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It's Over Falling Behind

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Falling Behind

Falling behind is a death sentence. Normies are incapable of empathising with the problems of falling behind, because they have never experienced it. Falling behind simply must be experienced to be fully understood. Even though normies/females have no desire to empathise with us, even if they did they wouldn't be able to imagine it.

What is falling behind? It's being stuck in the tutorial whilst everybody else is doing endgame raids. It's being a child sitting at the adult's table. It's being at the starting line long after everybody else has already ran the race and returned home.

You Need to Hit the Ground Running

If you do not hit the ground running in your early teens (at the latest), it's over. You simply cannot afford to fall behind socially here. You need to have formative experiences. You need to have friends, dates, girlfriends. You need to practise your social skills and make all of the stupid mistakes that are only permissible to make then. If you make these mistakes later in life, you will be made a social outcast or even imprisoned in some cases.

Socialising is a skill. Like all skills, it must be practised and cultivated. You can only practise your social skills and learn social knowledge by interacting with other people. If you don't keep pace with everybody, you fall behind. All of a sudden you're 16 years old, and everybody around you has 3 years practise with socialising and dating. You're 21. Everybody has 8 years. You have none. You're 30. Everybody else has 17 years. You're too far behind.

Normies are not going to let you practise your skills on them for two reasons: 1) there are millions of other experienced people they can spend their time on instead and 2) they can gain social capital themselves by ridiculing you in front of others, which is what IT bullies etc do (boost their own social value by demeaning those around them to make themselves look better by comparison.

This is Fundamentally Unfair

You've fallen behind, but it's not your fault. It's not your fault because you were never allowed to start. You were never allowed to start because you were born with the wrong genes. When you were 12, you were too short or too ugly. You liked the wrong games, music and movies. That's literally all it takes. That's all it takes for you to become a target for bullying. Your role is now the whipping post, all of your peers abuse you to climb the social ladder. They stamp you into the mud as they ascend, gain skills and have formative experiences.

It is fucking over, my friends. It's absolutely fucking over.
 
Tbh it's over, waiting for the day I rope (srs)
 
We've fallen behind, but people assure me you can still build a life worth living late in the game.
 
nice post. it's actually incredible on HOW MANY LAYERS we are getting fucked right now.

because even if you try to regain ground and make friends now, you'll find that lots of people are either giving up or just not doing anything dynamic that lets you meet more people... and they have NO INTENTION to help you, even if you hint at it heavily.

they would just stare at you in disbelief if you asked them to help you get more friends and a gf, and go back to swiping through notifications on their smartphone.

fucked because you fell behind, fucked because everyone else is overall giving up socially as we head into 2020.
 
We've fallen behind, but people assure me you can still build a life worth living late in the game.
Those people are fucking delusional. What they mean by that is that a post-wall 35+ year old roastie with a horde of bastard children will finally let you pay for a house for her and her kids in exchange for cold birthday sex once a year in the dark. They literally expect you to bankroll these degenerate whores. They expect YOU to pay the fucking price of their degeneracy, after they have spent their lives making your life a fucking misery by rejecting and ridiculing you, having sex and living life at YOUR expense.

I swear to fucking god, literally everything about modern society is just about absolving women of responsibility for all of their actions.
 
falling behind is only a problem for men. there is no recovery. why else would so many more men rope compared to foids?
foids can never fall as low as man can AND they can recover more easily.
if it really comes down to it, they can always simply sell their body.

a foid can never be as poor as a man, because they have a natural value just because they have a vagina.
whereas man have none. you're not even worth the dirt you walk on.
foids are born with a fail safe backup.
just exist theory.
 
falling behind is only a problem for men. there is no recovery. why else would so many more men rope compared to foids?
foids can never fall as low as man can AND they can recover more easily.
if it really comes down to it, they can always simply sell their body.

a foid can never be as poor as a man, because they have a natural value just because they have a vagina.
whereas man have none. you're not even worth the dirt you walk on.
foids are born with a fail safe backup.
just exist theory.
Yes exactly.

