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Lv99_BixNood
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I am 4 11” 23F. My height never bothered me until last year when I met this guy 24M who is 6’ ft. He did not mention my height ever , he just called me small but he did it while flirting with me so I didn’t see it as an insult. After we confessed feelings for each other though , he became more and more honest. He started saying things like if we ever had to have kids it would have to be a girl because I would ruin our son’s chance at having a good height and no one would want to date him. That hurt me so much because I felt like he was insinuating the same about me that my height makes me undesirable to others because I will ruin my offsprings genes. He even told me once that the only thing he wishes he could change about me was my height becuz his ex was aleast 5’ 3”. Ever since breaking up with him I have become so conscious of my height and more people have commented on it since. At my work I get teased for my height and how my coworkers teenagers are even taller than me. I’m the oldest in my family and still the shortest. And I read online about how a guy wants someone Atleast 5’ 5” so that their kids don’t end up short. And the worst is when I see people say “ short people Should only be with short people and tall people with other tall People”. I don’t want someone who is like 6 feet tall specifically but does that mean I Should just close the door to majority if guys around me because they are very tall?
Jfl