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Discussion First girl I’ve ever gotten close to.

Lurkercel0

Lurkercel0

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No I haven’t ascended and I definitely haven’t deluded myself into believing I’m going to especially since I’ve been blackpiled for 5+ years now but even though I’ve known this one foid for only 3 months I’ve spent more time with her than I have with anyone else in this short period of time.

When I met her through a mutual friend, I never really interacted with her much, until I found her art account and began talking to her after, fortunately she was receptive which was a complete surprise, I only met her a couple times irl and talked online but not much beyond that. I mainly connected with her over non-nt hobbies, (jfl I read the entirety of saya no uta with her). I believe she’s at least somewhat autistic (due to many reasons) which is why I didn’t immediately fuck things up, recently however I’ve been taken aback by her complimenting me or spending way more time with me unprompted, beyond this she's revealed more about her personal life to me. Even when I tried distancing myself from her she wouldn’t let me when she was the one that told me she was distant.

This is the first girl I’ve actually gotten close to but I know that none of this will go anywhere ultimately. I just don’t know what the correct move here is when this is my only lifeline.
 
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Careful there boyo

Be Safe Ty Dillon GIF by NASCAR on NBC
 
Careful there boyo

Be Safe Ty Dillon GIF by NASCAR on NBC
It’s mainly cope, if you’ve made an account here and have over 1k posts the chance of you “ascending” are nigh impossible. I guess I only got a taste of normalfag life.
 
It’s mainly cope, if you’ve made an account here and have over 1k posts the chance of you “ascending” are nigh impossible. I guess I only got a taste of normalfag life.
Some here are, likely, just very non-nt but would have the looks to ascend
 
Some here are, likely, just very non-nt but would have the looks to ascend
i’ve said it in the past but non nt normies are definitely incels.
 
Bro, that girl clearly wants to be with you.

At this point it would be nearly impossible to fuck up, other than you not making a move.

As her to hang out and start rubbing her back, and if she seems accepting of it, then move down towards her lower back. This will lead to sex, which will get her attached and you will have a girlfriend.
 
You are getting close to foids?

You mean non relative women who care about you???
 
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Bro, that girl clearly wants to be with you.

At this point it would be nearly impossible to fuck up, other than you not making a move.

As her to hang out and start rubbing her back, and if she seems accepting of it, then move down towards her lower back. This will lead to sex, which will get her attached and you will have a girlfriend.
Idk sex this early might not be smart, he should start by telling her how he feels
 
You are getting close to foids?

You mean none relative women who care about you???
No they care but only superficially, my own mother would begin to hate me if I became a neet again.
 
There's no way this girl like you only superficially only. At least shoot your shot
I’ll try but she did tell me that she has issues trusting people after people told her to rope because of mental issues. :feelsUgh:
Idk sex this early might not be smart, he should start by telling her how he feels
Just going to try to see if hanging out with her irl alone is possible initially.
 
No I haven’t ascended and I definitely haven’t deluded myself into believing I’m going to especially since I’ve been blackpiled for 5+ years now but even though I’ve known this one foid for only 3 months I’ve spent more time with her than I have with anyone else in this short period of time.

When I met her through a mutual friend, I never really interacted with her much, until I found her art account and began talking to her after, fortunately she was receptive which was a complete surprise, I only met her a couple times irl and talked online but not much beyond that. I mainly connected with her over non-nt hobbies, (jfl I read the entirety of saya no uta with her). I believe she’s at least somewhat autistic (due to many reasons) which is why I didn’t immediately fuck things up, recently however I’ve been taken aback by her complimenting me or spending way more time with me unprompted, beyond this she's revealed more about her personal life to me. Even when I tried distancing myself from her she wouldn’t let me when she was the one that told me she was distant.

This is the first girl I’ve actually gotten close to but I know that none of this will go anywhere ultimately. I just don’t know what the correct move here is when this is my only lifeline.
The king of fakecels
 
I’ll try but she did tell me that she has issues trusting people after people told her to rope because of mental issues. :feelsUgh:

Just going to try to see if hanging out with her irl alone is possible initially.
You might actually be able to ascend by hobbymaxxing, good luck brocel. Usually I would feel envious and sad but I'm rooting for you man
 
Bro, that girl clearly wants to be with you.
Hopefully.
At this point it would be nearly impossible to fuck up, other than you not making a move.
If she isn’t willing to go on a couple of dates first then I’ll definitely hold off from initiating anything of that sort. She has talked about how she’d want to be in a relationship first too as a virgin.
 
