Blackpill Every point of attractiveness we lack is also a point of personality we lack

[micropenis29]

The moment we're old enough to realize that we're not being perceived by others as Chads is the moment our brains begin to adapt and change in ways that makes our personalites become just as disgusting to foids as our bodies are.

Some general examples of what I mean:

-Assertiveness is replaced with anxiety
-Pleasant small talk is replaced with shyness and awkwardness
-Risky, obnoxious jokes and laugh-out-loud humor is replaced with nervous smiling or polite but boring and/or forced conversation
-Slacking off, kicking it back and having fun with others is replaced with people-pleasing and dutiful self-sacrificing


If tomorrow a magical surgery was invented and we all instantly looked like Chads, we would no doubt slay, but there would still be tells in our behaviors that would cause people to be weirded out by us until our crippled personalities gradually "caught up with our looks".

 

[Mainländer]

It's more like people use different words to describe the very same thing when different people do it.

Example:

Chad is loud and pushy= assertiveness, dominance, attitude, etc.
Ugly guy is loud and pushy= obnoxious, creepy, rapey, inadequate, etc.

 

[tulasdanslos]

Idk if I'm shy, quiet and neurotic because I'm autistic or because I'm ugly. I've met extroverted aspies before, they had something to show for extroversion, like gfs.

 

[micropenis29]

It's more like people use different words to describe the very same thing when different people do it.

Example:

Chad is loud and pushy= assertiveness, dominance, attitude, etc.
Ugly guy is loud and pushy= obnoxious, creepy, rapey, inadequate, etc.

Even a "loud and pushy" incel is more respected by normies than a shy and anxious incel, because it signals that there's something genetically beneficial underneath that ugliness that, evolutionary speaking, made it unacceptable for others to push them around.

The reason shyness and high-inhib is the very lowest rung of sexually attractive personality traits is that it signals that THE ONLY reason you were able to stick around and reproduce is by perfectly pleasing others and not ruffling any feathers whatsoever.

 

[Mainländer]

Even a "loud and pushy" incel is more respected by normies than a shy and anxious incel, because it signals that there's something genetic there that, evolutionary speaking, made it unacceptable for others to push them around.

Cope, if you stand up aggressively as an ugly male people will gang up and beat the shit out of you. If they're by themselves they might pussy out, but they will deeply resent you and find a way to cowardly gang up on you when they can.

The reason shyness and high-inhib is the very lowest rung of sexually attractive personality traits is that it signals that THE ONLY reason you were able to stick around and reproduce is by perfectly pleasing others and not ruffling any feathers.

Shy Chad mogs an entire army of low-inhib obnoxious ugly guys. This is especially true now with dating apps and everything being considered rape when a non-Chad does it.

But I concede that most women would take aggressive obnoxious Chad over shy Chad. It's just that looks matter way, way more than that.

 

[ThoughtfulCel]

Personality is a meme. If it mattered women wouldn't be fucking shitty men

 

[Warehouse Boy]

Good observation.

Also, don't forget, ugly people fall behind in social skills early on

By age 18, we really never catch up

 

[Deleted member 26884]

Personality is a meme. If it mattered women wouldn't be fucking shitty men

Personality is a GrAYcel cope

 

[1m62dtr]

It’s not your brain, it’s everyone’s brain.

Halo effect.

A Chad will seem funnier, smarter, more trustworthy... just because of his looks.

 

[ionlycopenow]

By age 18, we really never catch up

 

[Deleted member 24081]

Oh hey you’re back

 

[micropenis29]

Oh hey you’re back

It's good to be here.

 

[Deleted member 24081]

It's good to be here.

Glad to have you back bro

 

[radishman]

It's more like people use different words to describe the very same thing when different people do it.

Example:

Chad is loud and pushy= assertiveness, dominance, attitude, etc.
Ugly guy is loud and pushy= obnoxious, creepy, rapey, inadequate, etc.

Yep, all our negative traits that we need to "work on" are suddenly not an issue if we were tall and good looking. Weird how it works so conveniently.

 

[ShadowTheEdgehog]

The moment we're old enough to realize that we're not being perceived by others as Chads is the moment our brains begin to adapt and change in ways that makes our personalites become just as disgusting to foids as our bodies are.

