an entire academic study on this?
 
@Ropemaxx
Interesting. Its probably the correlation of > attractive>positive validation>outgoing personality

But yeah teenage life is very different. You are pretty locked down to the judgement of your class. So its very luck dependant in early age
 
just deny the blackpill on .co theory
It is not a blackpill. Your looks have nothing to do with not being able to make any friends.
N=1.

But muh anecdotes.
People don't care about your looks if you are ugly, but if you are ugly and you are a dickbag, then yeah nobody would like you. And clearly you are an ugly dickbag, so that is why you had no friends. Not just because you were ugly.
 
It is not a blackpill. Your looks have nothing to do with not being able to make any friends.
Of course they do, and your observed empirical outliers do not negate overall truths.

All social interaction is fundamentally about is looks and pretense. You can make up for physical looks with pretensions of status (e.g. muh bling), but it's all exterior bullshit at the end of the day anyway.
 
Of course they do, and your observed empirical outliers do not negate overall truths.

All social interaction is fundamentally about is looks and pretense. You can make up for physical looks with pretensions of status (e.g. muh bling), but it's all exterior bullshit at the end of the day anyway.
Looks matter to a degree, in creating and maintaining friendships, but not in the way you think. Read my previous post ITT.
 
Looks matter to a degree, in creating and maintaining friendships, but not in the way you think. Read my previous post ITT.
You appear to be saying that ugly people can only make friends if they are submissive pushovers, rather than assertive and dominant, which is largely true.

Hence they can be "tag-alongs" to a group of men, betabuxx roasties, and jestermaxx, but they can't really enjoy dignified social positions unless they successfully thugmaxx (which is exceedingly difficult the lower your looks are and the more effeminate you look as well -- i.e., sexually non-dimorphic ugliness).
 
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In later teen years had just one friend - younger autistic neighbour boy
 
And if your youth was unhappy, you will never be happy - your brain has not physically developed properly.

Oh, who am I kidding - you just need to take a shower.
 
People don't care about your looks if you are ugly, but if you are ugly and you are a dickbag, then yeah nobody would like you. And clearly you are an ugly dickbag, so that is why you had no friends. Not just because you were ugly.

1. When making a conscious effort to make friends as an adult, looks might not matter. But they do matter during early childhood/adolescence. The trauma of friendship rejection carries over into adulthood.

2. Being ugly and a dickhead may actually correlate. Anti-social behavior stems from abuse/trauma during the course of a person's development.

3. Having friends as an ugly male still has no relevance to your sexual market value. Plenty of jestermaxxing numales have lots of friends, and.... still struggling to find a date.

4. You're a dumbass.
 
Having friends as an ugly male still has no relevance to your sexual market value. Plenty of jestermaxxing numales have lots of friends, and.... still struggling to find a date.
Why are you arguing with me if you agree with me? Calling me a dumbass means you are one too, then.
 
Have you ever seen a Chad loner? No, they are ugly incels.
Personality plays an important role in social settings. If you are ugly and you're a dickbag, you're obviously going to be ostracized. But if you're ugly and you're nice, then you will be accepted and easily make friends.
 

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