Bro, that girl clearly wants to be with you.

At this point it would be nearly impossible to fuck up, other than you not making a move.

As her to hang out and start rubbing her back, and if she seems accepting of it, then move down towards her lower back. This will lead to sex, which will get her attached and you will have a girlfriend.

There is one thing, that would completely destroy him. It is the penis pill.

@Lurkercel0 are you affected and suffering of the penis pill?
 
Hopefully.

If she isn’t willing to go on a couple of dates first then I’ll definitely hold off from initiating anything of that sort. She has talked about how she’d want to be in a relationship first too as a virgin.
You struck gold
 
"Saar I'm a poopjeet in the west saar, nobody is nearly as truecel as me"
 
If she isn’t willing to go on a couple of dates first then I’ll definitely hold off from initiating anything of that sort. She has talked about how she’d want to be in a relationship first too as a virgin.
you should ram your car against a tree while you're at it in gta v
 
You might actually be able to ascend by hobbymaxxing, good luck brocel. Usually I would feel envious and sad but I'm rooting for you man
Thank you brocel. Hobbymaxxing can definitely work if your main issue is being non-nt. I still haven’t confirmed anything so nothing to be envious about currently.
You struck gold
i honestly think I did because I can actually tell her about any of my issues and she’ll hear me out. I think many here would still be repulsed by her mental issues though.
 
@Lurkercel0 are you affected and suffering of the penis pill?
I have read about it extensively but I’m pretty sure it’s only below 6 inches that someone is negatively affected and I barely meet that mark. :feelssus:
 
Thank you brocel. Hobbymaxxing can definitely work if your main issue is being non-nt. I still haven’t confirmed anything so nothing to be envious about currently.

i honestly think I did because I can actually tell her about any of my issues and she’ll hear me out.
I don't want to keep bothering you with notifications but keep me updated, hope it works out :feelsaww: :feelscomfy:
I think many here would still be repulsed by her mental issues though.
What mental issues?
 
"Saar I'm a poopjeet in the west saar, nobody is nearly as truecel as me"
Half jeet but that failo still applies and I never said that ascending with your own race is impossible in the west it should be the first thing ethnics should try.
 
I don't want to keep bothering you with notifications but keep me updated, hope it works out :feelsaww: :feelscomfy:
I honestly don’t think it’s anytime soon but we’ll see, I really do kind of want this thread to die soon.
What mental issues?
Aspergers, paranoid schizo, and just generally dysfunctional (disorganized). None of these things bother me however.
What race is she?
I’ll pm you it, I don’t want this thread to devolve into a race discussion.
 
What is considered affected by the penis pill? Below 5 inches?

Anything below 7 inches. But this is more grounded:
6 is salvageable but 7 and above is the safe threshold

7 inches is the bare minimum requirement, so you do not humiliate yourself. 6 inches is still bad.

I have read about it extensively but I’m pretty sure it’s only below 6 inches that someone is negatively affected and I barely meet that mark. :feelssus:

You are affected by it. You should not do anything unless you want to humiliate yourself.

I don't want to keep bothering you with notifications but keep me updated, hope it works out :feelsaww: :feelscomfy:

Brutal notification pill.
 
Anything below 7 inches. But this is more grounded:


7 inches is the bare minimum requirement, so you do not humiliate yourself. 6 inches is still bad.
Isn't 7 inches a longer size than like 98% of the population?
 
You're whiter than me,
Wait I have pics on this site?
you could probably larp as an Italian
Honestly probably not because of some features, name gives it away too. :feelsrope:
Anything below 7 inches. But this is more grounded:

You are affected by it. You should not do anything unless you want to humiliate yourself.
None of this is guaranteed but ascending is ascending and I’m not below 6 inches.
 
Isn't 7 inches a longer size than like 98% of the population?

This data and the study is from 2015 in regards to penis size. In this study, they actually went for men with smaller penises. It is in their references. They tried to turn this into a perspective of "it is all in your mind brah". Also, according to the study 15000 men participated in it, therefore due to its number it seems reasonable, but 2/3, so 10000 men, actually self-reported the data. In this case, the data is all from men who are smaller since this is their targeted group. I actually wanted to make a thread about it. Perhaps I will make one.

