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Early balding literally made me completely stop giving a fuck (not in a good way)

Saddam

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And yes I have tried everything, dutasteride, minoxidil, dermastamping, toppik etc. Hair transplant is pointless when you have extreme diffuse thinning. Started just as regular temple MPB but now it's thinning all over. It's actually just started in the past few months but it's so rapid that I'm pretty sure in 2 years I'll be an actual monk.

It's like seriously, just lmao. What the actual fuck is the point in even trying if you go bald. It literally just ages you about 20 years, NO EXAGGERATION. I passed this homeless alcoholic on the way to work who had a full head of hair on the way to work, he literally looked younger and HEALTHIER than my bald coworker who works out/keeps a perfect diet. JFL. Fuck balding seriously, and corona for that matter. The medical community should be fighting fucking tooth and nail until this REAL disease is stopped.

And lastly, may everyone who reproduces with shit genetics burn in hell forever. There is no worse crime.
 
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Balding is death
 
balding = loss of identity

I’m 200% sure balding induces the disgust reflex in females. I’ve done the analysis

god I wish I could take finasteride. My genetics are so retarded that the drug induced schizophrenia and turned me into an overweight fat tranny-like organism.
It jihaded my intelligence and my gpa dropped. So I stopped taking it
 
balding = loss of identity

I’m 200% sure balding induces the disgust reflex in females. I’ve done the analysis

god I wish I could take finasteride. My genetics are so retarded that the drug induced schizophrenia and turned me into an overweight fat tranny-like organism.
It jihaded my intelligence and my gpa dropped. So I stopped taking it
I got the brain side effects from both fin and dutasteride. Literally still take it because balding is THAT disgusting to me.

And yeah you're 100% right. It both repulses women (like, imagine seeing a beard on a woman, that's probably the female equivalent except this shit is actually fucking real), and is a complete loss of identity. If you go bald you're not whoever you used to be, you're now "the bald guy". And that's who you are. Dying is a better alternative. At least then you'll be remembered fondly...Balding is like just becoming a nonentity, it's like becoming Indian. You just fade away and are now no longer a real human, just an invisible character in the lives of those with hair.
 
I got the brain side effects from both fin and dutasteride. Literally still take it because balding is THAT disgusting to me.

And yeah you're 100% right. It both repulses women (like, imagine seeing a beard on a woman, that's probably the female equivalent except this shit is actually fucking real), and is a complete loss of identity. If you go bald you're not whoever you used to be, you're now "the bald guy". And that's who you are. Dying is a better alternative. At least then you'll be remembered fondly...Balding is like just becoming a nonentity, it's like becoming Indian. You just fade away and are now no longer a real human, just an invisible character in the lives of those with hair.
beard on a women, that’s actually really clever. I’ve been thinking of a female balding equivalent but never thought of one as good as that
 
balding = loss of identity

I’m 200% sure balding induces the disgust reflex in females. I’ve done the analysis

god I wish I could take finasteride. My genetics are so retarded that the drug induced schizophrenia and turned me into an overweight fat tranny-like organism.
It jihaded my intelligence and my gpa dropped. So I stopped taking it
Did you take it in pills?
 
beard on a women, that’s actually really clever. I’ve been thinking of a female balding equivalent but never thought of one as good as that
As always with foids they have it easy to the point that I could pretty much find one example only of a non obese one:
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But yeah I think that's a fair comparison. They just lose ANY sense of sexuality. Basically the same as going bald. It's like you just enter a separate category, literally like becoming a middle aged or old man overnight. Eugh.
 
Yea that really sucks. I started having patches of grey hair by 10yo and had maybe 1/4 of my head with grey hair in high school. Shit sucked. Made fun of all the time for no goddamn reason at all. Used to get my hair cut real short so i could hide the grey. In my 30s now and got grey beard and grey pubes and grey nose hair. And my hair? Bald haha.

I just stopped trying at 29. I knew no woman was magically going to fall into my lap and be happy with a loser virgin like me at 30+. When I got that bald patch at the top of my head I knew it was over. It really does make you lose sight of everything and just see nothing but the end (Death). It literally never began for any of us posting here. And that's what hurts the most. That we were born to fail.
 
