DEAR NORMIES, BEFORE YOU EVER ASK SOMEONE THIS QUESTION, PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO FIRST ASK YOURSELF A QUESTION:
"AM I BEING SINCERE AND CAN I EVEN ACTUALLY HELP THIS PERSON IF THEY BURDEN ME WITH THEIR TROUBLES, CAN I ACCEPT THEIR ANSWER AND NOT TREAT THEM DIFFERENTLY FOR IT?"
(Think about that question as you read)
"Are you alright?", is a question I'm sure most if not all incels have received already from normies (family, friends, co-workers, etc)
You see a look on someones face and you just have to ask it
Here's what I hate about that question, its not the concern, concern isn't a bad thing, its how pointless it actually is because the concern isn't truly genuine
ITS BASICALLY A FORCED RHETORICAL QUESTION BECAUSE THERE'S AN ANSWER YOU ARE EXPECTED TO GIVE AND EVERYONE KNOWS IT
Everybody knows full well you have to answer these questions a certain way else it could affect your day to day life and interactions with others, so asking it, is really nothing but FALSE CONCERN
Lets say a female co-worker asks an incel if he's alright, CAN HE ACTUALLY RESPOND HONESTLY?
"No actually, I'm horny everyday, sexually frustrated, depressed and suicidal, what were your intentions in that question?, will you help me with this problem?"
JFL
Its a pointless question, its annoying because you are KNOWINGLY placing social pressure on the individual being questioned to fucking lie and answer as you expect them to, nobody is asking this question expecting someone to answer honestly and tell you how shitty their life is going, this question is nothing but false concern so the person asking can feel good about themselves for "caring"
KNOWING FULL WELL THAT CONTEXT AND SOCIAL NORMS DICTATE, THAT THE PERSON BEING QUESTIONED ALSO BE COURTEOUS, AND NOT BURDEN THE PERSON ASKING WITH THEIR TROUBLES (TO AN EXTENT)
THE PEOPLE WHO ASK THIS QUESTION ONLY REALLY WANT TO HEAR THE CLICHE ANSWERS OF "I'M FEELING A LITTLE DOWN A FAMILY MEMBER DIED", ETC. SOMETHING THEY CAN "HELP" YOU WITH BY GIVING YOU A HUG AND SOME WORDS OF COMFORT. SHIT THAT CAN BE SOLVED EFFORTLESSLY AND ALLOW THEM TO FEEL GOOD ABOUT THEMSELVES
INSTANT GRATIFICATION (THAT'S THE DEEP ROOTED PURPOSE OF THIS QUESTION)
Nobody is expecting the person to tell them they are in debt to a loan shark who is going to kidnap a family member and they need 20K quickly to pay them off JFL, they want to be a part of the "quick fix" scenarios so they can go about their day stress free and feeling like a "paragon of virtue"
So once again I repeat:
DEAR NORMIES, BEFORE YOU EVER ASK SOMEONE THIS QUESTION, PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO FIRST ASK YOURSELF A QUESTION:
"AM I BEING SINCERE AND CAN I EVEN ACTUALLY HELP THIS PERSON IF THEY BURDEN ME WITH THEIR TROUBLES, CAN I ACCEPT THEIR ANSWER AND NOT TREAT THEM DIFFERENTLY FOR IT?"
IF YOUR ANSWER IS NO, THEN DON'T BOTHER ASKING THE QUESTION, IT IS NOTHING BUT AN ACT OF SELFISHNESS TO MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE A "GOOD PERSON"
"AM I BEING SINCERE AND CAN I EVEN ACTUALLY HELP THIS PERSON IF THEY BURDEN ME WITH THEIR TROUBLES, CAN I ACCEPT THEIR ANSWER AND NOT TREAT THEM DIFFERENTLY FOR IT?"
(Think about that question as you read)
"Are you alright?", is a question I'm sure most if not all incels have received already from normies (family, friends, co-workers, etc)
You see a look on someones face and you just have to ask it
Here's what I hate about that question, its not the concern, concern isn't a bad thing, its how pointless it actually is because the concern isn't truly genuine
ITS BASICALLY A FORCED RHETORICAL QUESTION BECAUSE THERE'S AN ANSWER YOU ARE EXPECTED TO GIVE AND EVERYONE KNOWS IT
Everybody knows full well you have to answer these questions a certain way else it could affect your day to day life and interactions with others, so asking it, is really nothing but FALSE CONCERN
Lets say a female co-worker asks an incel if he's alright, CAN HE ACTUALLY RESPOND HONESTLY?
"No actually, I'm horny everyday, sexually frustrated, depressed and suicidal, what were your intentions in that question?, will you help me with this problem?"
JFL
Its a pointless question, its annoying because you are KNOWINGLY placing social pressure on the individual being questioned to fucking lie and answer as you expect them to, nobody is asking this question expecting someone to answer honestly and tell you how shitty their life is going, this question is nothing but false concern so the person asking can feel good about themselves for "caring"
KNOWING FULL WELL THAT CONTEXT AND SOCIAL NORMS DICTATE, THAT THE PERSON BEING QUESTIONED ALSO BE COURTEOUS, AND NOT BURDEN THE PERSON ASKING WITH THEIR TROUBLES (TO AN EXTENT)
THE PEOPLE WHO ASK THIS QUESTION ONLY REALLY WANT TO HEAR THE CLICHE ANSWERS OF "I'M FEELING A LITTLE DOWN A FAMILY MEMBER DIED", ETC. SOMETHING THEY CAN "HELP" YOU WITH BY GIVING YOU A HUG AND SOME WORDS OF COMFORT. SHIT THAT CAN BE SOLVED EFFORTLESSLY AND ALLOW THEM TO FEEL GOOD ABOUT THEMSELVES
INSTANT GRATIFICATION (THAT'S THE DEEP ROOTED PURPOSE OF THIS QUESTION)
Nobody is expecting the person to tell them they are in debt to a loan shark who is going to kidnap a family member and they need 20K quickly to pay them off JFL, they want to be a part of the "quick fix" scenarios so they can go about their day stress free and feeling like a "paragon of virtue"
So once again I repeat:
DEAR NORMIES, BEFORE YOU EVER ASK SOMEONE THIS QUESTION, PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO FIRST ASK YOURSELF A QUESTION:
"AM I BEING SINCERE AND CAN I EVEN ACTUALLY HELP THIS PERSON IF THEY BURDEN ME WITH THEIR TROUBLES, CAN I ACCEPT THEIR ANSWER AND NOT TREAT THEM DIFFERENTLY FOR IT?"
IF YOUR ANSWER IS NO, THEN DON'T BOTHER ASKING THE QUESTION, IT IS NOTHING BUT AN ACT OF SELFISHNESS TO MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE A "GOOD PERSON"
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