Serious Even if it’s our personality, it’s not our fault

[SuicideIsTheOnlyWay]

Even if you are incel because of your personality, science already knows what defines your personality is biochemistry and having the right amount of noradrenaline etc in your brain in the right moments, so even if you’re shy it’s because of biochemistry or a possible jackass God who made your brain this way aka nature made you to be unhappy

 

[DespressedCurryCel1]

 

[DespressedCurryCel1]

most of us are mentalcels with depression so we can’t really make us happy and motivated.

 

[Saint Cho]

Yep. Personality is important but none of us choose our personalities.

 

[SuicideIsTheOnlyWay]

most of us are mentalcels with depression so we can’t really make us un-depressed and motivated.

Exactly, at least we are humble.

 

[UnwantedVirgin]

We're all products of our environment.

 

[bigblackman39]

agreed

 

[Heartache1080GTX]

Being well adjusted = "mentally healthy" does not necesarily mean one is superior to mentalcel. I'm not saying I am, but theoretically if a man was 10% ubermensh 90% animal he would be badly adjusted in society that consisted of 99% animals. He would suffer greatly because of his genetic baggage and he would be slowly dragged down and mimic others in desperation. Statistically less chance to replicate. In a few million years humans will go back to apes and later to rat like creatures. Late hunters gatherers was pinnacle of evolution.

 

[PersonalityChad]

A good part of personality is literally genetics.

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

Re: blockland forums AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #144778723Thursday, August 28, 2014 11:36 PM CDT Well, the environment there is rather negative in my opinion, if you decide that you dislike it there then that's your individual opinion and you have complete control over it, there's multiple different types of problems there as with any forum and many new users posting threads there are often insulted and treated aggressively until the point of them causing themselves to get banned, of course the actual personality of each user varies and this isn't meant to generalize everyone on that forum into a specific group.

Re: why is the new generation of OTers suck so much AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #145035214Sunday, August 31, 2014 9:24 PM CDT Calm down, there's no reason to start an argument over something such as this, it's only going to waste your time, restrain yourselves. Also, have you ever considered that perhaps they understand your personality well enough yet?, they haven't posted in this "Sub-Section" for long so they won't instantaneously understand the "Flow" of things here, especially when there's many different Sub-Section's to choose from, complaining about is only going to cause more arguments and unnecessary aggression when it's something that we've all had to go through before.

Re: when you're having an argument with someone AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #145306894Thursday, September 04, 2014 12:47 AM CDT That's a very serious personality flaw that can easily lead to the person mixing up their argument eventually, you could state that you both have different opinions and your opinion is in disagreement with his opinion, which would be difficult for him to argue against considering that each individual have their own ideals, thus arguing further would actually show some qualities in the person which you could point out. If they are really unable to see their own mistakes, then you may need to find someone that they value that you can compare the specific flaw to which may cause them to change their opinion or realize their mistakes.

Re: Guys, is she playing hard to get with me? AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #145517283Saturday, September 06, 2014 8:19 PM CDT Why not just leave the person alone?, we have absolutely no knowledge of the true personality of either you or the people involved behind the screen. I would highly suggest that instead of obsessing over something as simple as this, you focus on something much more important such as "Academical Information", you're letting this person influence you negatively.

Re: @UnrealizedPotential AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #145697768Tuesday, September 09, 2014 1:09 AM CDT "Changing" yourself requires taking the initiative and having a desire to modify your personality to suit what you really think it should be. These are only suggestions, after-all.

Re: @UnrealizedPotential AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #145699427Tuesday, September 09, 2014 2:16 AM CDT Don't insult yourself. The point they're making is, it's unnecessary for you to center yourself around another human's view of what your personality should be constantly, these are random users of whom you've never seen outside of a computer screen anyway.

Re: tbh clara wasnt bad AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #146110506Monday, September 15, 2014 1:26 AM CDT I personally disagreed significantly with certain aspects of the user's pattern of behavior under certain circumstances and specific personality traits. Regardless however, since the user has decided to stop posting here, It's unnecessary to keep discussing information about them consistently.

