Dwelling on bullying

[Vosebin]

Do you ever find yourself dwelling on bad events that happened a long time ago? I'm 40 years old, but I still feel angry when I think about all the bullying I experienced since I was a child.
For the past three days, I've been thinking about a bad incident that happened to me over 30 years ago, when a man grabbed me by the ear because he didn't want us to play soccer in the park (public) behind his house.
. It's not normal.

 

[TBIcel]

Geez oldcel I am almost wizard status and turning 30 in a month I hope I do not live until 40 tbh and yes to your question sort of I look at a lot of my bullies yes they are sex havers but one is dead from an opiod OD one is a homeless crackhead another is a fat balding mcdonalds employee so lifefuel I guess. Sure I am a loser too but much less so than those fags

 

[nice_try]

No, I don't.
Stop dwelling in the past. Stop thinking about bad events that happened to you and using them as a justification for why you're a loser.
Bad things happened to everyone at some point.

 

[future&$]

Do you ever find yourself dwelling on bad events that happened a long time ago? I'm 40 years old, but I still feel angry when I think about all the bullying I experienced since I was a child.
For the past three days, I've been thinking about a bad incident that happened to me over 30 years ago, when a man grabbed me by the ear because he didn't want us to play soccer in the park (public) behind his house.
. It's not normal.

Yes, I’m trying to work through it though

 

[PersonalityChad]

Yes.

 

[Mecoja]

I do sometimes and it fills me with rage, how my dad treated me. I try not to but its impossible to forget something that destroyed the rest of your life.

 

[NorthernWind]

Happens often. It's not the event itself that's devastating but the sense of broken dignity is devastating.