I’m balding.

it’s not terrible in any fashion but I’m only 19 and my receding hairline is noticeable if I pull back my hair and/or even sometimes my hoodie. Eventually I will go bald indeed. My skulls big too, so I’m going to look like a literal goblin. Especially because I’m 5’5.
 
sorry man, ever consider surgerys for fake hairorsome shit
 
Even worse is when you meet a man that shaved it off and who still looks good. It is easy to accept it when you see photos of models, but meeting them in real life? You realize how shit you look.
 
I’m balding.

it’s not terrible in any fashion but I’m only 19 and my receding hairline is noticeable if I pull back my hair and/or even sometimes my hoodie. Eventually I will go bald indeed. My skulls big too, so I’m going to look like a literal goblin. Especially because I’m 5’5.
Same man i have a huge nose and ears and withoit hair they will appear to stick out 2x as much as Im used to
 
Me too. I went NW6 at 25 and completely gave up on life
 
Indeed. Balding has aged me a lot, I look 20 years older than actually I am. Until I started balding I looked "too young" for my age.
 
And yes I have tried everything, dutasteride, minoxidil, dermastamping, toppik etc. Hair transplant is pointless when you have extreme diffuse thinning. Started just as regular temple MPB but now it's thinning all over. It's actually just started in the past few months but it's so rapid that I'm pretty sure in 2 years I'll be an actual monk.

It's like seriously, just lmao. What the actual fuck is the point in even trying if you go bald. It literally just ages you about 20 years, NO EXAGGERATION. I passed this homeless alcoholic on the way to work who had a full head of hair on the way to work, he literally looked younger and HEALTHIER than my bald coworker who works out/keeps a perfect diet. JFL. Fuck balding seriously, and corona for that matter. The medical community should be fighting fucking tooth and nail until this REAL disease is stopped.

And lastly, may everyone who reproduces with shit genetics burn in hell forever. There is no worse crime.
All true.
Meanwhile women love spreading baldness genes and then rejecting bald men. I guess the problem will solve itself eventually.
 
Women are the reason men hate women
full
 
If you ever see an overweight slob who's balding, you know why.
 
Yea that really sucks. I started having patches of grey hair by 10yo and had maybe 1/4 of my head with grey hair in high school. Shit sucked. Made fun of all the time for no goddamn reason at all. Used to get my hair cut real short so i could hide the grey. In my 30s now and got grey beard and grey pubes and grey nose hair. And my hair? Bald haha.

I just stopped trying at 29. I knew no woman was magically going to fall into my lap and be happy with a loser virgin like me at 30+. When I got that bald patch at the top of my head I knew it was over. It really does make you lose sight of everything and just see nothing but the end (Death). It literally never began for any of us posting here. And that's what hurts the most. That we were born to fail.
I gave up on life when I was 13 and had sever acne covering my entire face with face so hideous I need bimax. Your brain literally shuts off/rots when it realizes how ugly you are.
 
How old are you, OP?
 
I mean my username kind of tells the story, but I started balding at 19, I am now 22 with huge temples and at the back of my head my hair is falling out too, classic MPB
Its really hard to accept this and I buzzed my head to a 3mm cut due to the quarantine and now I am trying to do the best I can out of it, I have no choice
Many people say I look like I am over 30 years old, its sad
 
I mean my username kind of tells the story, but I started balding at 19, I am now 22 with huge temples and at the back of my head my hair is falling out too, classic MPB
Its really hard to accept this and I buzzed my head to a 3mm cut due to the quarantine and now I am trying to do the best I can out of it, I have no choice
Many people say I look like I am over 30 years old, its sad
Fucking brutal man. Our parents literally deserve imprisonment.
 
I got the brain side effects from both fin and dutasteride. Literally still take it because balding is THAT disgusting to me.

