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The title is exactly what you’d expect from this post, so I’m just going to underline the juiciest bits
"Women are less shallow" "Dating is easier for lesbians" and other LIES often spread
I see these things said a lot (not directed specifically at anyone or etc. I mean generally in various online and real life spaces) and I cannot stress how much it is just completely untrue........
People (even other lesbians...) often act as if butch/masculine have it easy and like we don't have standards to conform to or etc.... Lmao, it's definitely false.
MAYBE the occasional fat butch will get someone if they have the charisma of a fucking god or something like that, but most of the time we are treated like the lowest-tier undesirables. If you're not either super handsome and ripped/lanky or super charismatic/rich/etc., then you're just actually fucked when it comes to ever getting a partner....
People will try to give me hollow platitutdes as well about how it's "Normal for lesbians to be kissless virgins at 24" but I feel like most lesbians my age still have SOME experience and if they don't, it's often by choice (because they're picky and aren't attracted to many people or etc.), not because they're simply so ugly that nobody has EVER been attracted to them.
I have friends who are also butch/masculine females and they don't have these issues, and in fact they constantly have people falling in love with them. It makes me so fucking bitter (and also debunks the whole "it's a lesbian thing" lol.)
I'm pretty sure in my case it's because I'm fat and short so basically hideous, as I have little issue making friends when I put in the effort and have the will to. I'm autistic sure but I've never been one of those totally friendless people, I've had my fair share of friend groups and close friends and I've maintained contact with old friends for many years, so I KNOW that's not the problem.
Additionally, I've been made fun of for my appearance basically my entire life. Asked out as a joke. BLOCKED by people when they found out I'm into them (lmao), seen their visible disgust in reaction to that, etc.
And while this sounds maybe similar to a lot of male FA complaints, I want to say that I honestly despise them because they don't know how good they have it.
I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say women don't care nearly as much about men's appearance as they do about women's(and I'm talking about those who are attracted to women or both lol). Bisexual women will often date hideous obese neckbeards, but will basically think of a chubby masculine lesbian as a sexual predator for even looking at her.
I don't mean any offense by this, by the way, but it's simply what I have personally observed.......
This is to the point where I am chickenshit scared of EVER making any moves, even though when I have I've been 500x more respectful than any guy is... Like ok I'm not claiming nice guy "omg i was nice to her and she wont even fuck me!1!1" shit, I don't expect anything and I don't think I'm entitled to any attraction or attention. BUT I will see guys straight up saying "I jack off to your selfies lol" and other weird ass shit to girls (Who they're not even dating btw!!! and who haven't displayed any attraction to them...) and the girls are just like "Lol uhhh little weird but Whatever". But if I tell them they're cute or something really mild like that they're like " EWWWW SO CREEPY OMG BLOCKED!!! " And tell everyone that I'm a creep. I feel like I'm ACTUALLY treated like how delusional guys think they're treated (as in the "I can't even say anything because I'll get accused of harassment" type shit is ACTUALLY true for me.... men can get away with nearly anything lmao).
Like wtf man..... They can't even treat me like a real human being with feelings and REJECT ME NORMALLY.
Men will complain about women rejecting POLITELY or even KINDLY like "Oh I'm sorry £ wish I could return your feelings but I'm not ready for a relationship/you're not my type/etc." like lmao I WISH that's how I was usually rejected. Instead they make a huge deal as if I'm the worst most disgusting thing in the world.
It's just..... am I really THAT bad? Am I really so hideous and gross that I need to be treated like some sort of disease vector?
I just fucking hate myself so much.
Sorry if this is long, and sorry if this offends anyone, but these are just my personal experiences and my point of view.....
First of ALL. I need to talk about how fucking false the notion of “lesbians having it harder” is. FtMs are fetishized just for having holes. The problem is her entitlement to stacies. The more you try to look/pass as a man, the more eugenic foids with behave towards you.
I will always remember the time I saw a dogshit fugly foid dating a htb, acting all lovey dovey towards each other
. Seeing it ruined my mood for I don’t even know how many hours. From having a cope-filled day to bringing back up the hole in my soul. Just a reminder of how much worse we have it over things we cannot control. We’ve probably all seen high body fat percentage lesbian foids with chicks, but this foid’s looksmatch is legit a hard sub5, even if I discounted the amount of acne scars I saw her with.Second, notice her saying “men don’t have it harder, and are extremely fragile towards nice rejections”
I mean, it has to be a joke right?; Something she doesn’t believe herself, but has to say it so her post doesn’t get taken down on that misandrist sub. If it’s how she really feels, just more proof showing the harm that these vicious echochambers have on normie individuals… encouraging you to be callous just to be accepted. Sounds like a russian wet dream.
She says men complain about being politely told down, while she won’t bring up how in 100% of those cases, the men were strung along, explicitly given false hope, USED, praised for some virtuous traits. Not to mention she for some reason is turning a complete blind eye to how foul foids reject men in the way she describes. Except, you don’t even have to be short and obese to experience that. She uses a RARE example of a dude acting overly horny as proof men have it easy. Makes me wonder if because it’s so inflammatory, it is some fabricated tales from an android farm basement in commiegrad. Or do foids really think like this, and don’t want to end up ropemaxxing like norah vincent if they truly tried to understand men?
And btw, the “neckbeard” she’s talking about with biwomen is always in a relationship where he acts feminine and the foid has all the power. Likely even is a cuck
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