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Failing to meet life milestones at a young age leads to lifelong futility

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If you missed out on the right life experiences at a young age, the rest of your life will simply be pointless existing. Sure you might graduate from school, get a decent job, and make a living but everything else will be futile. You will face existential dread multiplied by 1000 compared to the normal person. Normal people feel existential dread regularly but compensate by filling their lives with their jobs, activities, relationships and family. If you are missing these things, the rest of your life will be filled with the same negative thoughts repeating over and over until you simply cannot take it. All because you missed the life milestones from childhood to 20 or so years old. If you try to make "friends" or build "relationships" as an adult you will be met with even more rejection because these relationship have already been formed by your peers. They will see you as a degenerate outsider or a weirdo. At my age now, I can feel this happening already and it will only get much, much worse. It feels like everyone around me matured at a normal rate because they socialized themselves at the right ages. I am a grown ass man with the life experience of a 12 year old. An average 12 year old can socialize better than me due to the shitty socialization I received at a young age. But when you get to be a grown adult, you have nowhere to turn. When you are a kid you latch on to your family. As normal people get older, they find other "families" to latch onto so they don't fall into despair due to existential dread. If you fail to do this, you are basically doomed.
 
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These blackpills are brutal today
 
:feelsrope:Ugly short non-NT men will never reach those milestones. Never even began
 
it was over from the start :cryfeels:
 
These blackpills are brutal today
Source 5
 
:feelsrope:Ugly short non-NT men will never reach those milestones. Never even began

Never received autism diagnosis so not 100% if I ever had a shot. When I was younger, I had the emotional responses of a child despite having a normal IQ. I never knew what caused this. No one ever told me. I guess I'll never know.
 
it was over from the start :cryfeels:
Never even began.
Never received autism diagnosis so not 100% if I ever had a shot. When I was younger, I had the emotional responses of a child despite having a normal IQ. I never knew what caused this. No one ever told me. I guess I'll never know.
I got my diagnosis very young. at around 2-3. Over from birth :feelsrope:
 
this is actually proven by psychology studies
 
If you try to make "friends" or build "relationships" as an adult you will be met with even more rejection because these relationship have already been formed by your peers. They will see you as a degenerate outsider or a weirdo.
This is the most brutal thing. Moving countries lost me my friends in my first high school. The few friends I had in my tiny high school moved to other cities. Switching majors lost me the 1-2 friends I had. Everyone has friends that move these days unless you're in a working class background or if you have a big social circle like a lot of normies do in which case it doesn't matter if some friends come and go.

On top of this I live in the most reserved country in the world by reputation. JFL at trying to make new friends past uni as a man. Women can still do it by going to some hobby or volunteering to meet other women. In the past people had larger families so you would have cousins and brothers to fall back on. Nowadays you probably have wine aunts with 0 - 2 children and they probably live in the capital city. My older brother and cousin are hanging out a lot these days in another city.
 
Childhood and adolescence make you and break you.
 

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