This is my first post, so I thought I’d talk about something that contributed to me ending up in this situation (recently turning 21 as a kissless virgin).
I was raised in a family (including extended family) that is overwhelmingly female – all aunts no uncles, a sister and no brothers, all female cousins (bar one), and my dad worked on the other end of the country for most of my childhood.
This means from an early age you have to second guess yourself and bite your tongue to avoid saying things that will trigger the irrational emotional reactions of women, which sets you up for failure in high school/college life because first, you carry that same nervousness and extreme inhibition into your interactions with your peers which contributes to you being an outcast, and second, means you aren’t able to even relate to other guys as well because you’ve never had the same male bonding experiences that many of them had with their brothers and fathers.
And that’s another thing – aside from meaning you’re less likely to be NT, being born into a gynocentric family also means you just generally have a more boring and unenjoyable childhood. No boys to play games with, do fun shit with, etc.
Obviously if I were good looking I could have had 10 sisters and still slayed, I’m just saying that being born into a gynocentric family is a big disadvantage.
I was raised in a family (including extended family) that is overwhelmingly female – all aunts no uncles, a sister and no brothers, all female cousins (bar one), and my dad worked on the other end of the country for most of my childhood.
This means from an early age you have to second guess yourself and bite your tongue to avoid saying things that will trigger the irrational emotional reactions of women, which sets you up for failure in high school/college life because first, you carry that same nervousness and extreme inhibition into your interactions with your peers which contributes to you being an outcast, and second, means you aren’t able to even relate to other guys as well because you’ve never had the same male bonding experiences that many of them had with their brothers and fathers.
And that’s another thing – aside from meaning you’re less likely to be NT, being born into a gynocentric family also means you just generally have a more boring and unenjoyable childhood. No boys to play games with, do fun shit with, etc.
Obviously if I were good looking I could have had 10 sisters and still slayed, I’m just saying that being born into a gynocentric family is a big disadvantage.
