Imagine you've just ascended and everything's great. You are finally accepted by a foid. But now you fear it will end. She will run off with Chad. Our fears about foids don't just stem from never being sexually selected. But also from the fact she can monkey branch to a better man. That's why I believe the only ascension is being sexually selected once. After that, it's over.
"Just went through a bad breakup with a GF of 6 months, where she decided she stopped 'liking me' around 5 months and basically ignored me while still keeping me around, while I was pouring more effort in just to keep it afloat.
It's actually scary how amazingly this fits. She, for whatever reason, decided she stopped liking me (she said "I can't help it it's just a thing that happens to me!) and then basically ignored me and was generally passively-mean to me for a whole month. Problem was, everything was going great before this, and she didn't say anything to signal this sudden change. So while I'm going about, having a nice relationship, there is a sudden unexplained and unannounced behavior change. It took like a week to notice, and I tried to step it up to keep it going, because I really liked this girl (hence the dating), but it was to no avail. It confused the FUCK out of me.
I didn't know if she was cheating on me, preparing to, or was just going through a really tough time and didn't know how to react.
After we break up (which was my doing), my friend informs me that he saw her go home with some guy at a bar, which was literally 5 hours after broke up. Meanwhile I'm laying on my floor listening to The Offspring trying to figure out what happened. Hearing that was devastating. A few days later she tries talking to me and wants to just hang out and 'be friends' and I went off on her. She has all sorts of bs justification and says that the issue is that she didn't break up with me, not that she slept with a rando a quarter of a day after we broke up. I have never verbally laid into someone as hard as I did after that. I absolutely did not understand anything that was happening with my love live at the time, and it made me feel terrible inside.
It's a good thing I play in a band, that was a great source easy rebound pussy."
"Just went through a bad breakup with a GF of 6 months, where she decided she stopped 'liking me' around 5 months and basically ignored me while still keeping me around, while I was pouring more effort in just to keep it afloat.
It's actually scary how amazingly this fits. She, for whatever reason, decided she stopped liking me (she said "I can't help it it's just a thing that happens to me!) and then basically ignored me and was generally passively-mean to me for a whole month. Problem was, everything was going great before this, and she didn't say anything to signal this sudden change. So while I'm going about, having a nice relationship, there is a sudden unexplained and unannounced behavior change. It took like a week to notice, and I tried to step it up to keep it going, because I really liked this girl (hence the dating), but it was to no avail. It confused the FUCK out of me.
I didn't know if she was cheating on me, preparing to, or was just going through a really tough time and didn't know how to react.
After we break up (which was my doing), my friend informs me that he saw her go home with some guy at a bar, which was literally 5 hours after broke up. Meanwhile I'm laying on my floor listening to The Offspring trying to figure out what happened. Hearing that was devastating. A few days later she tries talking to me and wants to just hang out and 'be friends' and I went off on her. She has all sorts of bs justification and says that the issue is that she didn't break up with me, not that she slept with a rando a quarter of a day after we broke up. I have never verbally laid into someone as hard as I did after that. I absolutely did not understand anything that was happening with my love live at the time, and it made me feel terrible inside.
It's a good thing I play in a band, that was a great source easy rebound pussy."
