- Nov 12, 2017
idkwattodowithlife said:Being that incels have shitty genetics, aren't we already predisposed for a majority of us to have a high bodyfat %? Despite some of us being skinny fat and having low testosterone = higher estrogen (storing bodyfat like a women).
Wizard said:For any fatcels who don't believe there's a "true face below" they should read through the reddit posts that ask the question "How did people treat you differently when you lost weight?". All of them talk about how people were just nicer to them, talked to them, treated them like human beings. If these example of fatcels becoming sexy doesn't help, those threads will. The resentment and realization of a superficial world they describe shouldn't bother you too much if you've accepted the black pill.
Lookism is just as, if not more, strong when it comes to obesity. It often gets lost around here because a lot of incels enjoy raging about fat women but all the studies on obesity show the strong ways that being obese modifies the perception of you. Personally I believe obesity is basically a visual synonym for ugliness, since ugly people give the "disgust" reaction in the brain which is what people say they get to obese people. I think people claiming their reaction is about self discipline or healthcare spending are just backwards rationalizing that obesity is the same thing as being ugly.
After looking at obese people participants in studies legitimately think odorless substances smell bad, they literally believe something that smells of nothing smells terrible. If you're a fatcel you need to understand that is how much of a difference there is in being a fatcel than being your thin self; even if you're ugly when you're thin too. Even kids have strong aversion to obese kids in stories and assume the obese kids are the source of negative events no matter what.
Fat is a negative pressure, if you're ugly and fit then your ugliness is still primary. But if you're fat it's just an extension of ugliness, you're not "ugly and fat" you're just "twice as ugly" if you get what I mean. Even if you can't get girls, people will treat you better as a thincel.
That's only really for incels who've never been properly low bodyfat though. The incels who have turned in to fat LDARs are just like people who've given up on actively trying to talk to women/etc; dejected incels who are basically "on the sideline" blackpillers. They're out of the active game really, just here chilling.
Red Shambhala said:That was a great motivational read to lose some weight again!
Wizard said:I'm convincing myself as well to be honest, I was one of those who tried really hard when I was younger and burned myself out when it didn't work. Put on the weight the last few years LDARing, but I had a lot of problems accepting the reality of being a low value ugly person when I was young. I never accepted that looks were primary when I was at the gym, I worked hard and took a breath every now thinking that maybe I'd progressed enough to find someone and get brutally shot down. Now things have clicked and I think I can focus on it again and earn enough to get plastic surgery, just going to go braindead looksmaxing.
Red Shambhala said:I put on a lot of weight recently because I started to reward myself with food. Like, when I worked really hard or when a period of hard work was over, my reward was/is: food.