Some general examples of what I mean:

-Assertiveness is replaced with anxiety
-Pleasant small talk is replaced with shyness and awkwardness
-Risky, obnoxious jokes and laugh-out-loud humor is replaced with nervous smiling or polite but boring and/or forced conversation
-Slacking off, kicking it back and having fun with others is replaced with people-pleasing and dutiful self-sacrificing


If tomorrow a magical surgery was invented and we all instantly looked like Chads, we would no doubt slay, but there would still be tells in our behaviors that would cause people to be weirded out by us until our crippled personalities gradually "caught up with our looks".

are you familliar with "a field guide to earthlings"?

Library Genesis

basically an autists manual to decyphering normalfag behavior.

are you familliar with "a field guide to earthlings"?

Library Genesis

basically an autists manual to decyphering normalfag behavior.

Ford, Ian - A field guide to earthlings _ an autistic_asperger view of neurotypical behavior-Ian Ford (2010) (1).pdf

A Field Guide to Earthlings: An autistic/Asperger view behavior. of. neurotypical. Covers nuances of friendship, dating, small talk, interpersonal conflicts, image, learning styles, social communication, common sense, white lies, and much more! by Ian Ford Illustrated by Stephanie Hamilton. A...

www.docdroid.net

 

[Deleted member 19546]

Chad is loud and pushy= assertiveness, dominance, attitude, etc.
Ugly guy is loud and pushy= obnoxious, creepy, rapey, inadequate, etc.

Exactly, so the ugly guy stops acting assertively and dominant due to the backlash and negative reinforcement.

Anxiety/inhibition is adaptive, when people have no problem cutting you off, you become more cautious and worried about what you say or do.

 

[micropenis29]

are you familliar with "a field guide to earthlings"?

Library Genesis

basically an autists manual to decyphering normalfag behavior.

Ford, Ian - A field guide to earthlings _ an autistic_asperger view of neurotypical behavior-Ian Ford (2010) (1).pdf

A Field Guide to Earthlings: An autistic/Asperger view behavior. of. neurotypical. Covers nuances of friendship, dating, small talk, interpersonal conflicts, image, learning styles, social communication, common sense, white lies, and much more! by Ian Ford Illustrated by Stephanie Hamilton. A...

www.docdroid.net

I can't believe I've never come across this book. I think I'll get a lot out of it. Thanks.

 

[Uglymuggly]

Even a "loud and pushy" incel is more respected by normies than a shy and anxious incel, because it signals that there's something genetically beneficial underneath that ugliness that, evolutionary speaking, made it unacceptable for others to push them around.

The reason shyness and high-inhib is the very lowest rung of sexually attractive personality traits is that it signals that THE ONLY reason you were able to stick around and reproduce is by perfectly pleasing others and not ruffling any feathers whatsoever.

I’m shy and high Inhib cause of negative feedback I’ve received

 

[FinnCel]

High IQ observation

 

[Uglymuggly]

@micropenis29 so your saying we’d be better off if we became lower Inhib? I think that’s cope for the real incels on here. Not the fakecels

 

[micropenis29]

@micropenis29 so your saying we’d be better off if we became lower Inhib? I think that’s cope for the real incels on here. Not the fakecels

No, I'm saying normies would respect a low-inhib incel more than a high-inhib one, all else being equal. Normies love low-inhib.

I don't think it would make such incels "better off" though. And it certainly won't help them get laid. It would merely gain them more respect, and only among normies. Make of that as you will.

I'm extremely high-inhib and refuse to change. I accept the consequences of my behavior (normies will forever be repulsed by me).

 

[Uglymuggly]

No, I'm saying normies would respect a low-inhib incel more than a high-inhib one, all else being equal. Normies love low-inhib.

I don't think it would make such incels "better off" though. It would merely gain them more respect, and only among normies. Make of that as you will.

I'm extremely high-inhib and refuse to change. I accept the consequences of my behavior (normies will forever be repulsed by me).

For me my looks are the end of me. And yea I don’t see a point in trying to change behavior

 

[ShadowTheEdgehog]

I can't believe I've never come across this book. I think I'll get a lot out of it. Thanks.

np.
people like to shit on this guy because he is kind of harsh on normalfags so yeah.
its not that popular lol.

 

[micropenis29]

np.
people like to shit on this guy because he is kind of harsh on normalfags so yeah.
its not that popular lol.

That makes me think I'll like it even more. Lol.