And yeah you're 100% right. It both repulses women (like, imagine seeing a beard on a woman, that's probably the female equivalent except this shit is actually fucking real), and is a complete loss of identity. If you go bald you're not whoever you used to be, you're now "the bald guy". And that's who you are. Dying is a better alternative. At least then you'll be remembered fondly...Balding is like just becoming a nonentity, it's like becoming Indian. You just fade away and are now no longer a real human, just an invisible character in the lives of those with hair.
I laughed nervously reading all that because I feel exactly like that.

I feel like I'm dying as a person every day i wake up and i see my receded temples.
 
Fucking brutal man. Our parents literally deserve imprisonment.
it comes from my mothers side, its so strong that she herself is balding and all my sisters are balding too JFL I was destined to be bald but I would have never thought that life is so cruel to take it from me at 19
I laughed nervously reading all that because I feel exactly like that.

I feel like I'm dying as a person every day i wake up and i see my receded temples.
to be really honest... I buzzed my head to 3 mm about a week ago and it was a shock the first few days but even after this short period of time I dont really care about it anymore because you will realise nothing changes, you are still trapped in the same shitty life unfortunately
 
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Even worse is when you meet a man that shaved it off and who still looks good. It is easy to accept it when you see photos of models, but meeting them in real life? You realize how shit you look.
Those men are the ones spreading "just shave it off bro" and "women love bald men". I fucking hate them.
it comes from my mothers side, its so strong that she herself is balding and all my sisters are balding too JFL I was destined to be bald but I would have never thought that life is so cruel to take it from me at 19

to be really honest... I buzzed my head to 3 mm about a week ago and it was a shock the first few days but even after this short period of time I dont really care about it anymore because you will realise nothing changes, you are still trapped in the same shitty life unfortunately
I know balding more won't change a thing. I was repulsive or invisible to foids when I was NW0. So wtf is balding gonna do?

But I don't want to go bald because it'll make me hate myself even more. It'll be a fucking torture.
 
I laughed nervously reading all that because I feel exactly like that.

I feel like I'm dying as a person every day i wake up and i see my receded temples.

I wish I could give you some kind of advice or encouragement but for me it literally was EXACTLY that bad. A choice between being borderline braindead and important but with some hair left or completely bald. Absolutely fucking disgusting, wouldn't wish this disease on my worst enemy.

It only gets worse, sadly. Maybe in 30 years time it'll be better but only because everything at that point is shit. "It gets better" is such a ridiculous cope, it's like telling a kid who gets picked last in EVERYTHING "hey, at least in 60 years time you'll all be crippled old fucks or dead!". JFL. Fuck the norwood reaper seriously.
 
I know balding more won't change a thing. I was repulsive or invisible to foids when I was NW0. So wtf is balding gonna do?

But I don't want to go bald because it'll make me hate myself even more. It'll be a fucking torture.
I thought the same thing but I am so apathetic towards life that not even this bothered me lol think I am going to keep this haircut its low maintenance, and like you said I didnt get girls with nw0 so it doesnt matter, virgin stays virgin
I wish I could give you some kind of advice or encouragement but for me it literally was EXACTLY that bad. A choice between being borderline braindead and important but with some hair left or completely bald. Absolutely fucking disgusting, wouldn't wish this disease on my worst enemy.

It only gets worse, sadly. Maybe in 30 years time it'll be better but only because everything at that point is shit. "It gets better" is such a ridiculous cope, it's like telling a kid who gets picked last in EVERYTHING "hey, at least in 60 years time you'll all be crippled old fucks or dead!". JFL. Fuck the norwood reaper seriously.
how old are you btw? and I had the same problem, took finasterid 1mg every day at 19 and after 2 months I had brain fog and everything felt apathetic to me so I panicked and quitted... maybe I will start again with a lower dose, I will ask my dermatologist what he thinks of it, at the moment I just use minoxidil
 
I wish I could give you some kind of advice or encouragement but for me it literally was EXACTLY that bad. A choice between being borderline braindead and important but with some hair left or completely bald. Absolutely fucking disgusting, wouldn't wish this disease on my worst enemy.

