Skelly
Overlord
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"Charm and personality is more important than looks!"
Your personality DOESNT matter
Your sense of humor DOESNT matter
Your confidence DOESNT matter
But even if we did live in some fantasy lala land where personality and looks were 50/50 of the equation, it STILL wouldn't solve anything since LOOKS are the first 50%.
Even if you have the best most caring, charming, humorous personality in the world it would be completely USELESS as the girl has already set a congnitive bias upon first GLANCE (looks are perceived within milliseconds) and assigned negative traits to you without even giving the guy a CHANCE to show off his personality, and vice versa for attractive guys as positive traits are assigned to him.
And even if personality WAS the first 50%, it's shaped by your LOOKS anyways.
Ever since childhood chad got special treatment because of his looks; women wanted him and men wanted to be him, and that positive feedback shaped him into a confident, outgoing, social, and secure person as a result. (Have you ever seen a sub5 as the popular kid?)
And again, VICE VERSA IS TRUE. If your looks aren't up to par with the ever-increasing standards then you will be IGNORED, BULLIED, and MADE FUN OF, which shapes you into a meek, asocial, insecure OUTCAST as a result. LOOKS=PERSONALITY.
And the entire PREMISE of personality is wrong since what even defines what a good personality is? It's ENTIRELY dependent the person's opinion which can vary WILDLY from person to person. Therefore no matter how good your personality is, what people think of it is contingent on other people's INCONSISTENT, CONFLICTING, SUBJECTIVE PERCEPTIONS OF WHAT A GOOD PERSONALITY IS.
Your personality DOESNT matter
Your sense of humor DOESNT matter
Your confidence DOESNT matter
But even if we did live in some fantasy lala land where personality and looks were 50/50 of the equation, it STILL wouldn't solve anything since LOOKS are the first 50%.
Even if you have the best most caring, charming, humorous personality in the world it would be completely USELESS as the girl has already set a congnitive bias upon first GLANCE (looks are perceived within milliseconds) and assigned negative traits to you without even giving the guy a CHANCE to show off his personality, and vice versa for attractive guys as positive traits are assigned to him.
And even if personality WAS the first 50%, it's shaped by your LOOKS anyways.
Ever since childhood chad got special treatment because of his looks; women wanted him and men wanted to be him, and that positive feedback shaped him into a confident, outgoing, social, and secure person as a result. (Have you ever seen a sub5 as the popular kid?)
And again, VICE VERSA IS TRUE. If your looks aren't up to par with the ever-increasing standards then you will be IGNORED, BULLIED, and MADE FUN OF, which shapes you into a meek, asocial, insecure OUTCAST as a result. LOOKS=PERSONALITY.
And the entire PREMISE of personality is wrong since what even defines what a good personality is? It's ENTIRELY dependent the person's opinion which can vary WILDLY from person to person. Therefore no matter how good your personality is, what people think of it is contingent on other people's INCONSISTENT, CONFLICTING, SUBJECTIVE PERCEPTIONS OF WHAT A GOOD PERSONALITY IS.