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TeeHee Females agree between themselves that relationships alleviate mental ilness

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ive had social anxiety since i was very very young. at age 4-5 while playing with all the other little co-op kids my age, if they decided to run to the other end of the community i would go home crying, feeling like i wasn't invited to go to the other end with them. my mom thinks it developed when she gave birth to me. it was a C-section but the doctor was super shitty and blotched it somehow. my mom had to spend awhile away from me which isnt great because i wasnt able to bond with her and as a newborn thats super important i think. thats at least the theory anyhow.

its hard for me to remember how bad my anxiety was because ive blocked out so many stages in my life because they were so cringey. i do remember having the exact same haircut throughout all of middle school and all of highschool though. my middle school made us wear uniforms which helped me a lot i think. i didnt have to worry about other people judging me based on what i wore.

getting a boyfriend has honestly helped sososo much. i got super lucky with him, hes honestly such an amazing person. ive heard people say things like "getting a S/O will only make you temporarily happy if you have depression. the happiness wont last." however i think the opposite is true if you have social anxiety and meet the right person. him calling me beautiful everyday has really changed my perspective on my looks. like im actually able to go out in public without doing my hair or makeup anymore!

that being said though, i have no other friends besides him and its extremely lonely. when we fight i have literally no one to talk to about it. the only friend interactions i have are when we hangout with his friends maybe once every 2 months and play board games. hes a very introverted person with pretty bad depression so he rarely wants to hang out with friends. and since im an introverted extrovert with no friends, there are times where it feels very lonely. most of the time im content just being with him though! if only it were easier to make friends!

in social situations i try to go over the upcoming conversations in my head and come up with a bunch of different scenarios and how to handle them if they come up! usually i forget it all once the conversation happens but it eliminates the nervousness i feel before the interaction!


And she got a reply


You're lucky. And it's sweet that you only needed validation from the man you love and not the rest of the public. Having a strong relationship and taking care of each other is so important, people saying they do not help for depression must not love very deeply.


Meanwhile they always tell lonely males that getting a gf wont mentally fix them.
 
Don't directly link that website please.
Use this: archive.is next time.
 
I'll never understand hoes and the assholes they fall for either, is what it is man at this point.
 
is that some astrology website? I did some research on my chart and this came up:

He is an opportunist. He can express himself easily and learns quickly. He is welcoming and gentle. He likes travel and intellectual work.

He wavers between a rich and successful domestic life and social success. He has difficulty in succeeding in both. Very perceptive and given to psychoanalyzing people. A strategist. Powerful emotions and intense feelings.

He has difficulty expressing himself, especially when young. Does not talk much, he does not speak for the sake of it. He works in remote and quiet places. He is discrete and philosophical.

A shy and somewhat withdrawn demeanour. Private, but once he is comfortable, friendly and curious. Very observant, a natural psychologist.

He is more prone than most to the bad influence of alcohol, medicines and drugs. To be avoided at all costs.

He likes method, calculation, concentration. He is not drawn towards amusements, or pleasure in general. He has few friends, but has deep and sincere feelings. He is serious in everything.

Recognized for his seriousness, moral qualities. He is respectable, conscientious.

Weaknesses: not open to new ideas.

He likes to direct, is intelligent and is an organizer of the first order.

He is quarrelsome, critical and violent. His success is obtained by dubious means.

Moon in Aquarius people are extremely observant. They are life-time students of human nature, loving to analyze why people do what they do. This often stems from a detached--even shy--personality, especially in youth. Whether due to character or conditioning, Moon in Aquarius people often grow up feeling "different". Although rather sociable, they are often loners at heart. Many have strong egos, or at least powerful defense mechanisms, and most Lunar Aquarians will do their best to be the most unique and unusual person they can be. Their inner feeling of loneliness--that they don't quite fit in--puts them on the outside, looking in. There is a very idealistic and progressive streak in Lunar Aquarians that is admirable indeed. However, when the Moon is in Aquarius, natives often will deny the more irrational qualities of emotions--such as jealousy, possessiveness, and fear--in an effort to be "above" what they consider "pettiness". When this goes too far, Lunar Aquarians can be emotionally blocked, distant, and detached.

He is energetic and determined. He has strength and resistance, ability and patience: he is tough, and sometimes insensitive, and puts all his energy and talents into overcoming all the obstacles to his success. He is obstinate, calculating, does not take on anything without having thought of all the possible consequences, he can take all the time in the world and never loses patience to achieve his objectives. He is not particularly popular in his circle, but is feared and respected.

With the Sun in Gemini, the urge for self-expression is strong. These natives are often just as interested in collecting information as they are in sharing it. Curious to a fault, Geminis have a finger in every pie.

i.e., largely this fits me to a fucking T
 

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