People say we would not be happy even if we could get a girlfriend but that's really a false statement, ts just a disingenuous way to phrase it, what they mean is we wouldn't be happy with the average selfish woman who lacks kindness, understanding for a man's plight, and is unwilling to "nurse us" back to "being normal"
Like many incels have mentioned before a lot of us are "emotionally stunted" due to the lack of "love" (intimacy) we have experienced with women, so even if we got a girl friend we wouldn't really know what to do or how to act, so its not that having a girlfriend wouldn't make us happy, its having a girlfriend who is unwilling to care and understand that we are lacking something, and is unwilling to help us become the man she wants, is what would make us unhappy, and that is basically ALL WOMEN
There are no women willing to nurse a broken man, who has lost all hope in humanity, into being a "good person", especially a man who isn't attractive, they'll care even less to put in effort at that point, especially since dating for women is the exact opposite of effort, its about being judge, jury and executioner, they basically just get to sit around and allow a list of suitors to pile up while filtering through a list and selecting who they want FOR NOW, and if they get tired of the current guy they can just monkey branch to the other guy. So on that note, can we even really expect a person whose concept of dating is so drastically different from a man's, so inherently "lazy", to even think to help a man become a better person?
If we could all find some magical non-existent woman who was sympathetic to our life and how we were treated for years, who was understanding and willing to help us become a "better person", after even a single year of being with her, we'd likely become "normal people", but the truth normies want to shy away from is that no such woman really exists, there's always an exception to the rule, but there are millions more incels than there are exceptions, the exception proves the rule
Why is it that normies don't see the contradiction in saying that were broken and something is wrong with us, yet still leaving the onus on us to change or even know how to change, do you expect mentally ill people to know what medications to take or even understand that they need to be medicated?
As incels we wouldn't even know how to act or treat your average woman, who expects us to be as versed in being a partner as a guy who has been dating since he was 15, knowing full well we haven't had a single date, or even a positive experience with a woman. If the thought of "woman" only fills you with feelings of depression, self loathing, suicide, anxiety, self doubt due to how women have treated you for years just on your physical attractiveness alone, how can you be expected to care for or treat women "nicely", its going to feel very forced for you, and ironically since women are unwilling to take the "first step", by showing men like us affection, and that we have a chance, we don't have any positive experiences to counteract the years of negative experiences, to help us "become normal"
Us being "evil" is a self fulfilling prophecy that the female collective has put into action, and they don't seem to get that, we've never really been showed love or kindness by women, only treated like shit, how the fuck can we be expected to just magically erase those memories and the habits built up around it from years and years of said treatment
On a date I can seriously say I wouldn't know where to look, what to say, how to eat, what foods I should order, what topics I should avoid that will "kill the mood", or even how to care at all about anything at this point, I might as well not even be human anymore with the state of mind I currently have, its completely robotic, i feel mostly nothing, and that helps with thinking, planning, understanding, etc, but it doesn't help with human interaction. I would actually have to plan a date in a very specific way, I'd have to go through her facebook and social media, learn her likes, see indications of her habits, etc to make the date go remotely smooth, she may think I was a "great date" but it would have been completely artificial and you can't keep something like that up, and some point its going to fall apart
ITS OVER, THERE'S NO POINT IN EVEN TRYING ONCE YOU'VE GOTTEN TO THIS POINT, BECAUSE WOMEN DON'T WANT TO PUT EFFORT INTO ANYTHING, ESPECIALLY AN AVERAGE OR BELOW AVERAGE LOOKING MAN, WHEN SHE CAN GAIN ACCESS TO ABOVE AVERAGE MEN SO EASILY THAT ARE ALREADY VERSED IN INTERACTING WITH WOMEN AND TREATING THEM AS THEY EXPECT TO BE TREATED
Like many incels have mentioned before a lot of us are "emotionally stunted" due to the lack of "love" (intimacy) we have experienced with women, so even if we got a girl friend we wouldn't really know what to do or how to act, so its not that having a girlfriend wouldn't make us happy, its having a girlfriend who is unwilling to care and understand that we are lacking something, and is unwilling to help us become the man she wants, is what would make us unhappy, and that is basically ALL WOMEN
There are no women willing to nurse a broken man, who has lost all hope in humanity, into being a "good person", especially a man who isn't attractive, they'll care even less to put in effort at that point, especially since dating for women is the exact opposite of effort, its about being judge, jury and executioner, they basically just get to sit around and allow a list of suitors to pile up while filtering through a list and selecting who they want FOR NOW, and if they get tired of the current guy they can just monkey branch to the other guy. So on that note, can we even really expect a person whose concept of dating is so drastically different from a man's, so inherently "lazy", to even think to help a man become a better person?
If we could all find some magical non-existent woman who was sympathetic to our life and how we were treated for years, who was understanding and willing to help us become a "better person", after even a single year of being with her, we'd likely become "normal people", but the truth normies want to shy away from is that no such woman really exists, there's always an exception to the rule, but there are millions more incels than there are exceptions, the exception proves the rule
Why is it that normies don't see the contradiction in saying that were broken and something is wrong with us, yet still leaving the onus on us to change or even know how to change, do you expect mentally ill people to know what medications to take or even understand that they need to be medicated?
As incels we wouldn't even know how to act or treat your average woman, who expects us to be as versed in being a partner as a guy who has been dating since he was 15, knowing full well we haven't had a single date, or even a positive experience with a woman. If the thought of "woman" only fills you with feelings of depression, self loathing, suicide, anxiety, self doubt due to how women have treated you for years just on your physical attractiveness alone, how can you be expected to care for or treat women "nicely", its going to feel very forced for you, and ironically since women are unwilling to take the "first step", by showing men like us affection, and that we have a chance, we don't have any positive experiences to counteract the years of negative experiences, to help us "become normal"
Us being "evil" is a self fulfilling prophecy that the female collective has put into action, and they don't seem to get that, we've never really been showed love or kindness by women, only treated like shit, how the fuck can we be expected to just magically erase those memories and the habits built up around it from years and years of said treatment
On a date I can seriously say I wouldn't know where to look, what to say, how to eat, what foods I should order, what topics I should avoid that will "kill the mood", or even how to care at all about anything at this point, I might as well not even be human anymore with the state of mind I currently have, its completely robotic, i feel mostly nothing, and that helps with thinking, planning, understanding, etc, but it doesn't help with human interaction. I would actually have to plan a date in a very specific way, I'd have to go through her facebook and social media, learn her likes, see indications of her habits, etc to make the date go remotely smooth, she may think I was a "great date" but it would have been completely artificial and you can't keep something like that up, and some point its going to fall apart
ITS OVER, THERE'S NO POINT IN EVEN TRYING ONCE YOU'VE GOTTEN TO THIS POINT, BECAUSE WOMEN DON'T WANT TO PUT EFFORT INTO ANYTHING, ESPECIALLY AN AVERAGE OR BELOW AVERAGE LOOKING MAN, WHEN SHE CAN GAIN ACCESS TO ABOVE AVERAGE MEN SO EASILY THAT ARE ALREADY VERSED IN INTERACTING WITH WOMEN AND TREATING THEM AS THEY EXPECT TO BE TREATED
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