But to answer your question. While not every man has 7 inches of course, I still think that 7 inches is not that rare as people make it out to be. Of course it is still somewhat rare. I want to be realistic here, so I think, realistically, that at least around 10% to 15% of men do have at least 7 inches or more and 5% of men have 8 inches or more. While some might say that I am unrealistic, I want to put this into perspective.

There are 100 men and according to the study, most of them would lean towards having a 5 inch penis. Almost none of them would have a 7 inch penis and none of them even an 8 inch penis. I do not buy that. There are 100 men, do you really think, that almost none of them has at least 7 inches or more and no one has at least 8 inches or more? It this really realistic? Even in my example, most men still are below 7 inches.

People only say and claim that because this is the trait that is not visible at first sight. They turned this into a perspective of "it is all in your mind brah" and they gaslight about it. This is seen in Reddit sections such as Smalldickproblems and Averagedickproblems.
 
This data and the study is from 2015 in regards to penis size. In this study, they actually went for men with smaller penises. It is in their references. They tried to turn this into a perspective of "it is all in your mind brah". Also, according to the study 15000 men participated in it, therefore due to its number it seems reasonable, but 2/3, so 10000 men, actually self-reported the data. In this case, the data is all from men who are smaller since this is their targeted group. I actually wanted to make a thread about it. Perhaps I will make one.

But to answer your question. While not every man has 7 inches of course, I still think that 7 inches is not that rare as people make it out to be. Of course it is still somewhat rare. I want to be realistic here, so I think, realistically, that at least around 10% to 15% of men do have at least 7 inches or more and 5% of men have 8 inches or more. While some might say that I am unrealistic, I want to put this into perspective.

There are 100 men and according to the study, most of them would lean towards having a 5 inch penis. Almost none of them would have a 7 inch penis and none of them even an 8 inch penis. I do not buy that. There are 100 men, do you really think, that almost none of them has at least 7 inches or more and no one has at least 8 inches or more? It this really realistic? Even in my example, most men still are below 7 inches.

People only say and claim that because this is the trait that is not visible at first sight. They turned this into a perspective of "it is all in your mind brah" and they gaslight about it. This is seen in Reddit sections such as Smalldickproblems and Averagedickproblems.
Fascinating, if you made a full thread I'd read
 
Fascinating, if you made a full thread I'd read

It is interesting when put into perspective and it does make sense. Perhaps I will make a thread about that. Although I still have to make a thread about the 2 week schooltrip I had back in elementary school. I already made a thread about that for another story.
 
you will end up on my megathread sooner or later, curry”cel”

 
No ascension here haven’t gotten into a relationship nor did I have sex yet.

Most shoot themselves in the foot by not going for other curries but idk how good of a representative I am while being only half curry.
you basically look curry, right? good enough for the thread
 
you basically look curry, right? good enough for the thread
I rarely see an actual curry that looks like me but kind of. I am caging though, curries are the most obviously unwanted ethnicity in the world next to south east asians.
7 inches is the bare minimum requirement, so you do not humiliate yourself.
I agree with what you’re saying, the studies seem inaccurate. I’m pretty sure I’m 6.5 as an adult now but, given the chance to ascend, would you really cuck yourself out of sex for being off the mark by an inch or half an inch? I can agree on anything below 6 inches as small to foids.
Given my experience all throughout highschool where I was mocked/ignored and had my looks made fun of, I can definitely say I’m not a chad.
 
I rarely see an actual curry that looks like me but kind of. I am caging though, curries are the most obviously unwanted ethnicity in the world next to south east asians.
glad you find it funny

to me, that megathread serves as a brutal reminder that even the apparently most unwanted ethnicity still brutally mogs me when it comes to female attention and sex

It points to the very grim fact that I am below even curries on the SMV scale. How does one cope after learning this? Hahahahaaaa
 
Given my experience all throughout highschool where I was mocked/ignored and had my looks made fun of, I can definitely say I’m not a chad.
I was joking but brutal shit

Just enjoy your time with her bro they always leave in the end
 
recently however I’ve been taken aback by her complimenting me or spending way more time with me unprompted, beyond this she's revealed more about her personal life to me. Even when I tried distancing myself from her she wouldn’t let me when she was the one that told me she was distant.
Chad
 

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