Chad gets it for free yes, but we ain't chad so this is the only way some of us will get it. Maybe one day UNICEF will get into the sugaring business but until then guys gotta pay unless they're in the top 1% of men. I really don't see how buying what you want (like going to the grocery store...) is being cucked. Always just assumed this was sperging out over PUAs saying we're all volcels if we have at least $200. I don't even bother paying whores anymore since I got a doll so it makes no difference to me. I don't fault unattractive men for going this route to get their dick wet, but I also understand to some incels it's not about just the sex but you can't really buy the other stuff no matter how convincing the GFE.