Focusing so much on negative thoughts and all this incel business is seriously hurting all of us.

[Deleted member 7448]

It's not only narrowing our worldview and inhibiting us from evolving our mind and living life to the fullest, but it's also doing actual physiological damage. The negative emotions, the constant negative thoughts and all the stress and anxiety that comes with it - it all adds up.

Look, the blackpill is true, looks are very, very important. But we shouldn't be this extreme, obsessing over looks and letting it take over our lives. It's downright pathological, and we're all enabling each other and normalizing this errant thought pattern through socializing with people who've been infected with the same obsession.

For our own health and happiness, we should forget what the term incel even is, forget all this negativity. I'm not saying to forget how important looks are or that women are (just like men), egoistical organisms programmed to advance their own interests and shallowly reach for the best that they can get. But dwelling too much on this shit won't help you in any way, it just prevents you from growing past all this and maybe somehow creating a bit of happiness for yourself. Not by "ascending" - but by moving on and seeing what more there is to life.

P.S: I say all these things even as I will continue to rot and wallow in my depression and browse and post on this forum. I'm just that weak and mentally shattered. But these words I wrote are true and I hope at least someone will be able to move on and leave all this negativity behind.

 

[EeEcel]

living life to the fullest,

there could b no fullness for our lifes , only endless void of emptiness idk what u b tb

 

[mNFwTJ3wz9]

Tldr: just cope
and ignore pic related

 

[Deleted member 7448]

there could b no fullness for our lifes , only endless void of emptiness idk what u b tb

To the fullest that it can be. Life is more than just sex and love. I know this statement is hated on this forum, but we aren't animals. Our lives can't be resumed to fucking, eating and shitting. We are human, we are much more than that. And yet mired in this negativity we truly become animals obsessed only with the physiological needs.

 

[Nigger Burger]

I am too exhausted to even try anymore.

 

[Incline]

No

 

[Deleted member 22685]

seeing what more there is to life

Even more misery

 

[Psilocin99]

To the fullest that it can be. Life is more than just sex and love. I know this statement is hated on this forum, but we aren't animals. Our lives can't be resumed to fucking, eating and shitting. We are human, we are much more than that. And yet mired in this negativity we truly become animals obsessed only with the physiological needs.

Ngl I've noticed that I generally feel a lot better when I try to think as little as possible about foids

 

[happiless]

life

To the fullest that it can be.

Literally, and I mean literally what I've done every single day for years: in bed with my laptop next to me for 16 hours a day. Only getting out of bed to eat and other physiological needs, to play with my cat and talk to my parents. The rest of my time is spent on the laptop. Watching sitcoms in the background, browsing random shit on youtube and searching for a game to play for half the day, trying a game for a few minutes and going back to thinking about what game to play.

 

[EeEcel]

truly become animals obsessed only with the physiological needs.

maybe because we are animals, not mushrooms or trees, so? i know for a fact i have been very obsessive since a little kid with things i couldnt have? solution? none.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

Even more misery

That's a classic https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_distortion

Ngl I've noticed that I generally feel a lot better when I try to think as little as possible about foids

Exactly, emotions and how you feel is very important. Thinking about this all the time is really, really not healthy.

 

[Quarantined]

No

 

[Mecoja]

No, its to late. Once you know you see blackpill patterns in everything, you cant escape it.

 

[Deleted member 22685]

That's a classic https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_distortion

I wish i was just making stuff up

I am too exhausted

 

[PoodankMcGee]

I want to agree with you but at the same time i think your own perspective is warped by your hardcore ldar neet hermit lifestyle. You forget what brought us here in the first place.

Normie world is just as obsessed with looks and appearance as we are, else we would have never become insecure about our looks in the first place. We are constantly bombarded with mogging and reminded of our subhumanity everytime we go outside.

This point sticks out to me especially since i used to be a mgtow coper when i was still purple pilled. When i still went to therapy my counselor instilled me with that same thinking. "Dont worry about relationships right now, focus on what you can do for yourself" The problem is you cant do that when you live on a college campus and you hear your dormmates fucking constantly and you get instamogged to death the moment you step outside your room. The dissonance eventually just became too much for me to bare, and that's part of what led to me ending up in a psych ward for a week

I tried doing things like "treating myself" by going out for dinner alone, or going to the park by myself and trying to enjoy nature, but virtually everytime i did i see couples and chads everywhere. If you remain connected to Normie World, youre going to be reminded constantly anyways, regardless if you stop coming this forum. Thats how we ended up here.

No, its to late. Once you know you see blackpill patterns in everything, you cant escape it.

Tldr, this

 

[Deleted member 21219]

Cope.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

I want to agree with you but at the same time i think your own perspective is warped by your hardcore ldar neet hermit lifestyle. You forget what brought us here in the first place.

Normie world is just as obsessed with looks and appearance as we are, else we would have never become insecure about our looks in the first place. We are constantly bombarded with mogging and reminded of our subhumanity everytime we go outside.

This point sticks out to me especially since i used to be a mgtow coper when i was still purple pilled. When i still went to therapy my counselor instilled me with that same thinking. "Dont worry about relationships right now, focus on what you can do for yourself" The problem is you cant do that when you live on a college campus and you hear your dormmates fucking constantly and you get instamogged to death the moment you step outside your room. The dissonance eventually just became too much for me to bare, and that's part of what led to me ending up in a psych ward for a week

I tried doing things like "treating myself" by going out for dinner alone, or going to the park by myself and trying to enjoy nature, but virtually everytime i did i see couples and chads everywhere. If you remain connected to Normie World, youre going to be reminded constantly anyways, regardless if you stop coming this forum. Thats how we ended up here.



Tldr, this

Ahh yes, there you have a very good point. My rotting does indeed impair my judgement. I suspect the moment I have to go back there in the world I'll be making posts complaining and bitching about it 3 times a day.

Damn, I've noticed this too. I've rotted so much I don't have a personality, my opinions sort of vary based on mood.

 

[NuclearCel]

It's not only narrowing our worldview and inhibiting us from evolving our mind and living life to the fullest, but it's also doing actual physiological damage. The negative emotions, the constant negative thoughts and all the stress and anxiety that comes with it - it all adds up.

Look, the blackpill is true, looks are very, very important. But we shouldn't be this extreme, obsessing over looks and letting it take over our lives. It's downright pathological, and we're all enabling each other and normalizing this errant thought pattern through socializing with people who've been infected with the same obsession.

For our own health and happiness, we should forget what the term incel even is, forget all this negativity. I'm not saying to forget how important looks are or that women are (just like men), egoistical organisms programmed to advance their own interests and shallowly reach for the best that they can get. But dwelling too much on this shit won't help you in any way, it just prevents you from growing past all this and maybe somehow creating a bit of happiness for yourself. Not by "ascending" - but by moving on and seeing what more there is to life.

P.S: I say all these things even as I will continue to rot and wallow in my depression and browse and post on this forum. I'm just that weak and mentally shattered. But these words I wrote are true and I hope at least someone will be able to move on and leave all this negativity behind.

Stay away from inceldom discussion for a while then.

I find browsing the lounge, and especially the sewers very relaxing. The sewers is the one place on this forum that i like the most, i was born there after all.

Taking a break from the blackpill material is not a bad thing. It is mainly all negative but this negativity is essential to know and understand in life because it is the truth, and we cannot afford to forget this truth.