Socially inept male = fucking loser, beta, bully target hahaha laugh at him and reject him he's a fucking spaz lol
Socially inept female = tehe she's sooo cute she's so shy :3 :3 :3 she's such a lil cutie hehe she does all these cute thigns hehe

FUCKING WKAE ME UP FROM THIS SIMULATION
 
Those people are fucking delusional. What they mean by that is that a post-wall 35+ year old roastie with a horde of bastard children will finally let you pay for a house for her and her kids in exchange for cold birthday sex once a year in the dark. They literally expect you to bankroll these degenerate whores. They expect YOU to pay the fucking price of their degeneracy, after they have spent their lives making your life a fucking misery by rejecting and ridiculing you, having sex and living life at YOUR expense.

I swear to fucking god, literally everything about modern society is just about absolving women of responsibility for all of their actions.
yes, bro

society and (((((((((((((((((social scientists))))))))) absolutely insist that you can win at life late in life if you are truly smart, but they are only evaluating finances and job success, nothing else

they don't care that you spend your evenings autoerotically asphyxiating in a dungeon, just that you have good money and and a 401k.
 
Stop being fat you slow fucks. Start healthmaxxing.
 
yes, bro

society and (((((((((((((((((social scientists))))))))) absolutely insist that you can win at life late in life if you are truly smart, but they are only evaluating finances and job success, nothing else

they don't care that you spend your evenings autoerotically asphyxiating in a dungeon, just that you have good money and and a 401k.
HMMMMMMMMMM gee fucking whiz I wonder why all of these female academics would promote these ideas hmmmmmm

It's fucking crazy. They're literally saying "tehe just work your ass off in a job you hate for 60 hours a week for 30 years then you can have sex with a disgusting, fat old sow with a 900 n-count hehe, you've got to work for what you want silly incel!"

Meanwhile ugly women take pictures of their fat disgusting bodies and numale cucks pay them thousands per month to look at them, whilst the females fuck an endless supply of Chads.

Chad doesn't have to work for sex. Women don't have to work for sex. But we do. We have to be slaves just for a sniff of used up pussy. Fuck this shit.
 
HMMMMMMMMMM gee fucking whiz I wonder why all of these female academics would promote these ideas hmmmmmm

It's fucking crazy. They're literally saying "tehe just work your ass off in a job you hate for 60 hours a week for 30 years then you can have sex with a disgusting, fat old sow with a 900 n-count hehe, you've got to work for what you want silly incel!"

Meanwhile ugly women take pictures of their fat disgusting bodies and numale cucks pay them thousands per month to look at them, whilst the females fuck an endless supply of Chads.

Chad doesn't have to work for sex. Women don't have to work for sex. But we do. We have to be slaves just for a sniff of used up pussy. Fuck this shit.
this is precisely what they are implying.
 
Falling Behind

Falling behind is a death sentence. Normies are incapable of empathising with the problems of falling behind, because they have never experienced it. Falling behind simply must be experienced to be fully understood. Even though normies/females have no desire to empathise with us, even if they did they wouldn't be able to imagine it.

What is falling behind? It's being stuck in the tutorial whilst everybody else is doing endgame raids. It's being a child sitting at the adult's table. It's being at the starting line long after everybody else has already ran the race and returned home.

You Need to Hit the Ground Running

If you do not hit the ground running in your early teens (at the latest), it's over. You simply cannot afford to fall behind socially here. You need to have formative experiences. You need to have friends, dates, girlfriends. You need to practise your social skills and make all of the stupid mistakes that are only permissible to make then. If you make these mistakes later in life, you will be made a social outcast or even imprisoned in some cases.

Socialising is a skill. Like all skills, it must be practised and cultivated. You can only practise your social skills and learn social knowledge by interacting with other people. If you don't keep pace with everybody, you fall behind. All of a sudden you're 16 years old, and everybody around you has 3 years practise with socialising and dating. You're 21. Everybody has 8 years. You have none. You're 30. Everybody else has 17 years. You're too far behind.