It only gets worse, sadly. Maybe in 30 years time it'll be better but only because everything at that point is shit. "It gets better" is such a ridiculous cope, it's like telling a kid who gets picked last in EVERYTHING "hey, at least in 60 years time you'll all be crippled old fucks or dead!". JFL. Fuck the norwood reaper seriously.
I've been considering takin fin. But I'm scared of the side effects. I don't know if it's worth the risks.

And lmao that part about the kid who gets picked last and gets promised a better future.

I was that kid all my life. My childhood was shit, my teenage years were shit. I was the scrawny boyish manlet who got bullied by both guys and girls, and ignored romantically by girls. I was promised a better life. I was promised I'd mogg when I become an adult and that everyone else would become a failure (just work hard, just use your smarts).

I'm a friendless loser who hates himself. I'm depressed, I see no possible path to take that would improve my life. STEMceling hasn't done shit. I'll be lonely and dissatisfied all my life. But the people who i was told would become losers? They're happy, they have friends, gfs/wives/kids. They live much more fulfilling lives. Fuck
I thought the same thing but I am so apathetic towards life that not even this bothered me lol think I am going to keep this haircut its low maintenance, and like you said I didnt get girls with nw0 so it doesnt matter, virgin stays virgin

how old are you btw? and I had the same problem, took finasterid 1mg every day at 19 and after 2 months I had brain fog and everything felt apathetic to me so I panicked and quitted... maybe I will start again with a lower dose, I will ask my dermatologist what he thinks of it, at the moment I just use minoxidil
Does it at least hide the norwooding a bit? I've always wanted to try a 3mm shave.
 
Does it at least hide the norwooding a bit? I've always wanted to try a 3mm shave.
definitely, shorter haircuts are always better for men with anything above norwood 2. you can go down to 3mm with an electric buzzer, and if you think your norwood is too noticable I would even try a clean shave, its worth a try in my opinion, especially if you can grow a beard
 
definitely, shorter haircuts are always better for men with anything above norwood 2. you can go down to 3mm with an electric buzzer, and if you think your norwood is too noticable I would even try a clean shave, its worth a try in my opinion, especially if you can grow a beard
My beard is meh. Just barely passable. I think I'll try it in the coming months. I'm trying to dermaroll and minox to save my hair.
 
My beard is meh. Just barely passable. I think I'll try it in the coming months. I'm trying to dermaroll and minox to save my hair.
yea you can do it and use minox + microneedling to let new hair grow, its more effective because your whole scalp is exposed to the dermarolling and liquid and its much much easier to apply
 
I thought the same thing but I am so apathetic towards life that not even this bothered me lol think I am going to keep this haircut its low maintenance, and like you said I didnt get girls with nw0 so it doesnt matter, virgin stays virgin

how old are you btw? and I had the same problem, took finasterid 1mg every day at 19 and after 2 months I had brain fog and everything felt apathetic to me so I panicked and quitted... maybe I will start again with a lower dose, I will ask my dermatologist what he thinks of it, at the moment I just use minoxidil
23 and was 21 when I started. I do recall brainfog clearing up after a couple of weeks but the sex drive loss for me lasted for as long as I took fin.

Unfortunately minoxidil only is fighting an uphill battle, without a hormone blocker you'll only lose more hair. And as for lower doses I've heard mixed things, some say side effects are lesser but so are results.
 
I'm not "balding" I'm already BALD.

THRES NO HOPE
 
I've been considering takin fin. But I'm scared of the side effects. I don't know if it's worth the risks.

And lmao that part about the kid who gets picked last and gets promised a better future.

I was that kid all my life. My childhood was shit, my teenage years were shit. I was the scrawny boyish manlet who got bullied by both guys and girls, and ignored romantically by girls. I was promised a better life. I was promised I'd mogg when I become an adult and that everyone else would become a failure (just work hard, just use your smarts).

