Women are incapable of the same kind of love men have. We love each other in different ways. Often, men just assume women love us the same way we love them, but that's not true. Our love is entirely different, which causes a lot of men to get really burned.
For instance, men are disposable. When we commit to a woman, we are basically saying you and I are now a team. I am willing to take bullets for you. I will be the last off a sinking ship. I will fight wars for you. I will pay for you. I will do everything in my life dedicated to you and our child.
Women, generally do not have that kind of love for their man. She may care for him a lot, and genuinely feel connected, but she will never have the same type of love we are capable of. She may think she has it, when she's knee deep in lust and infatuation, but she has no problem swinging branches when something better willing to commit comes around. Men tend to stick by their women through thick and thin, just as long as he can trust her and she fulfills her duties as the wife of the man willing to die for her. But for women, she's willing to leave just as long as the relationship hits the rocks and a guy who is objectively better in every way comes offering her more.
For instance, say some stud Hollywood actor came around that you felt a genuinely lustfully infatuated with. You think he also cares for you a lot, and now have the potential to have a wealthy life, with a fun guy connect with, and travel the world! Many women, regardless of what they admit, will be willing to do this. It happens on a daily basis it's almost sickening. Men on the other hand, presented with a similar opportunity are a lot less likely to go branch swinging. They don't want to ruin the relationship with the girl whom they've dedicated their mortality to. There is a reason 75% of divorces are initiated by women. When men divorce, it's generally not because he thinks he can branch swing over something better, but because she's failed to fulfill her role as the wife. She stops caring about him, get's selfish, gains weight, and just generally is no longer his wife.
Hence the reason we teach men the women are not capable of love. It's safer to just understand that too many guys are investing too much of themselves into women who likely wont return the same type of favor. Play it safe, spin plates, and take it slow before getting into a LTR. Don't follow your instinct which is to give her everything and treat her like the woman you're willing to die for. She won't respect you for that. Women are very selfish and they will just take advantage and walk all over you. Today's society's women no longer appreciate and respect male disposability and how difficult it is to always be fighting to be the top 20% both socially and economically. So if they aren't going to pay us that respect, why should we pay them any respect? Many men are choosing to go their own way now because they simply don't see the system as fair -- It's just not worth it.
You may be thinking, "Yeah but men you don't NEED to act this way. You don't have to jump bullets and go to war for us." Well, I don't think most women would like it if men stopped being disposable, but that's besides the point. Men want to be this way. We want to be winners and fighters. It's in our genes from hormones to brain structure. It's why so many little boys want to be super heroes. But like I said, times are changing. Men are being told to repress these urges and play by the rules the women are setting up. Feel how they tell you to feel. And it's BS.