Normies are not going to let you practise your skills on them for two reasons: 1) there are millions of other experienced people they can spend their time on instead and 2) they can gain social capital themselves by ridiculing you in front of others, which is what IT bullies etc do (boost their own social value by demeaning those around them to make themselves look better by comparison.

This is Fundamentally Unfair

You've fallen behind, but it's not your fault. It's not your fault because you were never allowed to start. You were never allowed to start because you were born with the wrong genes. When you were 12, you were too short or too ugly. You liked the wrong games, music and movies. That's literally all it takes. That's all it takes for you to become a target for bullying. Your role is now the whipping post, all of your peers abuse you to climb the social ladder. They stamp you into the mud as they ascend, gain skills and have formative experiences.

It is fucking over, my friends. It's absolutely fucking over.

Based. I've always said the age pill hits hard along with as sergeant said if you miss out on mile stones than you're fucked. Time is the most precious commodity there is.
 
Based. I've always said the age pill hits hard along with as sergeant said if you miss out on mile stones than you're fucked. Time is the most precious commodity there is.
Agreed. If you do not have formative experiences when you are suppose to have them, you can't catch up. And when that window of opportunity has closed, it has closed forever. We will never know young love. We will never have an awkward first kiss with a girl as clumsy and as inexperienced as us. We will never know the thrill of going on your first date as a young teen to the cinema, etc etc.

I made a big post on this in the r/incel days but it was lost forever when the sub got nuked.
 
We will never know young love. We will never have an awkward first kiss with a girl as clumsy and as inexperienced as us. We will never know the thrill of going on your first date as a young teen to the cinema, etc etc.
Damn bro, that part was truely ropefuel ngl, life never even began for people like us.
 
This is what it's like having autism without a chad face. Can't stand interactions with ppl as it's just a matter of time before they try to fuck you over in front of a group or they think you're weird & move along.
 
Those people are fucking delusional. What they mean by that is that a post-wall 35+ year old roastie with a horde of bastard children will finally let you pay for a house for her and her kids in exchange for cold birthday sex once a year in the dark. They literally expect you to bankroll these degenerate whores. They expect YOU to pay the fucking price of their degeneracy, after they have spent their lives making your life a fucking misery by rejecting and ridiculing you, having sex and living life at YOUR expense.

I swear to fucking god, literally everything about modern society is just about absolving women of responsibility for all of their actions.
This is what it's like having autism without a chad face. Can't stand interactions with ppl as it's just a matter of time before they try to fuck you over in front of a group or they think you're weird & move along.
 
I am behind in atleast 10 years of development at this point. No social life, no friends, I am literally a ghost of society.
 
Those people are fucking delusional. What they mean by that is that a post-wall 35+ year old roastie with a horde of bastard children will finally let you pay for a house for her and her kids in exchange for cold birthday sex once a year in the dark. They literally expect you to bankroll these degenerate whores. They expect YOU to pay the fucking price of their degeneracy, after they have spent their lives making your life a fucking misery by rejecting and ridiculing you, having sex and living life at YOUR expense.

I swear to fucking god, literally everything about modern society is just about absolving women of responsibility for all of their actions.
Shit.... Raw post. I like you already.
Chad doesn't have to work for sex. Women don't have to work for sex. But we do. We have to be slaves just for a sniff of used up pussy. Fuck this shit.
 
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Ya'll need to get on disabilitybux :feelsokman:
 
This is why I maintain inceldom is in reality more than just about sex, since looks will fuck up literally every aspect of your life. It doesn't just prevent you from getting relationships, but prevents you from progressing in almost every aspect of life.

And then people wonder why incels are angry.
Inceldom has never been about sex. It's about never being able to emotionally or socially connect with people. It's about never being able to engage in romantic and sexual connections with other people, which is pretty much necessary for mental health. This is why escortceling is pointless, and this is the point IT bullies always miss: it isn't about sex, it's about connection.
 
This is why I maintain inceldom is in reality more than just about sex, since looks will fuck up literally every aspect of your life. .

And then people wonder why incels are angry.
 
Social skills only apply to normies, chads and foids can be retarded but still have everyone waiting on them hand and foot.
 

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