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1. The man will develop unrequited affections for her.
2. The man will be resentful that shes fucking her other male friends and not him.
3. The man can never be his true self and let his hair down. He'll always be repressed and watching what he says around her.
4. The man never can bitch about other women or women in general around her.
5. The man will never be allowed to pass comment on "women's issues" but will have to listen to her endlessly and be a shoulder to cry on.
6. The man will have different interests to her so can never be truly connected.
7. The man will be expected to provide for her endlessly and get told he's entitled to nothing whilst she's entitled to everything and can take things for granted.
8. The man will get tired of her gossiping and small talk.
9. The man will find himself in a one way friendship.
10. The man will be coerced by her other orbiters to kid himself that he's getting a good deal and if he questions anything he'll be mobbed and lynched.
11. The man will find himself in servitude to her and her whims.
12. The man will never find any of his altruism and good deeds for her and their friendship reciprocated.
13. The man will be forced to suppress his heterosexual urges and not be allowed to take a sexual interest in other women around her. Heaven forbid if you tell her you escortcel. Whilst she's on Tinder or seeking arrangement.
14. The man is getting a raw deal.
More to come. Please feel free to add.
 
I already accepted accelerationism, this doesn't matter anymore, nothing matters

I am Nihilism + Accelerationism
 
I've had several female friends/acquaintances through my life, and from what you post, you look you are reaching conclusions without having much field experience imo. Maybe I'm wrong.



Yes and no. Happened to me in my teen years a couple of times. Got rejected by both. Before COLVIN-19 I had female acquaintances and I didn't feel shit for them: one because she was a total nag, and the other because she was taller than me.



Again, yes and no, in my experience. I just wanted sex with whoever it happened to be, so I didn't get mad because of not having sex with them specifically. But I got extremely mogged because of how easily they accessed to love/intimacy/sex.



Kinda... But, in practice, they do the same to a certain extent. And when there's friendship, certain topics are allowed.



True. And they can do it themselves without no one tryin' to bring them down, or not very often. Still, doesn't happens too much in practice.



Almost. It depends on your rhetoric/register. I can assure you can tell them your shit, but it is just like walking on eggshells. Difficult, but not impossible.

Also, women irl rather talking about their issues preferably with female friends, so in my experience wasn't much of a problem.



Totally disagree :dafuckfeels: I've met all kinds of girls out there: basic, geeks (one of them played wargames with us, believe it or not, but she was terrible at it), well read, emos (back in 2008-2010), hippies, punks, metalheads, more traditional (I have met way less of these ones as in the past I've been more left leaned), or a combination of various things. They all had one thing in common, tho: they wouldn't fuck me :D "You just have to put yourself out there bro!". NO.



We just had dinner together (the group of friends I mean, maybe "female friends" in your head is a one on one thing similar to dating... which isn't true in most of the cases, or at least it hasn't been for me except maybe a couple of times or three that I have gone with one to the cinema, and it felt basically like going with a dude). Maybe also playing board games. "Nothing" for you means "no sex". Well, duh.



This. For me it was a pain in the ass. Specially my last acquaintances when they talked about they guys they swiped left on Tinder with a tone of vanity. "This one is boring", "That one is balding", "That one is a loser", "Short", "Short again"... :feelsree:



Hasn't happened to me because, somehow, I didn't invest too much on them.



Happened to my in my teen years, but not with my latest acquaintances. The older people get, the less this happens.



It depends. If you are simp, that's what will happen. When they asked me things like "Hold my purse, please", I jokingly said things on the lines of "You are asking me too much" or "You owe my one, lady (with a serious tone)". It boils down to being logic. If she asked me for something like "Would you invite me to X" being X something that crosses the line, I'd say "That's something I decide" or, with sarcasm, "Yeah, and what else? The dinner? A drink? Champagne? Would you be bothered if I directly handed you a check instead?". A redpiller would say this the kind game (I've always tried to jestermaxx but for the sake of fun itself, tbh) needed to conquer them. "Improve your personalitee, bro". NO. Still, even if I wasn't blackpilled yet, I had the intuition it was over, so I think not expecting a shit from them helped a little bit.



Technically speaking, if you expect something from them, it isn't altruism. It's an investment.



True. I wasn't able to do this because I am a subhuman, water is wet. Even in the times I wasn't blackpilled, I understood I didn't have the same privileges than other men. Wasn't hard because the ones I became friends with were, in the vast majority of cases, the ones I didn't have interest in (too tall, with bf, too mean, etc.).



If you stick to the part of being friends, not. The ones which you won't be attracted to are perfect friend material, because there's mutual sexual disinterest.

I agree with you, man. Patience is the greatest virtue, but I want things happening ASAP. The sooner I get my hands into a robowaifu, the better :feelsLSD:

Interesting. So overall you agree?
 
If you have sexual interest, I agree with you: it's reaaaally fucked up. If you don't have sexual interest, it can work out (in my experience). Male friends are usually better, tho.

Hmm.. interesting. Thanks for the feedback.
 
Based and Saved.

It makes me feel better knowing I am not the only one going through this.
 

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That's one of two things:
1. Masochism - theyre performing emotional labour without getting anything in return.
2. Virtue signaling and narcissism - if they do that aware of point 1 then they're doing that to use as a rod of oppression to make sure others cow tow in conformity to those behaviours they want you to exhibit.
 
The said "female friend" in question actually hates your guts and wants you dead. She is just using you like a disposable tool, and once your use has run out, she will no longer associated with you.
 
I have a female stacy friend. She's a very kind qt. I asked her out in february, she friendzoned me, but she actually meant it when she said she wanted to stay friends.
If i'm being honest, she's been good to me, better than the vast majority of friends i've had. If i've learned anything from the blackpill though, she'll slowly start to fade away and forget me.
 

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