Blackpill Even if personality DID matter, it would be useless anyways

[Skelly]

"Charm and personality is more important than looks!"

Your personality DOESNT matter
Your sense of humor DOESNT matter
Your confidence DOESNT matter

But even if we did live in some fantasy lala land where personality and looks were 50/50 of the equation, it STILL wouldn't solve anything since LOOKS are the first 50%.

Even if you have the best most caring, charming, humorous personality in the world it would be completely USELESS as the girl has already set a congnitive bias upon first GLANCE (looks are perceived within milliseconds) and assigned negative traits to you without even giving the guy a CHANCE to show off his personality, and vice versa for attractive guys as positive traits are assigned to him.

And even if personality WAS the first 50%, it's shaped by your LOOKS anyways.
Ever since childhood chad got special treatment because of his looks; women wanted him and men wanted to be him, and that positive feedback shaped him into a confident, outgoing, social, and secure person as a result. (Have you ever seen a sub5 as the popular kid?)

And again, VICE VERSA IS TRUE. If your looks aren't up to par with the ever-increasing standards then you will be IGNORED, BULLIED, and MADE FUN OF, which shapes you into a meek, asocial, insecure OUTCAST as a result. LOOKS=PERSONALITY.

And the entire PREMISE of personality is wrong since what even defines what a good personality is? It's ENTIRELY dependent the person's opinion which can vary WILDLY from person to person. Therefore no matter how good your personality is, what people think of it is contingent on other people's INCONSISTENT, CONFLICTING, SUBJECTIVE PERCEPTIONS OF WHAT A GOOD PERSONALITY IS.

 

[Yournotcold0]

Regardless of what changes, us sub5’s would always be hated

 

[fastnbulbous]

Personality is determined at conception, context just slighlty influences it

 

[Grodd]

Regardless of what changes, us sub5’s would always be hated

 

[Da_Yunez]

"Charm and personality is more important than looks!"

Your personality DOESNT matter
Your sense of humor DOESNT matter
Your confidence DOESNT matter

But even if we did live in some fantasy lala land where personality and looks were 50/50 of the equation, it STILL wouldn't solve anything since LOOKS are the first 50%.

Even if you have the best most caring, charming, humorous personality in the world it would be completely USELESS as the girl has already set a congnitive bias upon first GLANCE (looks are perceived within milliseconds) and assigned negative traits to you without even giving the guy a CHANCE to show off his personality, and vice versa for attractive guys as positive traits are assigned to him.

And even if personality WAS the first 50%, it's shaped by your LOOKS anyways.
Ever since childhood chad got special treatment because of his looks; women wanted him and men wanted to be him, and that positive feedback shaped him into a confident, outgoing, social, and secure person as a result. (Have you ever seen a sub5 as the popular kid?)

And again, VICE VERSA IS TRUE. If your looks aren't up to par with the ever-increasing standards then you will be IGNORED, BULLIED, and MADE FUN OF, which shapes you into a meek, asocial, insecure OUTCAST as a result. LOOKS=PERSONALITY.

And the entire PREMISE of personality is wrong since what even defines what a good personality is? It's ENTIRELY dependent the person's opinion which can vary WILDLY from person to person. Therefore no matter how good your personality is, what people think of it is contingent on other people's INCONSISTENT, CONFLICTING, SUBJECTIVE PERCEPTIONS OF WHAT A GOOD PERSONALITY IS.

Mix of both genes and environment, including upbringing.

 

[Stupid Clown]

yes. Your personality is entirely subconscious and shaped by your environment. You can fake a personality but you'll never be able to make your facade convincing. Doubly since you're unattractive and will automatically be perceived in a more negative light.

 

[bathlete]

you’re right, let’s say nothing mattered outside their stark bubble. you would think they’d so much as attempt to advance far in regard to beyond the bait foreshadowing their fresh perpetual wound hybridizing solipsistic crudity and those very collapsibles being encroached upon. all of their electric feels will have mattered in the gaping rift that’s the obtuse recoiling bullocks of the subconscious that snugly compartmentalize the soul to each other’s submission as what’s been eagerly annulled by the belittling truth. do i embody a penchant crisis? no, i am the personality that matters and they can only matter to a plateau even if that’s mattering to themselves. i always matter on that basis alone.

 

[Izayacel]

yes. Your personality is entirely subconscious and shaped by your environment. You can fake a personality but you'll never be able to make your facade convincing. Doubly since you're unattractive and will automatically be perceived in a more negative light.

 

[Izayacel]

You still made it about looks . If only and only personality mattered things eould be different but thats not the case here .

 

[Mleccha]

"Charm and personality is more important than looks!"

Your personality DOESNT matter
Your sense of humor DOESNT matter
Your confidence DOESNT matter

But even if we did live in some fantasy lala land where personality and looks were 50/50 of the equation, it STILL wouldn't solve anything since LOOKS are the first 50%.

Even if you have the best most caring, charming, humorous personality in the world it would be completely USELESS as the girl has already set a congnitive bias upon first GLANCE (looks are perceived within milliseconds) and assigned negative traits to you without even giving the guy a CHANCE to show off his personality, and vice versa for attractive guys as positive traits are assigned to him.

And even if personality WAS the first 50%, it's shaped by your LOOKS anyways.
Ever since childhood chad got special treatment because of his looks; women wanted him and men wanted to be him, and that positive feedback shaped him into a confident, outgoing, social, and secure person as a result. (Have you ever seen a sub5 as the popular kid?)

And again, VICE VERSA IS TRUE. If your looks aren't up to par with the ever-increasing standards then you will be IGNORED, BULLIED, and MADE FUN OF, which shapes you into a meek, asocial, insecure OUTCAST as a result. LOOKS=PERSONALITY.

And the entire PREMISE of personality is wrong since what even defines what a good personality is? It's ENTIRELY dependent the person's opinion which can vary WILDLY from person to person. Therefore no matter how good your personality is, what people think of it is contingent on other people's INCONSISTENT, CONFLICTING, SUBJECTIVE PERCEPTIONS OF WHAT A GOOD PERSONALITY IS.

Personality matters but it's subjective to each foid so is not quantifiable like looks, money and status is because each foid has a different personality so it's better just to be yourself unless you know the foid really well.