
Sheogorath
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I can't remember ever having done that. It's a milestone I've never had in all my life.
Funny thing is even a couple popular Vtubers just got flowers for Valentine's last month and were saying "this is the first time I ever got them" and they're in their late 20s meaning they never got them as teenagers or in early 20s.
It made me think - wow, could I make that happen for a girl? Could I be her first flower-buyer? Could she be my first flower-buyee?
Like even if we didn't date and she was in another country, even just as a friend? Why don't I try more nice stuff like that?
I guess maybe I'm worried it could come across as creepy or desperate? I dunno. I worry how I'd react too, like if I got pushed out of her life after doing that for her, or if she got a boyfriend and I'm just the simp who got her flowers.
Maybe I overthink this shit. I just hate being a lolcow. Too many nice guys doing stuff like this and then getting passed over for assholes.
Funny thing is even a couple popular Vtubers just got flowers for Valentine's last month and were saying "this is the first time I ever got them" and they're in their late 20s meaning they never got them as teenagers or in early 20s.
It made me think - wow, could I make that happen for a girl? Could I be her first flower-buyer? Could she be my first flower-buyee?
Like even if we didn't date and she was in another country, even just as a friend? Why don't I try more nice stuff like that?
I guess maybe I'm worried it could come across as creepy or desperate? I dunno. I worry how I'd react too, like if I got pushed out of her life after doing that for her, or if she got a boyfriend and I'm just the simp who got her flowers.
Maybe I overthink this shit. I just hate being a lolcow. Too many nice guys doing stuff like this and then getting passed over for assholes.