If you were a prisoner of war or a captive of a gang if you begged them and apologize repeatedly and tell them you have so much good to offer the world they are likely to let you go. We hear many times of how sniper men let the enemy go or how warriors would set their enemies free showing empathy and care while foids are brutal in their rejections as if you are an asexual pointless another digit creature to be brushed under the carpet. Why were foids given rights is beyond me. Most likely by men of power who already have foids wet for them and wanted an easy access to them at the cost of the serf
