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Venting Everyone in my family is in a relationship but me

deathgreetsmeslow

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It’s crazy once you realize how people view you for not having a girlfriend. Currently with my extended family and every single one of them besides my brother has a boyfriend or girlfriend. Automatically they are viewed as more successful and their life is “put together”. I am 24 and extended family that are younger have fucked multiple girls. I sat and listened while my uncle went on and on about his football star son. This kid, my cousin, fucks a new girl every week. The cousin just laughed later and showed me 4 Snapchat’s with different girls sending him nudes. They want him and he knows it.

In my family it’s a joke to call me a ladies man, they all know I’m a complete loser, at least in dating. It’s insane how the entire perception of me is changed to negative because of lack of GF syndrome. They see having a relationship as a success in life.

I’ve had jobs, despite being unemployed currently and I was berated by my uncle for basically being a loser who has never worked a day in his life, when this is imply untrue. Shortly after he asked why I don’t have a girlfriend and if I need help. I just laugh but deep down I feel hate.
 
Ah, the classic suicide fuel question: "Do you have a girlfriend yet?". I just say no while looking visibly uncomfortable to try and change the topic.
 
That's brutal. My family leaves me alone about it most of the time. Occasionally my mom brings it up because she's obsessed with talking about my brothers' gfs. Tells me I should get one too. I just shrug it off "ok".
 
It won't get better with time. Spending time with the extended family is sui fuel.
 
I don't think there is any solution to the family problem for the aging incel. Things with my family are objectionably very good, but I still feel a strong compulsion to just abandon them and go live as a hermit on the side of a mountain.
 
Good thing I'm a lone son.
 
My parents never bothered me with that thing just yet.
 
Go Eeeh Aaah on them, fucking bastards.
 
So many feels my friend. How do they do it? How do people get into relationships? It seems so natural for humans to obtain them that the only logical explanation is that we are something other than human.
 
I'm living through the same nightmare. It's just fucking unreal how I'm the ONLY person in my entire family with no relationship experience. And to make things worse almost all the guys are with objectively hot women. I mog some of these fuckers too. I have the worst luck in the world
 

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