BonePressed
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[font=Open Sans, Arial, sans-serif]"I [/font][font='Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif]find[/font][font='Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif] the[/font][font='Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif] vast, vast, vast majority of men unattractive. Mostly it’s that I don’t have any physical attraction to them, but once in a while (about twice a year if I’m on a lot of dating sites, or once every few years if I’m not), I’ll meet someone I actually think is good looking (a hint here is that I find most celebrities physically unattractive, apparently my sex drive is picky but I couldn’t tell you why – although I DO have a high sex drive…).[/font]
[font='Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif][size=x-small][font='Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif]Now to be honest, I’m not too bothered about finding someone in the next couple of years, I’m still young at 28 and my career is my priority right now[/font][/font][/size]
[font='Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif][size=x-small][font='Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif][size=x-small][font='Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif]I have tried being with people I don’t find attractive – and I usually remain friends with very nice men I have tried to date but didn’t find attractive, and I’m afraid they don’t start growing on me. They just become my friend.[/font]
[font='Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif]Have you come across this and do you think the reason I find so many men physically unappealing is because of something psychological? Some of my friends think it’s do with the bar being raised…I’m quite attractive myself and I’ve had a lot of attention from the opposite of sex since I was about 13, including the “very good looking”, so perhaps it’s just knowing what I could have and that that’s influencing me?"[/font][/font][/size][/font][/size]
[font='Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif][size=x-small][font='Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif][size=x-small][font='Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif]Full version and the response by the male dating coach that she wrote to here: http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/find-men-unattractive-whats-wrong/[/font][/font][/size][/font][/size]
[font='Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif][size=x-small][font='Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif]Now to be honest, I’m not too bothered about finding someone in the next couple of years, I’m still young at 28 and my career is my priority right now[/font][/font][/size]
[font='Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif][size=x-small][font='Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif][size=x-small][font='Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif]I have tried being with people I don’t find attractive – and I usually remain friends with very nice men I have tried to date but didn’t find attractive, and I’m afraid they don’t start growing on me. They just become my friend.[/font]
[font='Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif]Have you come across this and do you think the reason I find so many men physically unappealing is because of something psychological? Some of my friends think it’s do with the bar being raised…I’m quite attractive myself and I’ve had a lot of attention from the opposite of sex since I was about 13, including the “very good looking”, so perhaps it’s just knowing what I could have and that that’s influencing me?"[/font][/font][/size][/font][/size]
[font='Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif][size=x-small][font='Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif][size=x-small][font='Open Sans', Arial, sans-serif]Full version and the response by the male dating coach that she wrote to here: http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/dating-tips-advice/find-men-unattractive-whats-wrong/[/font][/font][/size][/font][/size]