I'm a friendless loser who hates himself. I'm depressed, I see no possible path to take that would improve my life. STEMceling hasn't done shit. I'll be lonely and dissatisfied all my life. But the people who i was told would become losers? They're happy, they have friends, gfs/wives/kids. They live much more fulfilling lives. Fuck
I wouldn't worry too much about permanent fin sides after one dose or so. When I took it the first time I remember waking up the next day and having no morning wood at all, I paniccelled and stopped taking it again but my sex drive came back pretty quickly. A lot of people get no sides at all, it's at least worth trying.
 
I got diffused balding due to an acne medicine jfl. Would much rather have mild acne then the state my hair is in right now.
 
23 and was 21 when I started. I do recall brainfog clearing up after a couple of weeks but the sex drive loss for me lasted for as long as I took fin.

Unfortunately minoxidil only is fighting an uphill battle, without a hormone blocker you'll only lose more hair. And as for lower doses I've heard mixed things, some say side effects are lesser but so are results.
Do you think that my brain fog would have disappeared too after some weeks? I immediately stopped taking fin when experiencing that because I was young and it was a horrible feeling and I panicked lol

Yea I know that minox is not the best solution but my dermatologist says a lot of hair grew due to it when he examined my scalp so it seems to be working fine as for now
 
Early balding is a death sentence
 
Im already little bald and everytime i swipe my hand in my hair i see few of my hair in my hand i just laugh cuz i already cried too much :feelskek:
 
Do you think that my brain fog would have disappeared too after some weeks? I immediately stopped taking fin when experiencing that because I was young and it was a horrible feeling and I panicked lol

Yea I know that minox is not the best solution but my dermatologist says a lot of hair grew due to it when he examined my scalp so it seems to be working fine as for now
I dunno if it will disappear, no real way of finding out unless you take the plunge and just do it tbh. One thing that is true though is that there is a difference between balding and getting a slightly matured hairline, 99% of guys won't maintain a NW0 even past like 20 sadly, they go to NW1 but it stops there. That might be what happened to , but if you are past NW1.5 I'd say it's definitely the reaper.
 
I wouldn't worry too much about permanent fin sides after one dose or so. When I took it the first time I remember waking up the next day and having no morning wood at all, I paniccelled and stopped taking it again but my sex drive came back pretty quickly. A lot of people get no sides at all, it's at least worth trying.
Thanks man. How much are you taking? I've heard that the positive hair effects get huge diminishing returns, ie .25mg is barely any weaker than 1 or 5mg.
 
I dunno if it will disappear, no real way of finding out unless you take the plunge and just do it tbh. One thing that is true though is that there is a difference between balding and getting a slightly matured hairline, 99% of guys won't maintain a NW0 even past like 20 sadly, they go to NW1 but it stops there. That might be what happened to , but if you are past NW1.5 I'd say it's definitely the reaper.
My hair loss won't stop at 1.5 my endgame is nw7 but I am starting to accept that as there is not much I can do about it
Thanks man. How much are you taking? I've heard that the positive hair effects get huge diminishing returns, ie .25mg is barely any weaker than 1 or 5mg.
You can start with 0.25 and see what happens and if you take it well, then increase the dose to 0.5 mg etc.
 
Thanks man. How much are you taking? I've heard that the positive hair effects get huge diminishing returns, ie .25mg is barely any weaker than 1 or 5mg.
I take 0.5 Dut every day. Used to take 1mg fin daily.
 
I’m balding.

it’s not terrible in any fashion but I’m only 19 and my receding hairline is noticeable if I pull back my hair and/or even sometimes my hoodie. Eventually I will go bald indeed. My skulls big too, so I’m going to look like a literal goblin. Especially because I’m 5’5.
This I'm also 19 and balding, when I'm not under a direct light from above is not that noticeable but when I'm out in the sun or there is a strong light above me, you can literally see the shadows of my few hair projected on my forehead
 
@Saddam @BummerDrummer @It'sAConspiracy . which side do you think it came from? how is the mens hair on your mothers side? i hear it comes more from mother side. thats where mine came from im very sure.
 
@Saddam @BummerDrummer @It'sAConspiracy . which side do you think it came from? how is the mens hair on your mothers side? i hear it comes more from mother side. thats where mine came from im very sure.
Same. Dads not even near balding really at 60.
 

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