I’ve seen some terrible advices from oldcels on here so I felt the need to give you couple of advices.
Even though I’m not an oldcel, I’m a teaching assistant in a college so I’m probably more qualified to give advices.
Guys I haven’t been the most social, talented, confident, rich man my whole life but one thing I can advice on is academic life. Through university programs and researches I’ve lived all around Europe, experienced many international universities as a student myself. These aren’t “just be yourself bro” type of bluepilled stuff, take me as a big brother and consider some of my genuine advices
1- Don't forget that college is something many incels on here don’t get to go, don’t forget it’s a chance and appreciate it.
2-Don’t expect it to be like highschool, no one is going to treat you like dirt from the get go.
3-Don’t try to fake anything. If you try to act hyper social people can smell your desperation. That’s what I’ve seen in my classes last year, new comer classes have this one guy that tries to make everyone pay attention to him, he usually annoys the other students.
4-Find a group of people, sit close by them, ask them after class to go eat something together
5-Don’t forget that everyone is afraid of ending up alone, so everyone is trying to make friends, tell people a little bit about you and they’ll listen to you because they are open to socialize at that moment. In return they’ll tell you about themselves.
6-Don’t try to run home after the lessons, people are usually gathering up to do stuff after school, be present.
If you have any questions don’t hesitate to write me
Even though I’m not an oldcel, I’m a teaching assistant in a college so I’m probably more qualified to give advices.
Guys I haven’t been the most social, talented, confident, rich man my whole life but one thing I can advice on is academic life. Through university programs and researches I’ve lived all around Europe, experienced many international universities as a student myself. These aren’t “just be yourself bro” type of bluepilled stuff, take me as a big brother and consider some of my genuine advices
1- Don't forget that college is something many incels on here don’t get to go, don’t forget it’s a chance and appreciate it.
2-Don’t expect it to be like highschool, no one is going to treat you like dirt from the get go.
3-Don’t try to fake anything. If you try to act hyper social people can smell your desperation. That’s what I’ve seen in my classes last year, new comer classes have this one guy that tries to make everyone pay attention to him, he usually annoys the other students.
4-Find a group of people, sit close by them, ask them after class to go eat something together
5-Don’t forget that everyone is afraid of ending up alone, so everyone is trying to make friends, tell people a little bit about you and they’ll listen to you because they are open to socialize at that moment. In return they’ll tell you about themselves.
6-Don’t try to run home after the lessons, people are usually gathering up to do stuff after school, be present.
If you have any questions don’t hesitate to write me
