Here we go again...
ER was a total failure. No one denied him anything, he had like a HUGE advantage over others (rich and famous dad and access to his coffer and cars, and had actual education). Now, I'm
NOT going to justify the bullying he suffered - that would be unfair.
But the guy did commit some unprovoked actions, like tossing coffee on people. He himself said it
Honestly if some random person tossed coffee at me, whatever the reason (I don't think anything warrants that) I wouldn't be asking questions, I would just beat them on the spot, mental illness or not, autistic or not. The fact that he took some "pride" in it shows he had been in the wrong, too.
You can't throw coffee on people and expect good manners in return
Again, this is not any kind of justification for the bullying he endured.
His actions are unforgivable. He killed his 3 roommates cowardly, and 1 of the 3 victims of the shootings was also male.
Meaning it makes no sense to call his attack "mysoginistic" because he killed 4 men and 2 women
Not only that, he became some sort of "poster boy" that people who hate us use to push their own agenda. They paint us as evil, misogynistic, etc and use ER as "validation" despite 99,99% of incels just being normal human beings who want a relationship/girlfriend and can't have it due to bad genetics and/or many other problems. If ER never did that shit, we would get sensibly less hate than we get today. And his "manifesto", while truthful in many aspects, is only used in society to demonize us even more.
There's a reason they tell the "miranda warning" during an arrest -
because what we say is always supposed to be used against us in the future. And that's pretty much the purpose his manifesto serves to this day, to be shown to people in order to promote an unfair image of us as violent, hateful being,
when in reality we just want girlfriends and a meaningful relationship with them.
tldr:
ER actions made it worse for all of us, not better. We have nothing to thank him for.