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

Re: [ Content Deleted ] AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #147428831Sunday, October 05, 2014 11:20 PM CDT Not necessarily. Each community has a variety of users with different personalities, each user contributes to the over-all effects of the community because each user contributes segments of their own personality while they're communicating with other users, thus each user themselves will have a certain degree of influence on other members of the community. A community certainly does change as the duration of time expands yet it never changes completely, the members themselves simply change to a certain extent which affects the entire community, even if members have never communicated with the user.

Re: i had enough, i quit, ot AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #147584777Wednesday, October 08, 2014 7:33 PM CDT Well, each user contributes to the over-all positivity or negativity of the community as each user has a different personality and opinion which does have an effect on other users to a certain extent. Farewell and hopefully you encounter plenty of positivity in your eventual endeavors.

Re: give me your first impression AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #148086676Thursday, October 16, 2014 9:59 PM CDT Hmm? Each user has a different variation in personality.

Re: give me your first impression AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #148086676Thursday, October 16, 2014 9:59 PM CDT Hmm? Each user has a different variation in personality.

Re: girls are so complicated AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #148434422Wednesday, October 22, 2014 6:40 PM CDT The "complication" itself is caused by chemical variation per gender, each chemical has a different effect on over-all cognition in both gender's and thus contributes significantly to the behavior and personality of each individual of those genders.

Re: I hate this. AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #148451487Thursday, October 23, 2014 12:15 AM CDT Well, the people who aren't willing to accept those particular aspects of your cognitive thoughts have very limited knowledge whatsoever regarding your actual personality or the numerous problems you have. Although it will certainly be difficult, I would suggest that you simply ignore the negativity from those humans as each human certainly has "negative" aspects and none of them will be able to truly understand the complete extent of your problems.

Re: Why are some OTers the way they are? AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #148466143Thursday, October 23, 2014 1:55 PM CDT You'll eventually discover that many people actually have such a low self-esteem that they actually develop a negative personality focused on utilizing as much aggression and negativity as they're able to simply so they can focus on the negative aspects of others and thus hide their own.

Re: Favorite OTers list v2 AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #148885798Thursday, October 30, 2014 10:00 PM CDT "I know your hate for them." Well, that statement seems rather plausible. Although, perhaps the user simply appreciates certain aspects of their "personality"?

Re: "Guys/Girls are toooo complicated!" AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #149299043Thursday, November 06, 2014 6:29 PM CST "The biological mechanisms involved in the functionality between both genders can range significantly in complexity." Extending this statement further, each human has a varying genetic structure thus the personality and behavior of each individual differs to a significant degree. Over-all, humans are incapable of being perfectly and completely empathetic towards each-other, thus it's the understanding that we vary in psychological and genetic differences that significantly help us understanding another person.

Re: "I'm a dull forumer" AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #149364573Friday, November 07, 2014 9:35 PM CST There's nothing wrong with be "dull" in the perception of other humans. It can have plenty of positive aspects and none of the users stating that you're "dull" actually know about your complete personality.

Re: how OTers minds work: AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #149377663Saturday, November 08, 2014 5:13 AM CST It's entirely unreasonable to categorize each user as having this particular perspective regarding communication via this interface, regardless of the large amount of users who do participate in this pattern of behavior. Each individual has a personality and characteristics that vary from another individuals characteristics.

Re: Post here for my honest opinion on you AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #150514510Thursday, November 27, 2014 12:26 AM CST Why not just appreciate the communication between each user without publicly stating your opinion regarding their personality to the degree of borderline-favoritism?

 

[Intellau_Celistic]

My father would beat me if I hung around with my friends or verbally abused me

Re: Yeah i have Ambassador Badge AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #148305506Monday, October 20, 2014 12:03 PM CDT "im from englewood chicago. i never knew my father. i watched multiple friends get gunned down before me. my pain never ends. " Insulting other humans over an interface such as this won't solve your problems, neither will consistently trying to receive negative attention improve the situation. There's much more beneficial things that you could do.

Re: lmao my dad who's been away for like most of my life AnonyAnonymous Join Date: 2013-06-23 Post Count: 6332 #158661030Thursday, March 26, 2015 1:27 AM CDT Biologically, fertilization occurred, and that certainly wasn't a mistake. It would seem that your father is using you as a target for his own issues, likely out of internal psychological conflict for his abandonment of his offspring. Personally, I would suggest communicating with a trained professional in psychology about this as the situation is apparently causing you distress due to your lack of parental acceptance.